These are appeals from two decrees entered by a Probate Court in connection with a libel for divorce. One dismissed the libel; the other ordered the libellant to pay into court the sum of $3,000 and directed the register to pay this sum to the libellee’s attorney.
1. The libel, as amended, alleged adultery on the part of the libellee with a named corespondеnt. 1 The appeal from the decree dismissing the libel comes here with a report of the evidence and a report of material facts. The facts may be summarized as follows: The parties were married in 1934 and for many years have resided in Bedford. The libellant is “well past middle age” and the libéllee is “somewhat younger.” Of this marriage there are two daughters, the ages оf whom at the time of the hearing below were twelve and fourteen. In July of 1949 the libellee and the children went to Provincetown to spend their vacation. The libellant did not accompany them but the vacation was with his consent and approval and he provided the necessary funds for it, including the rent for a small apart *589 ment in which they lived. At this time and for some time prior the rеlations between the spouses had not been harmonious. The judge found that while at Provincetown the libellee committed adultery with the corespondent. This finding was amply justified by the evidence and is not here challenged. The issues raised by this appeal are (1) whether the libellee’s conduct was condoned, and (2) whether there was connivance on the part of thе libellant.
The judge found that the libellant had condoned his wife’s misconduct. The libellant argues that this conclusion was inconsistent with the subsidiary findings and is not supported by the evidence. The libellant’s suggestion that the defence of condonation may not be open, because not pleaded, is without merit. Condonation is an affirmative defence which ordinarily ought to be pleaded, and in the absence of such pleading a party cannot as of right intro-, duce evidence on the issue.
Sanderson
v.
Sanderson,
*590 The facts with respect to condonation are these. Early in September, shortly after the libellee had returned from Prоvincetown, the libellant, who had learned of his wife’s adulterous relations with the corespondent, signed the libel and it was served on the libellee on September 12, 1949. At that time the libellant told the libellee to leave the house and offered her some money with which to Uve elsewhere; he forbade her to take the children with her. The libellee refused to leave and sincе that time both parties have continued to live in the same house up to and including December 1, 1949, the last day of the hearing in the court below. The house is owned by the libellant, and his place of business, which consists of a laboratory where a proprietary medicine is manufactured, is located near by on land forming a part of the estate.
Other facts we state in the language of the judge. “The parties had no sexual intercourse after February, 1949, but in view of their ages and their obvious distaste for each other their abstention from such relations is not of decisive importance. They ate at the same table and occupied adjoining but not directly connected bedrooms. 1 In all respects except sex relations they livе as they have lived for many years. The libellant has not tried to end the libellee’s occupation of the house except by asking her to leave. 2 Her alternative to remaining in the home was and is to abandon personal care of the children to a maid of all work who was a witness at the trial and the court finds that the children ought not to be left wholly to the maid’s cаre. The libellee takes good care of the children who are bright and well brought up and devoted to her. It would not be for their benefit now to be forcibly separated from her, notwithstanding her past misconduct. She was justified in refusing to leave them on the night of September 12 and since then was justified morally, if not legally, in staying to *591 take care of them in the only place availаble to her. The libellant has ample means to live elsewhere and it was reasonable and easy for him to have left the house at any time after September 12.”
Concerning the libellant’s intent the judge found as follows: “There was no direct or express evidence upon the libellant’s motive or intention in respect of condonation. The libellant had no conscious motive or intention about condonation one way or the other, because he had no knowledge of the concept of condonation as affecting his libel. This conclusion is implied from his attitude in court and the course of the trial. The libellant believed that the mere fact that he owned the house and told her to leave warranted his staying there. He was being advised at all times by competent counsel and did not try to qualify the appearance of living with the libellee as his wife.”
We are of opinion that the judge erred in concluding that the libellant had condoned the libellee’s misconduct. “Con-donation is a state of mind to be determined upon all the evidence, including rational inferences.”
Drew
v.
Drew,
Since, as we hold, a finding of condonation was not justified, it becomes necessary to determine whether the defence of connivance was established. 1 The findings of the judge relating to this issue were as follows: “The libellee committed adultery with the corespondent in the summer of 1949 at Provincetown. Her association with the corespondent earlier in the year caused the libellant to have justifiable suspicions of adultery as early as May, 1949. The libellee and her two children lived in an apartment in Provincetown from eаrly July, 1949, until about September 1, 1949, and the corespondent lived in the same apartment more or less of that time and the adultery took place there. The libellant paid the rent of the apartment. On July 29, 1949, the libellant sent a detective to Provincetown to watch the libellee. He reported to the libellant facts that showed that the libellee and the corespоndent were living in Provincetown with adulterous relations and the libellant received the report before he wrote the letter to the libellee dated August 3, 1949, which is in evidence as exhibit 4. In this letter the libellant wrote, 'When you left I told you that I thought five weeks would be enough for the Provincetown cottage. I am willing to extend this to six weeks or to *593 August 22, when you will return home.’ On August 12,1949, he wrote the letter exhibit 5 tо her at Provincetown. This letter relates to July bills of the family at Provincetown and expresses no criticism of her conduct there. The libellant continued to pay the expenses of his wife and children at Provincetown until September 1, 1949, and made no complaint to her of her acts there before said date. Whether or not the facts stated constitute collusion [sic] seems to be a question of law.”
