¶ 1. Mother appeals from a final divorce order granting father parental rights and responsibilities for the parties’ two children and giving mother parent-child contact in stages beginning with supervised contact with progression through the stages determined by the children’s medical
¶ 2. The underlying 'facts are largely uncontested. The parties were married for ten years and have two children together. The parties’ marriage suffered from various problems, including mounting financial pressures, significant consumer debt, clutter in the home that “reached alarming levels,” verbal conflict, and at least one incident of physical abuse. At one point during the marriage, mother accused father of sexually abusing the children, and scheduled an appointment with the boys’ pediatrician, who found no reason to conclude that they were being sexually abused. After an incident in February 2008 in which mother absconded from the home with the children for six days without contact, father filed a complaint for divorce.
¶ 3. Following the parties’ separation, the family court issued, a temporary order granting the parties’ stipulation for the maternal grandparents to take temporary legal and physical rights and responsibilities for the children, subject to supervised parental contact. Because the children had a history of displaying “defiant and challenging behaviors,” the court instructed the grandparents to choose therapists for them. The trial court also directed the parents to seek individual therapy and parent education.
¶4. During mother’s visitation with the children, her behavior was often inappropriate. After “a number of tense interchanges” between mother and the grandparents, the grandparents sent a letter to mother’s counsel on May 8, 2008 stating that mother was no longer welcome to visit the boys in their home. Subsequently, mother began having supervised visits with the children at a nonprofit family center. Over time, however, the family center staff developed similar concerns about mother’s behaviors, including mother’s interrogation of the boys about their father and their prescription medications despite the children’s clear discomfort. In addition, mother engaged the center’s staff in long conversations about her private matters and requested to use the center as a location for retrieving property from the marital home. Mother also made numerous lengthy telephone calls to the family center director and even arrived at the home of the center’s director unannounced to discuss her issues.
¶ 5. Throughout the summer of 2008, the children’s therapist and pediatrician maintained communication with each other. They discussed the boys’ progress, and determined it would be helpful to form a “treatment team” to better coordinate services for the boys and their family. The treatment team comprised the children’s therapist, pediatrician, and guardian ad litem.
¶ 6. In September 2008, upon father’s motion, the court issued a temporary order awarding father legal and physical rights and responsibilities and continuing mother’s supervised contact with the children at the family center twice a week. The court also ordered that changes in the visitation arrangements could be implemented by recommendation of the treatment team. In late September 2008, due to mother’s inability to follow the rules, the center
¶ 7. After agreeing to various terms relating to boundary issues, mother was able to briefly resume her visitation at the center. In January 2009, however, mother questioned one of the boys in a manner that clearly bothered the child. She continued to ask what medications the child was taking. The boy kept saying, “No, I don’t want to talk about that.” Mother also asked the child to show her a rash on his penis, and the child became upset and embarrassed. The trial court found that mother was using the visits to “interrogate the boys in a search for evidence.” Following these incidents, the director of the family center notified the parties on January 16, 2009 that the center could no longer provide therapeutic supervision to repair the relationship between the children and their mother. The children’s guardian ad litem sent a letter soon thereafter with information about three other service providers that might be able to assist the family. ■ Subsequently, the treatment team exercised its authority pursuant to the amended temporary order and suspended mother’s visitation until an appropriate provider of “therapeutic supervised visitation” could be found.
¶ 8. The parties had trouble finding a new visitation supervisor and “resources proved scarce.” Mother contacted the three centers suggested in the letter without any success. In January 2010, a therapist expressed interest in working with mother, and the treatment team was convened to meet with parents, their counsel, and the therapist, but mother did not attend the meeting, citing car trouble. She did not seek to have the meeting rescheduled.
¶ 9. Mother filed motions seeking parent-child contact in September 2009, June 2010, and December 2010, and the family court deferred ruling on these motions pending a final hearing and order. As of the date of the final order in February 2011, mother had not had any in-person contact with the boys since January 2009, although she had spoken with the boys over the phone and played computer games with them.
