In re Alycia P.
Respondent is the mother of, among others, two younger children born in 1998 and 2000. In June 2001, upon learning that
The threshold inquiry in a permanent neglect proceeding is whether petitioner established by clear and convincing evidence that it made diligent efforts to encourage and strengthen the parent-child relationship (see
Although the service plan goals for respondent included counseling at a mental health clinic, codependency counseling
Given these circumstances, we cannot blame petitioner for respondent‘s inability to gain insight into her own behavior (see Matter of Chianti FF., 205 AD2d 849, 851 [1994]), and petitioner was not obligated to accommodate respondent‘s lack of insight by formulating an alternative plan (see Matter of Michelle F., supra at 749). We agree with Family Court that there is clear and convincing evidence demonstrating that petitioner exercised diligent efforts to assist respondent, and completion of respondent‘s service plan was frustrated by her own attitude and behavior (see Matter of Torrin G., 240 AD2d 820, 821 [1997]; Matter of Kelly G., 223 AD2d 878, 879 [1996], lv denied 88 NY2d 801 [1996]; cf. Matter of Alexis X., 19 AD3d 759, 761 [2005]).
Finally, contrary to respondent‘s contention, Family Court‘s dispositional order imposes requirements upon her which provide an objective measure of her efforts to take responsibility for her children and her past neglect of their safety. By suspending the termination of respondent‘s parental rights, Family Court gave her yet another chance to acknowledge her past poor choices and benefit from appropriate counseling (see Matter of James E., 17 AD3d 871, 873 [2005]). Accordingly, we find that Family Court adequately balanced the many relevant factors and gave priority to the children‘s best interests in making its determination. We have considered the Law Guardian‘s and respondent‘s remaining contentions, and find them to be without merit.
Mercure, J.P., Peters, Mugglin and Kane, JJ., concur. Ordered that the orders are affirmed, without costs.