[¶ 1] Robert Hogue appeals from a divorce judgment challenging the trial court’s decision on custody, child support, spousal support, and attorney’s fees. We affirm the trial court’s custody and attorney fee awards, modify the child support, and reverse and remand the denial of spousal support for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.
[¶2] Robert and Kelly Hogue were married in November 1986. Their son, Robbi, was born in December 1990. Kelly was a nurse and an officer in the Air Force throughout most of their marriage. Kelly’s career required the Hogues to relocate frequently to accommоdate her duty assignments. Robert worked sporadically, sometimes full time, but usually part time, due to the frequent moves, or to attend school. After Robbi’s birth, Robert occasionally worked part time, and was a stay-at-home dad. The parties separated in October 1996. Robert filed for divorce, alleging irreconcilable differences.
[¶ 3] The trial court granted the parties a divorce and awarded them joint legal care, custody, and control of Robbi, with Kelly as the primary custodial parent, and Robert receiving liberal and reasonable visitation. 1 The trial court further ordered (1) Robert to рay $250 monthly child support; (2) both parties be denied spousal support; and, (3) Kelly to pay $800 towards Robert’s attorney’s fees. Robert appeals.
CUSTODY
[¶ 4] Robert argues the trial court erred in awarding custody of Robbi to Kelly under the best interests of the child factors, partly because he was Robbi’s primary сaretaker. Robert insinuates he is being discriminated against because of his non-traditional role as a stay-at-home dad. He also argues his relationship with, and his child support obligation *582 to, a son by a previous marriage have no relevancy in this matter.
[¶ 5] A trial court’s determinations of child custody are findings of fact.
Goter v. Goter,
[¶ 6] The best interests and welfare of the child is the paramount consideration in child custody determinations. Id. at ¶ 12. Here, the trial court applied the best interests of the сhild factors under N.D.C.C. § 14-09-06.2 and made specific findings under each factor listed. The trial court found both parties to be fit parents, and viewed them as equal under most factors, or found factors to be inapplicable to these parties, with the exception of factors c and f.
[¶ 7] The trial court found factor c favored Kelly. Section 14-09-06.2(l)(c), N.D.C.C., states: “The disposition of the parents to provide the child with food, clothing, medical care, or other remedial care....” In its findings, the trial court considered Robert’s failure to have contact with and pay support for his son by a previous marriаge as a negative factor against him. 2
[¶ 8] Applying factor f, the moral fitness of the parties, the trial court found the moral fitness of the parents was “basically equal,” with Robert’s lack of support and contact with Blake being' offset by Kelly’s “fraternization” with enlisted personnel and evidence of her alcohol abuse and treatment. 3
[¶ 9] We recognize the trial court has a difficult choice to make in deciding custody between two fit parents.
Schmidkunz v. Schmidkunz,
[¶ 10] Robert argues the trial court еrred in considering his lack of contact with Blake and his failure to make child support payments for him. Robert argues his relationship with Blake has no relevancy here, and is not applicable under N.D.C.C. § 14-09-06.2. We disagree.
[¶ 11] Robert’s expert witness, Dr. James Brandt, the psychologist who administered several psychological tests on Robert testified on cross-examination regarding Robert’s failure to pay child support for Blake. When asked if knowing a person had a child from another relationship and had not fulfilled their responsibility impacts a custody assessment, Brandt responded, “It wouldn’t affect the test rеsults. It may be something I would want to know more about. It certainly would affect my judgment as far as the stability of the person.” When asked if a person’s failure to pay a child support obligation for seven years would cause him concern, Brandt replied, “It would, definitely. Any time anybody doesn’t meet their obligations it is a matter of concern.” Dr. James Wahl-berg, a professor in social work, who prepared an evaluation of Robert’s fitness as a parent, also testified it would cause him concern if a parent failed to fulfill child support *583 obligations and failed to maintain contact •with a non-custоdial child.
[¶ 12] Robert’s relationship and child support obligation to Blake is relevant to his disposition to provide for Robbi. Even if it does not fit squarely within subsection c, it certainly is a factor which may be considered by the trial court under subdivision m. Section 14-09-06.2(l)(m), N.D.C.C., states: “Any other factors considered by the court to bе relevant to a particular child custody dispute.” The trial court’s findings are not clearly erroneous, as they are supported by the evidence.
[¶ 13] Robert argues he should be awarded custody because he has been Rob-bi’s primary caretaker, and he meets the best interests standard to bе awarded custody. We disagree.
[¶ 14] Robert concedes N.D.C.C. § 14-09-06.2 provides no reference to a “primary caretaker,” and the designation has never gained a presumptive status in this state.