¶ 10. In the interim, the boys progressed successfully in therapy. They showed reduced signs of agitation, and were taken off medication. Accordingly, their therapist “fully supports father maintaining primary care of the children,” though he is also “adamant the boys need to see their mother.” The boys’ pediatrician also noticed improvement in their physical and emotional health, and echoed the therapist’s belief that a treatment team was still needed and that resumed visitation with mother would require “thoughtful oversight.”
¶ 11. After an extended trial from 2009 to 2010, in which numerous individuals testified — including mother, father, the boys’ pediatrician and therapist, the family center director, and the boys’ maternal grandparents — the court granted the parties a divorce and awarded father sole legal and physical rights and responsibilities. The court provided mother with contact in three phases. Initially, she was granted short supervised visits, eventually increasing to longer, unsupervised overnight contact.
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¶ 12. On appeal, mother argues that the court lacked authority to delegate responsibility for determining her parent-child contact to the children’s treatment providers. 2 Father responds that the court did not improperly delegate its authority because it retained the power to override the team’s recommendations. The children through their lawyer join father’s brief and request that the family court’s decision be affirmed.
¶ 13. The issue of whether the court’s order here impermissibly delegated its authority to determine custody matters to the treatment team is a legal question that we review de novo.
Mitchinson v. Mitchinson,
¶ 14. The court was thus bound to fulfill its statutory role by crafting a contact schedule and could not delegate this task to another agency or individual. See
Cameron v. Cameron,
¶ 15. An exploration of cases from other jurisdictions provides some helpful general principles regarding the proper limits of delegation. These cases generally fall into two categories — cases where the trial court delegates to the custodial parent the authority to determine the noncustodial parent’s contact, and cases where the trial court delegates to a counselor or other professional the authority to determine the noncustodial parent’s contact. Compare
Marquette v. Marquette,
¶ 16. On the other hand, courts generally allow professionals to make recommendations or decide details about contact as long as the court retains authority over the contact decision. See, e.g.,
Hamel v. Hamel,
¶ 17. Here, the court’s order impermissibly allows other individuals to make critical decisions regarding mother’s contact with her children without court oversight. The order states that mother is to have contact in three phases. The first phase is supervised contact for two hours every week. At some undesignated point thereafter, mother may progress to unsupervised contact in two additional phases: first, overnight visits once a week and then alternating weekends and one evening a week. Her ability to move from one phase to another is determined “by [the treatment team] consistent with the physical, emotional and psychological health of the children.”
¶ 18. There are two main deficiencies in the delegation order. The first is allowing the treatment team unchecked authority to modify the type and frequency of mother’s contact. Far from the “ministerial” tasks we have sanctioned in the past, see
LaMoria,
¶ 19. The second related deficiency is that there are no specific, ascertainable
Reversed and remanded for further proceedings consistent with this decision.
Notes
In its order, the court acknowledged that it likely had contributed to mother not being able to visit with her children between January 2009 and February 2011. To correct this problem, the court gave the treatment team approximately one month to identify a neutral, trained therapist willing to undertake the supervisor role. In the absence of a recommendation from the treatment team, or other agreement of the parties, the court authorized the maternal grandfather or paternal grandmother to supervise visits between mother and the children.
Mother makes two additional arguments on appeal. Mother claims that the court’s order contains an improper automatic-change provision contrary to our holding in
Knutsen v. Cegalis,
There is no merit to mother’s argument that the court’s order effectively gives the visitation supervisor authority to terminate her parental rights without a finding based on clear and convincing evidence that she is an unfit parent. This argument stems from the provision in the order stating that “[i]f the children become anxious or upset, [the visitation supervisor] will suspend the visit.” This provision merely allows the visit supervisor to suspend an individual visit and does not allow the visit supervisor to terminate mother’s contact entirely.
