192 Ky. 253 | Ky. Ct. App. | 1921
Opinion op the Court by
— Affirming’.
The parties to this proceeding are husband and wife, and each is seeking a divorce. They were married in 1897. By profession the husband, Sam C. Gates, is a dentist, and has been engaged in the practice of his profession for fifteen years or more. Their home was in Covington, Kenton county, Kentucky, but about two weeks' before the institution of this suit Mrs. Gates, without his knowledge of her purpose to do so, abandoned him and his home, and taking their only living child, a son about seven years of age, went to Owensboro, Kentucky, and took up- her residence for the purposes of this litigation. They are people of very moderate means, but the record in this case is large and expensive.
The wife, Mrs. Ona F. Gates, instituted this suit in the Daviess circuit court against her husband, Sam C. Gates, for absolute divorce and alimony in September, 1918, on the grounds of cruelty, drunkenness, failure to support and infidelity to his marriage vows. By answer he controverted all the material averments of the petition and sought by counterclaim-to be decreed a divorce from the plaintiff on the grounds that they had lived apart for five years without cohabitation. Both plaintiff and defendant testified at great length by way of deposition, covering in detail the whole of their married life and recalling its many vicissitudes. In the petition the wife averred defendant had ill-treated her by cursing, abusing and striking her with his hand. She also accused him of carnal intimacy with women, and drunkenness. To all these accusations she testified directly and related -circumstances which tended to prove them, and she is partly corroborated by two of her friends who lived close to the Gates- home in Covington for a short while.
The parties to this action lived apart only about two weeks before the -application for divorce, and of course are not entitled to the relief they seek on this ground.
The evidence is in three large typewritten volumes containing about 1,200 pages. Some of the witnesses for the plaintiff give testimony tending to prove Doctor Gates was an habitual drunkard, but this evidence is slight and is thoroughly overcome by the testimony of a great many reputable people who lived- near and associated with Doctor Gates. By these witnesses his reputation is shown to be excellent and his habits good. He did not drink or dope according to their testimony, but was a man not only of good reputation but of gentlemanly bearing, pleasant speech, high moral standards
Being his wife she was not a competent witness to prove that her husiband had flirted and trifled with other women. A spouse can only testify against the other in cases of personal assault or attempt of the one to do injury or violence to the person of the other. Civil Code 606; Hester v. Hester, 166 Ky. 544; Hayden v. Hayden, 167 Ky. 569.
At common law the wife was not a competent witness against, her husband in a case of adultery or other offense against the marital relation, and this rule has been altered but slightly by our Code. 28 R. C. L. 484. Under our Civil Code, section 606, as amended in 1912, the wife can testify to facts which prove that the husband “has habitually acted towards her for six months or more in such cruel and inhuman manner as to indicate a settled aversion to her or to permanently destroy her peace and happiness. Such cruel beating or injury of the wife by a husband as indicates an outrageous temper in him or probable danger to her life, or great bodily injury from remaining with him.” She is not competent to give evidence in a divorce case on any other subject. Eliminating the incompetent evidence, of which there is a great amount, there remains but slight testimony and much of that unconvincing on which to base the plaintiff’s claim for divorce. She abandoned the defendant without his knowledge that she intended to do so, and without any real excuse for doing so except to spite and annoy him. They had disagreements and little family quarrels, but nothing very serious. Life is made up of such trivial things. Husband and wife should learn to forgive and forget, not nurse and harbor ill-feeling and resentment. Had Dr. and Mrs. Grates done so they would have been much happier and more contented and saved all this litigation.
The learned chancellor who tried this case showed great patience with the parties -in the hearing of the
He found no merit either in the claim of the plaintiff or the defendant for divorce and dismissed the petition and counterclaim, granting neither party the custody of the child, nor adjudging the title to the property involved to either.
In all this we think he exercised great wisdom.
Judgment affirmed.