Remiche,
[¶ 15] Even if we were to elevate primary caretaking to a presumptive status, Robert has not shown he is entitled to the status. Nowhere in its findings did the trial court refer to Robert as Robbi’s “primary caretaker.” The trial court recognized Robert performed a significant role in Robbi’s care. In its finding, the court stated: “The Court finds each party has been a good parent to their son. The Plaintiff has been primarily a ‘stay at home dad’ while the Defendant has been employed full-time with the United States Air Force for the majority of the marriage.”
[¶ 16] A primary caretaker is identified as: “ ‘the parent who provides the child with daily nurturance, care and support. For example, the following have been held to be indicia of primary caretaker status: (1) preparing and planning meals; (2) bathing, grooming and dressing; (3) purchasing, cleaning and care of clothing; (4) medical care, including nursing and trips to physicians; (5) arranging for social interaction among peers; (6) arrаnging alternative care, i.e., babysitting, day-care; (7) putting child to bed at night, waking child in the morning; (8) disciplining child, i.e., teaching general manners and toilet training; (9) educating, i.e., religious, cultural, social, etc.; (10) teaching elementary skills, i.e., reading writing and arithmetic....’”
Reimche,
[¶ 17] Here, Robert and Kelly’s parental involvement evidences extensive co-parenting, even if Robert spent more time with Robbi. While Kelly worked full time, she often worked twelve hour shifts, giving her several consecutive days off. On her days off, and in the evenings, Kelly cared for Robbi. The record is replete with evidence of both parents’ involvement in Robbi’s care-taking. For every factor associated with the role of primary caretaker, evidence in the record supports that both parents jointly shared those resрonsibilities. We do not believe the trial court erred by not designating *584 Robert as the primary caretaker, even though he was a “stay-at-home dad.”
[¶ 18] Robert asserts he is being treated unfairly because he is a man in a non-traditional role. “Gender bias in judicial proceedings is wholly unacceptable.”
Dalin,
[¶ 19] In
Porter v. Porter,
[¶ 20] The record reflects both parents were fit and were activе in Robbi’s care— good parents, making this a difficult decision in a close case. Because there is evidence in the record to support the trial court’s findings, we cannot say the trial court erred by placing custody with Kelly.
CHILD SUPPORT
[¶21] Robert argues the trial court erred in its child support award by failing to reсognize his multiple support obligation. We agree.
[¶22] Child support determinations are findings of fact, governed under the “clearly erroneous” standard of review.
Hieb v. Hieb,
SPOUSAL SUPPORT
[¶23] Robert argues the trial court erred in faffing to award rehabilitative spousal support.
[¶24] Determinations of spousal support are findings of fact, and the trial court’s determination will not be set aside unless it is clearly erroneous.
Orgaard v. Orgaard,
[¶25] When making a spousal support determination, the trial cоurt must consider the relevant factors under the
Ruff-Fisher
guidelines.
Lohstreter v. Lohstreter,
[¶ 26] The trial court’s findings did not mention the Ruff-Fisher guidelines. The only finding on spousal support states: “The Court finds that neither party is entitled to spousal support in this case.” The trial court has not given any rationale for its finding. It appears Robert may have been disadvantaged by the marriage — by the many moves due to Kelly’s military career and by being primarily a stay-at-home dad.
[IT 27] The record reflects Robert is working full time as a sales clerk at Menards. Although Robert has completed an associate degree in electro-mechanical drafting, this does not eliminate the possibility he may be in need of rehabilitation.
See Lohstreter,
ATTORNEY FEES
[¶28] Robert argues the trial court abused its discretion in awarding him only $800 in attorney fees. We disagree.
[¶29] The trial court has discretion under N.D.C.C. § 14-05-23, in awarding attorney fees. We will not disturb the trial court’s decision regarding attorney fees on appeal unless the party affirmatively establishes an abuse of discretion.
Cermak v. Cermak,
[¶ 30] The trial court, in awarding attоrney fees, must balance one party’s need against the other party’s ability to pay.
Cermak,
CONCLUSION
[¶ 31] We affirm the trial court’s determination of the custody and attorney fee awards, modify the child support award, and reverse and remand the spousal support determination for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.
Notes
. We recently held the designation of "joint legal custody” is meaningless, absent a specific definition.
Dickson v. Dickson,
. Robert had a son by a previous marriage, Blake, who he admittedly has lost contact with. Robert had a $100 monthly child s.upport obligation for that child, of which he only paid $900 from the divorce in May of 1986 until June of 1994. Robert only began making payments after enforcement proceedings were brought against him.
. There were allegations that Kelly was seeing another man, a relationship she ended prior to its elevating to an affair. Kelly also voluntarily underwent treatment for alcohol abuse.
