Goodman v. ForsenGoodman v. Forsen
¶ 1 In 2013, the legislature amended
¶ 2 In this ease, the court ordered visitation under
FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
¶ 3 Tashina Forsen (“Mother”) gave birth to a daughter (“Child”), out of wedlock, in April 2005. Mother never married Child’s father, and his parental rights were eventually severed.
¶ 4 Mother began dating Nicole Goodman in mid-2006, and the couple moved in together in November 2006. With the exception of one or more brief separations, Mother and
¶ 5 Mother opposed visitation, explaining to a court-appointed parenting-conference provider that Goodman fought with her current girlfriend in front of Child, and the fights upset Child. According to Mother, she and Goodman had mutually engaged in domestic violence during their relationship, and Mother did not want Child to be exposed to similar interactions between Goodman and her girlfriend. The parties agreed that Mother had struck Goodman during a 2008 altercation but disputed whether Goodman had ever struck Mother. Goodman acknowledged that she and her current girlfriend had argued in front of Child, and she stated that she had yelled and slammed a door. Child spontaneously informed the parenting-conference provider that Goodman and her girlfriend “keep fighting over and over again,” and reported that Goodman was “really mean” to the girlfriend, “throw[ing] stuff, yell[ing] at her, and slam[ming] stuff.” Child told the provider that she would like to visit Goodman if she and Mother did not fight.
¶ 6 Mother also took issue with Goodman’s manner of disciplining Child. Though Mother and Goodman had agreed at the outset of their relationship that Goodman would not discipline Child, this changed as their relationship progressed. Goodman acknowledged that she had spanked Child as a form of discipline. According to Mother, she had asked Goodman not to spank Child, and she felt that Goodman spanked Child too hard. Mother further testified that Goodman had pinched Child’s arm and struck her face.
¶ 7 The court concluded that Goodman was entitled to visitation under
¶ 8 Mother timely appeals.
DISCUSSION
¶ 9
In deciding whether to grant visitation to a third party, the court shall give special weight to the legal parents’ opinion of what serves their child’s best interests and consider all relevant factors including:
1. The historical relationship, if any, between the child and the person seeking visitation.
2. The motivation of the requesting party seeking visitation.
3. The motivation of the person objecting to visitation.
4. The quantity of visitation time requested and the potential adverse impact that visitation will have on the child’s customary activities.
5. If one or both of the child’s parents are deceased, the benefit in maintaining an extended family relationship.
¶ 10 In Troxel v. Granville, a plurality of the Supreme Court held that a court “must accord at least some special weight to the parent’s own determination” of whether the parent’s child would benefit from visitation with a grandparent.
¶ 11 “Special weight” was not defined in Troxel, see
¶ 12 Though we agree with the overall thrust of these holdings, we decline to adopt their language. In our view, Oliver’s “extreme” deference standard is an overstatement of the meaning of the term “special weight.” We disagree with Oliver’s holding that constitutional strict scrutiny applies to the visitation decision—that standard was not adopted by the Troxel plurality. And the C.T.G. standard creates a formal presumption and burden of proof under Colorado law that our legislature has not enacted. Though we do not adopt the C.T.G. formulation literally, however, it is based on the same considerations that guide our decision in this case.
¶ 13 Our interpretation of
¶ 14 That is not to say that a fit parent’s decision must always be upheld. See McGovern,
¶ 15 Here, the court made extensive findings regarding Child’s best interests. But on this record, the court’s rejection of Mother’s opinion, where Mother was undisputedly a fit parent, demonstrates that it placed a burden on Mother that the statute does not allow.
¶ 16 The court explained its view of the burden of proof twice, first informing the parties that it “expect[ed] [Mother’s counsel] to present evidence as to why it would be contrary to Child’s best interests to have some kind of visitation with Ms. Goodman.” The court then reformulated the burden:
“I didn’t mean to say it exactly like that.... I’m not putting the burden on [Mother]. I’m just saying you’ll need to explain to me. I don’t think it’s enough for a parent to say, ‘It’s not in my child’s best interests not to have visitation.’ I need to have some explanation of that. That’s all I meant is I don’t want a conclusory statement. I want to understand the basis for [M]other’s opinion.”
Neither of these formulations was consistent with the meaning of “special weight” under the statute.
¶ 17 Moreover, notwithstanding the court’s credibility determination, Mother’s concerns were not plainly contrary to the undisputed evidence. Undisputed evidence established that even if Mother’s descriptions of Goodman’s comportment were exaggerated, Goodman had, at a minimum, spanked Child over Mother’s objection and exposed Child to Goodman’s interpersonal conflicts.
¶ 18 Though the court carefully considered many appropriate factors, it erred by discounting
CONCLUSION
¶ 19 We reverse and remand for proceedings consistent with this decision. We deny both parties’ requests for attorney’s fees on appeal under
Notes
. Consistent with the evidence regarding Goodman’s conflicts with her girlfriend, the court ordered that the girlfriend could not be present during Goodman's visits with Child.
. In its visitation order, the court imposed a number of restrictions on Mother’s communication with Child concerning the case and Goodman. We agree with Mother that any order restraining speech is constitutionally suspect, but note that we have recognized that the court may regulate disparaging comments by a parent to a child. Nash v. Nash,