9 Or. 452 | Or. | 1881
By the Court,
The respondent commenced this suit in the circuit court for Marion county, on February 3, 1881. On the 5th of the same month, the appellant also commenced a suit for divorce in the same court. The ground in each was 11 cruel and inhuman treatment, and personal indignities, rendering life bur
The evidence is quite voluminous, but we deem it unnecessary to discuss it here at any great length. We should hesitate long before affirming the decree of divorce on the ground of direct misconduct on the part of the husband alone. lie was inattentive to the wants and comforts of his wife, and in his conversation with her, and in her presence, coarse and profane. But such seem to have been his general character and habits. It does not appear from the evidence, however, that he was intentionally unkind, as a general rule, or wanting in a proper degree of affection for her.
But the appellant had one son and two daughters, by a former wife, who were grown up, and who seem to have possessed the unfavorable characteristics and offensive habits of their paternal relative, without the sentiments of affection and regard for their step-mother which he entertained, and which, though not excusing, did unquestionably mitigate the harshness of his conduct, and render it more easily to be endured.
It appears from the testimony, that apprehending difficulty if she should attempt to live with the appellant, in the same house with these children, she made it a condition of her intermarriage with him, that he should provide for them elsewhere, and to which he agreed. He did not keep his promise, and although it nowhere satisfactorily appears in the evidence that Mrs. Hall was lacking in kindness and proper regard for the comfort and welfare of her step-daughters, it does appear, plainly enough, that they not only failed to render a due measure of assistance in discharging the duties of the common household, but were habitually disobedient and disrespectful toward her, and did not hesitate, without any provocation or excuse, to apply to her insulting epithets, of a character so coarse and vulgar as would have shocked the sensibilities of a woman of ordinary refinement beyond the point of endurance.
There can be no question, we think, upon the evidence, that she left her husband’s house, and sought this divorce, on account of this ill-treatment by her step-daughters, and only after she had learned from sore experience that she could not live in peace and safety under the same roof with them; and upon the actual and definite refusal of her husband to send them away, or pi’ovide for them elsewhere. All these facts were within his knowledge, and he either could not, or would not, control his daughters, or comply with 1ns wife’s request to send them away, or make other provision for them.
In our judgment, the appellant by this course, adopted the responsibility of their misconduct towards his wife, and made their cruel and humiliating treatment his own. And we think, in connection with his own defaults in the discharge of marital duties, it was sufficient to render the respondent’s life burdensome, and that there is sufficient ground to believe that such was its effect. At least, we are not satisfied to disturb . the decree of the court below in the matter.
The witnesses were examined orally in the presence of that court, and a better opportunity afforded it to judge correctly of their credibility than we can hstve, with only tlieir written testimony before us. We are also satisfied that the custody of Walter Wade Hall, the minor child of said marriage, was properly awarded to the respondent.
The circuit court, after granting the divorce to the respondent, together with the custody of the said minor child, proceeded to enter a decree in her favor, in general terms, for the undivided one-third of all the real property then owned by
- That it is in conflict with the views of this court in Bamford v. Bamford, 4 Oregon, 30, there can be no doubt; but it is supported by the opinion of Judge Heady, in Barrett v. Failing, decided June 27, 1880, in the U. S. Circuit Court for Oregon. He did not decide the point, however; nor was it decided in Wetmore v. Wetmore, determined in this court subsequent to the decision in Bamford v. Bamford, supra, and reported in 5 Oregon, 469, which was cited as sustaining the same view.
After as thorough an examination as we have been able to give the subject, we are not satisfied that the principles enunciated in Bamford v. Bamford are incorrect, and we feel constrained to acknowledge its authority as decisive upon the question before us.
The decree, so far as if attempts to affect the real property of the appellant, is reversed, but in all else affirmed; each party to pay his or her own. costs on appeal.
The decree of the court below, dismissing the suit of the appellant, is affirmed, with costs to the respondent.
Chief Justice Lord, not being satisfied of the sufficiency of the evidence to justify the decree, expresses no opinion..