OPINION OF THE COURT
On this appeal, we revisit the question of whether agreements to arbitrate the custody of minor children should be enforced by New York State courts. We hold that they should not be enforced.
The salient facts of this case may be summarized briefly. The plaintiff Miriam (Ungar) Glauber and the defendant Baruch Glauber were divorced by judgment of the Supreme Court, Kings County, dated May 15, 1985. The stipulation signed April 1, 1985, survived the judgment, and the court retained jurisdiction for purposes of enforcing the provisions contained therein "to the extent permitted by law”. The stipulation provided, among other things, for child support, visitation, and custody of the parties’ minor son, Zishe, born November 29, 1983. The stipulation also provided for resolution of disputes as follows: "If there arises any difference of opinion between the parties as to the terms of this agreement, the interpretation of these terms, or other matters which form the subject matter of this stipulation, this disagreement shall not be brought before any Civil Court but shall be brought before [a named Rabbi] for decision. His decision as to the matter shall be final. If for some reason he cannot decide the matter then the matter shall be brought before [a named Rabbi], If he also, for some reason, cannot decide the matter, then each party shall pick a dayan in accordance with Jewish law. The two dayans shall pick a third dayan and these three dayans (dayan in Hebrew means Judge) shall decide the matter and their decision shall be final”.
Under the terms of the stipulation the plaintiff was to have custody until Zishe reached the "age of education,” defined as no later than six years old. Custody was then to revert to the defendant. A few days after Zishe’s sixth birthday, the defendant wrote to the plaintiff and made a custody demand. Because she believed that her son’s well-being would be jeopardized if she acceded to the demand, the plaintiff refused. She ultimately sought the aid of the Supreme Court, moving inter alia, for permanent custody. The defendant cross-moved for arbitration pursuant to CPLR article 75, pursuant to the arbitration clause. The court granted the cross motion and
Arbitration clauses are commonly found in separation agreements and can serve useful purposes. The arbitration process can be less formal, expedient, and less costly than litigation, and can even provide the parties an opportunity to have their dispute heard by a person or persons they believe to be especially well qualified (see, Bowmer v Bowmer,
There is little doubt that as courts have become more and more congested there has been a concomitant rise in resort to arbitration. Over the last 25 years it has become a preferred method for the settlement of many controversies (see, Sablosky v Gordon Co.,
Given the lack of a presumption in favor of either parent embodied in the Domestic Relations Law, the loser in a custody dispute would be hard pressed to prove the award "totally irrational” or that granting custody to the victor violates strong public policy (see, Domestic Relations Law §§ 70, 240). As far as limitations on the arbitrator’s power are concerned, arbitration clauses are now read expansively. Indeed, in setting forth the rule that broad arbitration clauses grant the arbitrator the power to reach all the substantive issues covered by an agreement unless a specific exception is provided in the arbitration clause itself, the Silverman Court specifically overruled conflicting earlier precedents (see, Matter
In view of the foregoing, it has become increasingly important to identify at the threshold those subjects which should not be arbitrated — those exceptions which have been recognized "as so interlaced with strong public policy considerations that they have been placed beyond the reach of the arbitrators’ discretion” (Matter of Associated Teachers v Board of Educ.,
It is already well established by both statute and case law that contracts entered into by the parents with regard to the fate of their children are not binding on the courts. Domestic Relations Law §§70 and 240 impose the responsibility upon the courts to malee custody and visitation orders based upon the best interests of the child. Notwithstanding that custody agreements between parents are, in the usual case, to be given priority (see, Matter of Nehra v Uhlar,
Enforcing arbitration provisions such as those at bar would be contrary to the foregoing authority because an agreement to arbitrate the issue of custody is indistinguishable from an agreement to give custody (Agur v Agur,
Although the arbitration sought in this case was to be held before a religious tribunal, we emphasize that the policy we reassert here is a neutral one. As indicated previously an issue found to be appropriate for arbitration may be arbitrated before a religious forum (see, Matter of Meisels v Uhr,
In the absence of a fully developed record we will not, as the appellant requests, make our own findings and award custody to her.
Accordingly, the order is reversed insofar as appealed from, on the law, without costs or disbursements, that branch of the defendant’s cross motion which was to compel arbitration of the issue of custody is denied, and the matter is remitted to the Supreme Court, Kings County, for a determination by the court of the issues of custody and visitation.
Thompson, J. P., Eiber and Pizzuto, JJ., concur.
Ordered that the order is reversed insofar as appealed from, on the law, without costs or disbursements, that branch of the defendant’s cross motion which was to compel arbitration of the issue of custody is denied, and the matter is remitted to the Supreme Court, Kings County, for a determination by the court of the issues of custody and visitation.
Notes
We note that visitation and custody are often so inextricably intertwined that they must be considered one and the same for purposes of determining whether arbitration is appropriate. The suggestion that visitation alone might be a fit subject for arbitration was made in Agur v Agur (
