This appeal by appellanfc-Mother, Barbara Schultz, is from the May 15, 1995 order granting primary physical custody of the parties’ daughter to appellee-Father, Robert Gancas, and
The parties met while they were students at the Pennsylvania State University and married on December 28, 1989. Both Mother and Father were in the United States Navy, initially stationed in San Diego and then in Japan, where they married. Father thereafter resigned his commission and sought civilian employment; Mother was transferred to Newport, Rhode Island, where they lived from December, 1988, until May, 1991. While there, one child, Elizabeth Gancas, was born of the marriage on March 22, 1989. In May, 1991, Mother was transferred to Pittsburgh, and Father obtained employment with Westinghouse Process Control Division as a software engineer. Mother was a lieutenant and a navy recruiter. Initially, the parties lived with Father’s parents in Plum Borough, a suburb of Pittsburgh; they moved into their own home in the North Hills in October, 1991.
In late 1991 and early 1992, the parties tried to conceive a second child. In January, 1992, without warning, Father filed a complaint in divorce in which he sought, inter aloe, custody of Elizabeth. On September 3, 1992, the parties executed a shared custody agreement. The marital home was sold, and Mother moved to a townhouse in the same area; Father relocated to the eastern suburbs near his parents. Under the shared custody agreement, Elizabeth resided with each parent approximately three and one-half days per week. The parties divorced on December 20,1993.
In March, 1993, Mother requested a custody conciliation based upon her belief that the shared custody arrangement was too stressful for Elizabeth. Following a conciliation with counsel on April 21, 1993, the Honorable Lawrence W. Kaplan noted that with “both parties realizing that mother will have to relocate sometime next year,” the shared arrangement would be maintained pending psychological and home evaluations. This relocation purportedly was Mother’s transfer in the navy.
In May, 1994, Father agreed to relinquish primary physical custody of Elizabeth to Mother. The following month, Mother
Upon Father’s relocation to the North Hills in January, 1995, Judge Kaplan instituted the interim shared custody arrangement, whereby Elizabeth spent two days with each parent followed by five days with each parent. A three-day custody hearing was held before Judge Kaplan on March 22-23 and May 9, 1995. At the conclusion of the third day of trial, the court recited its opinion into the record. As noted swpra, the court denied Mother permission to relocate with Elizabeth and granted Father primary physical custody, with the parties sharing legal custody. This appeal followed.
Our scope of review is well-settled.
In reviewing a child custody order,
Our scope of review ... is of the broadest type; the appellate court is not bound by the deductions or inferences made by the trial court from its findings of fact, nor must the reviewing court accept a finding that has no competentevidence to support it ... However, the broad scope of review does not vest in the reviewing court the duty or the privilege of making its own independent determination ... Thus, an appellate court is empowered to determine whether the trial court’s incontrovertible factual findings support its factual conclusions, but it may not interfere with those conclusions unless they are unreasonable in view of the trial court’s factual findings; and, thus, represent a gross abuse of discretion.
Vineski v. Vineski,
When either parent files a petition which raises the issue of whether it is in the best interest of a child to move outside of the jurisdiction, “a hearing must be held either before the move, or under exigent circumstances, within a reasonable time thereafter.”
Plowman v. Plowman,
In every relocation dispute, the court must consider the following interests.
[T]he custodial parent’s desire to exercise autonomy over the basic decisions that will directly affect his or her life and that of the children; a child’s strong interest in maintaining and developing a meaningful relationship with the noncustodial parent; the interest of the non-custodial parent insharing in the love and rearing of his or her children; and, finally, the state’s interest in protecting the best interests of the children.
White v. White,
1. The potential advantages of the proposed move, economic or otherwise, and the likelihood the move would improve substantially the quality of life for the custodial parent and the children and is not the result of a monetary (sic) whim on the part of the custodial parent;
2. The integrity of the motives of both the custodial and noncustodial parent in either seeking the move or seeking to prevent it; and
3. The availability of realistic, substitute visitation arrangements which will foster adequately an ongoing relationship between the child and the noncustodial parent.
White v. White, supra,
We note that Father makes much of the fact that when he agreed to give Mother primary physical custody of Elizabeth in May, 1994, “because it was in [Elizabeth’s] best interest,” notes of testimony (“N.T.”), 3/22/95, at 188, Mother did not disclose that she had been dating Bryan Schultz for the past two months. He implies that Mother attempted to perpetrate a ruse and trap him into agreeing to give Mother primary
Mother raises the following issues:
I. Did the trial court err by placing a greater burden of proof upon the relocating parent, thereby raising a presumption disfavoring custody relocation?
