Gabriel Setiadi petitions for review of an order of the Board of Immigration Appeals *712 (“BIA”) that affirmed an Immigration Judge’s (“IJ’s”) denial of his applications for asylum, withholding of removal, and protection under the Convention Against Torture (“CAT”). We affirm.
I.
Setiadi, a citizen of Indonesia, arrived in the United States in April 2000 as a crew member of a cruise ship. He did not return to his vessel and instead requested asylum, withholding of removal, and protection under CAT. Setiadi alleged that he feared persecution and had been persecuted based upon his religion, Roman Catholicism.
In Indonesia, Setiadi married a Muslim woman, Anastasia Nunundhayaty. In December 1999, Nunundhayaty converted to Catholicism. They had two children and raised both of their children as Catholics. Setiadi’s other family members are also Catholic. His family, including his wife and children, continues to live in Cirebon, Indonesia, without facing persecution.
Nunundhayaty’s family did not approve of the inter-faith marriage. The marriage created a family conflict between Setiadi and Nunundhayaty’s family. In particular, Nunundhayaty’s brother Agus had substantial difficulty with the marriage. Set-iadi alleges that Agus is a member of an extremist Muslim group. However, there is no allegation that Agus is affiliated with or has any influence with the Indonesian authorities. Setiadi also alleges that Agus twice slapped Nunundhayaty and threatened to kill Setiadi. Setiadi further stated that following one of the slaps, Nunun-dhayaty, who had a history of depression, harmed herself in a possible suicide attempt. Setiadi alleged that, in a separate incident, someone in Nunundhayaty’s family threw a bottle at her. Nothing in the record indicates that any of these incidents were reported to the police. While some details of the treatment Nunundhayaty received from her family are in dispute, 2 there is little doubt that her marriage to Setiadi caused considerable strife in her family.
Setiadi also alleges that a friend of his father was stabbed and killed. Setiadi believed that Muslims were responsible for his death. He stated that the 'police never identified the killer(s). There is no further evidence in the record concerning that death except for Setiadi’s assertions.
Setiadi further alleges that, in 2002, a crowd of men beat his brother. According to Setiadi, the attackers were motivated because they believed his brother was Christian. The pólice arrived after the attack and took Setiadi’s brother home, but never identified the attackers. Setiadi believes his brother’s attackers were Muslim.
Setiadi has not alleged that he was personally harmed or harassed by Indonesian authorities because of his religion. Setiadi fears that the government will grow to support Muslim extremism and become a threat to himself and his family. However, only his testimony supports that speculation. Setiadi cites the riots of 1998 to show persecution against Christians. Set-iadi himself was not a witness to the riots because he was out of the country. There is nothing in the record about how his life or the status of Christians was substantially affected by the riots.
*713 The IJ, after a merits hearing, denied Setiadi’s applications for asylum, withholding of removal, and protection under CAT. The IJ found Setiadi credible, but did not offer relief. The IJ did not find that Setia-di’s allegations were legally sufficient to support a claim of asylum, withholding of removal, or protection under CAT.
Setiadi appealed the decision of the IJ to the BIA. The BIA adopted and affirmed the decision of the IJ with additional reasoning. Specifically, the BIA found that Setiadi neither proved 'persecution was nationwide nor that it was unreasonable for him to relocate within Indonesia.
Setiadi appeals to our court the decision of the BIA and the IJ, insofar as the BIA’s decision incorporates the reasoning of the IJ.
II.
When the BIA adopts the IJ’s decision, but adds reasoning of its own, we review both decisions.
Krasnopivtsev v. Ashcroft,
III.
We find no error with the IJ’s finding that Setiadi did not suffer past persecution while in Indonesia. Past persecution does not normally include unfulfilled threats of physical injury, like those made by Agus against Setiadi.
Meas v. Ashcroft,
The IJ acted as a reasonable fact-finder in finding a lack of past persecution. Setiadi neither suffered physical injuries nor was detained by the government. Setiadi was allowed to practice his religion freely and was also permitted to have an inter-faith marriage. His wife did not suffer serious injury from being slapped by her brother. Setiadi’s allegations show a significant family conflict, but do not establish that he has suffered past persecution.
While the record does show tension and conflict between Muslims and Christians in Indonesia, that alone is insufficient to show actual past persecution. Setiadi has not been the victim of any violence related to that tension. Further, his limited testimony about the actions of the authorities indicates they have been responsive to concerns by him and his family about the persecution of Christians.
Setiadi’s complaints focus on the conduct of his brother-in-law, Agus, who has no connection to the Indonesian government. Setiadi never reported any of the threats or incidents related to Agus to the police. Thus, Setiadi’s argument that the government was unwilling to help is not supported by any facts in the record. Merely alleging government inaction is not
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enough; a petitioner “must show that the government ‘condoned [the private conduct] or at least demonstrated a complete helplessness to protect the victims.’ ”
Menjivar v. Gonzales,
Therefore, we find no error with the IJ’s finding that Setiadi did not suffer past persecution in Indonesia because of his religion.
IV.
For similar reasons, we find no error with the IJ’s decision regarding a well-founded fear of future persecution. To prove a well-founded fear of future persecution, a petitioner “must show both that he [or she] actually fears persecution and that a ‘reasonable person in the alien’s position would fear persecution if returned to the alien’s native country.’ ”
Berte v. Ashcroft,
It is insufficient to allege a generalized fear of persecution because of isolated acts of violence to those other than the petitioner.
Nyonzele v. INS,
Setiadi was unable to show that any persecution of Christians was nationwide.
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Further, the fact that his family has remained unharmed in one of the most contentious areas of the country undermines Setiadi’s general claims.
See, e.g., Krasnopivtsev,
Setiadi’s fear of the riots is too generalized to constitute a reasonable fear of future persecution.
See Mohamed,
*715 V.
Because Setiadi has faded to meet the standard for asylum, he necessarily fails to meet the standard for withholding of removal.
Turay v. Ashcroft,
VI.
For the foregoing reasons, we deny the petition for relief.
Notes
. Upon appeal, Setiadi recasts an incident alleging that his wife was briefly kidnaped by her brother and his friends. However, we find no error with the IJ's assessment of the facts surrounding this incident and defer to that understanding. Regardless, like the other examples of intra-familial conflict, the wrongful conduct was allegedly directed by Agus and never reported to the Indonesian authorities.
. Setiadi argues that the BIA erred when it found he could relocate internally within Indonesia. The petitioner must show that "it would be unreasonable to expect [him or her] to relocate.”
Mohamed v. Ashcroft,
