Ladd, C. J.
In March, 1898, the defendant employed the plaintiff as a domestic in his household, and she continued as such until November 20th following. According to her testimony, she had become engaged to marry the defendant in May or June, and, because of her love for him and expectation of a home¿ had yielded to his embraces. She had accompanied him on several occasions, as on the 4th of July, to the county fair, and possibly to town, and subsequently to her departure he had repeatedly taken her out riding. He denied having been engaged to or uhdul'y intimate with her, and explained that she simply rode with him in attending to business matters. The explanations were not such as the jury was bound or likely to accept. The evidence was in conflict, but the finding of an agreement to marry in April following, which he *592failed, on demand, to fulfill, has such support in the evidence as to preclude any interference on our part.
1. breach of marriage?1 baste of recovery.
2. same: basis of recovery: instruction. I. Several exceptions are taken to the court’s instructions on the measure of damages. The jury was told that:. “In this connection you may consider what, if anything,, the evidence may show as to the pecuniary circumstances of defendant; and the amount, of damages allowed should be'such as will fairly compensate plaintiff for injury to her feelings and .affections, if there were such, as well as the loss of marriage and the station in life she would have-occupied as a result of the marriage, if there was an agreement for marriage, as claimed; and also taking into consideration what the evidence may show as to the character of the plaintiff. Even though you may find plaintiff entitled to recover, the result of any sexual relations between the parties cannot be considered as an element of damages. ’ ’ First, it is said that there was no evidence of' defendant’s financial condition. This is a mistake. He testified that he owned a house and lot in Mt. Pleasant,, for which he had paid $1,000, and other evidence showed that he lived on “his farm” and rented another. True, the exact extent or value of his possessions was not disclosed, but the same definiteness is not required in such a case as where the estimates given form the direct basis of' the verdict. Such evidence is material only in so far as it might aid in showing the station or condition in life which would have been secured by a .consummation of the contract. Vierling v. Binder, 113 Iowa, 337; Rime v. Rater, 108 Iowa, 61; Holloway v. Griffith, 32 Iowa, 409. But it is said the purpose was not stated. It will be noticed that, while the instruction allows pecuniary circumstances. to be considered, compensation is based on . , (1) injury to the feelings and affections; (2). loss of marriage and the station in life she would have secured. While the instruction is not as clear as could be: *593desired, we think the jury must have understood such consideration to have had reference to what follows, rather than ability to pay damages as suggested. In the absence of a request for more specific statement of the law, that given cannot be treated as erroneous.
3 howpleaded. II. Again, it is said that, though the jury is allowed to consider plaintiff’s character, the effect of. bad character as tending to reduce damages is not stated. Nor should it have been. True, want „of chastity before or after the alleged promise is a ciroumstance tending to lessen damages. Denslow v. Van Horn, 16 Iowa, 476. But to be available, it must be pleaded in mitigataion. See Royal v. Smith, 40 Iowa, 616. Alleging it as a defense is not enough. Under section 3593 of the Code, “no mitigating circumstances shall-be proved unless pleaded except such as are shown or grow out of the testimony introduced by the adverse party.” “A party may allege and prove a partial defense, and may do so as to matter in mitigation; but it must be pleaded as such.” Davenport Gaslight & Coke Co. v. City of Davenport, 15 Iowa, 6, 19; Peck v. Parchen, 52 Iowa, 46, 51. In Ronan v. Williams, 41 Iowa, 680, mitigating circumstances were stated generally in the answer, and, in approving the ruling which sustained a demurrer thereto, the court said: “Any facts of which evidence is' legally admissible may, in cases of this kind, be pleaded' to mitigate or otherwise reduce the damages. Code,‘section 2682. But when such facts are pleaded they must hot be set up as a defense or justification when they do not amount to that. . They must be pleaded as mitigating circumstances, or as going to reduce the damages,, and not as a full defense.” Not having been pleaded by way of mitigation, the court rightly omitted reference to bad char? acter as a circumstance tending to reduce damages.
*5944 same-dam-g; |£?uo" aence of-III. Another fault found with the instruction is that the jury is told that, “the result of any sexual'relations between the parties cannot be considered as an element of damages.” This, it is argued, does not prohibit the jury from taking into account the alleged seduction and sexual intercourse; that the result — conception and birth of an illegitimate child— only are excluded. The criticism necessarily involves the assumption that seduction, before it can be considered in aggravation of damages, must be alleged in the petition. Such appears to be the rule. Though. the proximate result, it is by no means the natural or necessary one to be implied from a general statement of the breach of promise. Allowance because of it is in the nature of special damages, to be specifically alleged, especially so in view of our statute authorizing an unmarried female to maintain an action for her own seduction. Ordinarily, a distinct state of facts is involved, which are traversable by the defendant; and, when not alleged, seduction should not be considered an element of damages. Cates v. McKinney, 48 Ind. 562 (17 Am. Rep. 768;) Leavitt v. Cutler, 37 Wis. 46; Tyler v. Salley, 82 Me. 128 (19 Atl. Rep. 107). See Geiger v. Payne, 102 Iowa, 581. The evidence, however, may be received as bearing on plaintiff’s claim of a promise. McConahey v. Griffey, 82 Iowa, 564. But we think the language of the instruction not fairly subject to the construction contended for. “Sexual relations” ought not to be treated as synonymous with “sexual intercourse.” The latter is as much the result thereof as conception or the birth of a child, and evidently all were intentionally included in the expression used by the court. All were properly excluded from consideration, and not merely the intercourse, as in the instruction requested by the defendant.
IY. The aunt and grandfather hereinbefore mentioned had testified to statements of plaintiff to the effect that she had been unduly intimate with one Davis. She *595-not only denied having made them, but was allowed to testify that they were not true in fact. As she was a party to the action, such admissions, if made, tended to establish the matter said to have been admitted, and hence her evidence was properly received in rebuttal.
The ruling on the objection to'one of the jurors was ■correct.
Y. The jury returned a verdict for $4,500. To avoid ■a new trial, plaintiff was compelled to remit $1,500 of this. Appellant insists that what remains is an excessive allowance. It is enough to say, without going into details, that •a majority of the court, after a careful examination of the -record, is not inclined to interfere. — Aeeirmed.