II. Did the trial court err by failing to properly apply the Gruber criteria to determine whether relocation serves the child’s best interests?
Mother’s issue regarding the placement of the burden of proof relates to the trial judge’s statement at the end of trial when he was reciting his opinion into the record. Rather than prepare a written opinion pursuant to Pa.R.A.P.1925(a), the trial judge instead chose to rely upon that statement. The court stated, “So who is the parent that you put the burden on when a move like this takes place, and generally it has to be the moving party, all other things being relatively equal.” N.T., 5/9/95, at 238.
Father argues that Mother has waived this issue, characterizing it as the burden placed upon her as the moving party. At the start of trial, the court made reference to the fact that although the petition raising the issue of relocation
Father is confusing the . issue Mother raises with the initial burden Mother bore, as pronounced in Gruber v. Gruber, supra.
When a custodial parent seeks to relocate at a geographical distance and the non-custodial parent challenges the move, the custodial parent has the initial burden of showing that the move is likely to significantly improve the quality of life for that parent and the children.
Id.,
The allocation of the various burdens in relocation cases was further addressed in Gruber:
In addition, each parent has the burden of establishing the integrity of his or her motives in either desiring to move or seeking to prevent it. The custodial parent must convince the court that the move is not sought for whimsical or vindictive reasons. Likewise, the non-custodial parent must show that resistance to the move stems from concern for the children and his or her relationship to them.
Gruber v. Gruber, supra,
The mother is moving for a good reason on her part. Her husband has a good permanent job in New Jersey, they both have family there, they’ve known each other for years prior to their getting married and having their first child____ She isn’t making this move just to get away from the father or to make it difficult for him.
N.T., 5/9/95, at 238. Thus, based upon the above statement, the court concluded that Mother’s motives were pure. However, based solely upon the fact that Mother was seeking to relocate, the trial court determined that Father should have physical custody. The court stated:
But the point is that but for that arrangement [the move to New Jersey], this child would still be in a position to share both parents. So who is the parent that you put the burden on when a move like this takes place, all other things being relatively equal. So for that reason, I would have to find that Elizabeth would continue to reside here in Allegheny County with her father —
Id.
at 239. This is precisely what we stated in
Gruber
would not be allowed. Therein we stated, “Once again, we reiterate that a move sought to secure substantial advantage for the custodial parent and children
will not be disallowed simply because visitation cannot continue in the existing pattern. Gruber v. Gruber, supra,
Clearly, the trial court determined that all things were equal, and since Mother was the party moving, she had to forfeit custody. It is that point of which Mother complains, arguing that the trial court, in effect, applied a presumption disfavoring relocation.
Such “restrictive lower court rulings that prohibit a child’s relocation in order to preserve or enhance existing visitation schedules,” are discussed in “The Relocation of Children and
Because there is a serious gap between popular perceptions and private realities concerning post-divorce parenting, custody orders that genuinely seek to serve children’s interests may actually disserve them. This is often true when a parent with primary responsibility for the children’s day-to-day case wishes to relocate.
As a result, custodial parents in many states are unable to make reasonable plans for themselves and their families (to accept a new job, to move closer to grandparents, to enroll in a college or graduate school program outside the local commute area, to escape hostility or violence directed at them or their children, to find affordable housing in a nearby community, to remarry someone from another community or state, or to accompany a new spouse on a job transfer) without placing the custody of their children seriously at risk. Unless they obtain the consent of their former spouses or lovers, they are routinely subjected to delays and litigational burdens — burdens greater than those imposed by the criminal law on those who wish to relocate but are subject to probation or parole supervision. Indeed, even if the parent who challenges a move is unqualified for or uninterested in obtaining custody, the custodial parent faces costly litigation. If commitments are made and kept in a timely fashion, whether as to an employer, a prospective spouse, a landlord or an educational institution, a loss of custody may result.
This state of the law provides inappropriate opportunities for abuses of power by former partners and is a serious disservice to children and to their primary caretakers. It has made the job of rearing children after parental separation or divorce far more financially and emotionally burdensome than sound policy requires or should condone.