We are of opinion that the defence of connivance was not established. The governing principles have been discussed in many decisions of this court. See
Morrison
v.
Morrison,
The judge found that the adultery was committed in the summer of 1949 in Provincetown. He does not specify any particular time. Indeed, on the evidence he could not have *594 done otherwise. His finding of adultery undoubtedly was based on the libellee’s cohabitation with the corespondent, and on the undisputed evidence that existed, except for brief intervals, from July 20 to September 1. There is nothing to show that the libellant knew of this cohabitation until it was reported by the detective around the first of August. It is reasonable to infer that adultery had been committed prior to the time of the detective’s report. It cannot therefore be said that, when the libellant agreed in his letter of August 3 to extend the libellee’s stay until August 22, he was creating an opportunity for adultery that had not theretofore existed. In other words, this is not a case of smoothing “the path to the adulterous bed,” for when the letter was written that path had already been trodden. The burden was on the libellee to prove connivance, an affirmative defence, and on this record that burden has not been sustained.
2. Shortly after the libel was brought the libellee filed a motion asking for an allowance to enable her to defend the libel. No action appears to have been taken on this motion prior to or during the hearing. On February 24, 1950, nearly three months after the entry of the decree dismissing the libel, the judge, presumably under G. L. (Ter. Ed.) c. 208, § 38, as appearing in St. 1933, c. 288,
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entered an order that the libellant “on or before March 24, 1950, pay into the court the sum of three thousand dollars as an allowance to said libellee. Said sum may be paid by the register to the libellee’s attorney.” In view of the similarity in the wording of § 38 in its present form to G. L. (Ter. Ed.) c. 215, § 45, the court now undoubtedly has power to award costs and expеnses, which may include counsel fees, and may order them to be paid to counsel for the opposing party. See
Whitney
v.
Whitney,
In
Untersee
v.
Untersee,
Since the matter of counsel fees will arise upon the entry of a new decree and the point has been argued by counsel, -we deem it appropriate to discuss whether the amount awarded below was excessive. In connection with the order awarding counsel fees to the libellee the judge made no findings of fact. Whether any evidence was introduced at the
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hearing does not appear. Ordinarily we would not be in a position to pass on the correctness of an award in such circumstances. See
Boynton
v.
Tarbell,
Where payments are to be made out of the property of litigants to or for the benefit of counsel who may not have been employed by those whose estates are thus diminished, the standard is not the same as that applied in an action by an attorney against a client with whom he has voluntary contractual relations.
Frost
v.
Belmont,
The decree dismissing the libel is reversed, and a decree is to be entered granting a divorce on the ground of adultery. The new decree may also include such provisions relating to custody and support as the court may in its discretion deem proper, and it may also include an award of costs and expenses to the libellee consistent with this opinion. The decree awarding counsel fees to the libellee’s counsel is reversed. Costs and expenses of these appeals may be allowed to the appellee or her counsel in the discretion of the Probate Court.
Silke
v.
Silke,
So ordered.
Notes
The libel also alleged cruel and abusive treatment and the libellee sets up а similar charge in her answer by way of recrimination. These allegations, however, need not concern us since the judge found that they were not sustained' and these findings are not here challenged.
It appears from the evidence that during this period the children, who had previously slept in another part of the house, have slept in a room adjoining that of the libellеe.
a The libellee conceded in her testimony that she was asked many times to leave.
In discussing this aspect of the case the judge used the word “collusion” but he undoubtedly meant connivance. Connivance was pleaded by the libellee and both parties have argued the case as presenting this issue rather than collusion and we shall deal with it on that b'asis. There was no evidence whatsoever tending to show collusion between the parties.
That section reads: “In any proceeding under this chapter, whether original or subsidiary, the court may, in its discretion, award costs and expenses, or either, to either party, whether or not the marital relation has terminated. In any case wherein costs and expenses, or either, may be awarded hereunder to a party, they may be awarded to his or her counsel, or may be apportioned between them."