It is also inconsistent with the reality of American geographic mobility. Each year approximately one American in five changes residences. According to 1983 rates, anewborn American will probably move about 10.5 times during his or her lifetime, with approximately 3.8 of these moves transcending county boundaries. As recent cutbacks in defense jobs suggest, employer-initiated job transfers are an important reason behind this mobility. Faced with the economic worries of the post-divorce period, custodial parents require flexibility in their job-seeking strategies, both because of their own employment needs and, if they have remarried, as a result of the employment demands faced by their new spouses.
Carol S. Bruch & Janet M. Bowermaster, “The Relocation of Children and Custodial Parents: Public Policy, Past and Present,” forthcoming in 30 Family Law Quarterly (Summer 1996), at 2-5 (footnotes omitted).
In the present case, once the trial court determined that the move to New Jersey would improve Mother’s quality of life and was not the result of a momentary whim, and that the parties’ motives
1
were pure, the trial court was obliged to “consider the availability of realistic, substitute visitation arrangements which will adequately foster an ongoing relationship” between Elizabeth and Father.
Gruber v. Gruber, supra,
Intertwined with this issue, is Mother’s second argument, that the trial court failed to determine whether Elizabeth’s move to New Jersey with Mother was in the child’s best interest. Again, we must agree with Mother. As we stated
Once the trial court utilized the three factors set forth in
Gruber,
“these considerations must then be factored into the ultimate consideration of the court, which is to determine what is in the best interests of the child.”
Plowman v. Plowman, supra,
For example, Mother contends that the trial court failed to consider that absent compelling reasons to the contrary, it is the policy of this Commonwealth to raise siblings together whenever possible.
Pilon v. Pilon,
Similarly, Mother asserts the trial court failed to consider that Elizabeth was baptized in the Catholic faith. Mother testified that she takes Elizabeth to church whenever Elizabeth is with her. N.T., 3/22/95, at 29. Father, an admitted agnostic, does not attend church.
Id.
at 305; reproduced record at 819a. Religion, while not determinative, “is an important matter and should be given some consideration in child custody matters----”
Boylan v. Boylan,
Another factor Mother contends was overlooked by the trial court is a conclusion concerning which party would be more cooperative in promoting partial custody for the noncustodial parent. We previously noted Father’s adversarial nature. Our review of the record reveals that Mother, while acting unilaterally at times and exhibiting some degree of an uncooperative spirit, more often sought to resolve disputes through negotiation, while Father, exhibiting at least the same degree of uncooperativeness, indicated his preference for court intervention. N.T., 3/22/95, at 368, 378.
We conclude, based upon the record presented, that the instant matter must be reversed and remanded. To recap, the highly respected trial court made the following findings which are supported by the testimony:
1. The instant matter has been “a very bitter disagreement between the parties.”
2. Both parents offer much to Elizabeth; their parenting styles, while not comparable, are comparable in quality.
3. Both parents love Elizabeth and have played a major role in her development; Mother is more structured, and Father is more spontaneous. Both parents are devoted to the child.
4. Dr. Rosenblum supports Mother’s ability and role.
5. Dr. Fischer and Judith Krynski support Father’s ability and role.
6. The parties’ relationship with Elizabeth “has been pretty much the same.”
7. Elizabeth has “no major problems from an emotional standpoint.”
8. Mother’s husband is “a lovely person,” and “Father admits that he can’t find anything to even jab him about,” which also speaks well for Father.
9. No matter where Elizabeth lives, she “is going to be in pretty good shape.”
10. If the parties resided in the same school district, a shared custody order would have been entered.
11. Mother is not moving just to make things difficult for Father.
N.T., 5/9/95, at 235-38.
As noted above, it is at this point that the trial court should have considered the availability of realistic, substitute visitation arrangements which would adequately foster an ongoing relationship between Elizabeth and Father. This, the court did not do. Instead, it awarded primary custody to Father based upon the
sole
fact that Mother was moving, a move it already determined to be in Mother’s interest. Finally, the trial court failed to consider “all factors which legitimately have an effect upon the child’s physical, intellectual, moral and spiritual well-being.”
Lee v. Fontine, supra,
Case remanded for proceedings consistent with this opinion. Jurisdiction relinquished.
Notes
. While the trial court determined that Mother's move was not motivated by a desire to frustrate the partial custody rights of Father, it should have determined whether Father’s motives in resisting relocation were inspired by a legitimate desire to continue his relationship with Elizabeth.
See Gruber v. Gruber, supra,
