Elido B. v. Jennie C.Elido B. v. Jennie C.
In August 2006, petitioner, who was incarcerated, commenced this proceeding seeking a declaration that he is the father of respondent‘s child (born in 2004) and to compel respondent and
We “have long recognized the availability of the doctrine of equitable estoppel as a defense in a paternity proceeding” (Matter of Kristen D. v Stephen D., 280 AD2d 717, 719 [2001]; see Matter of Shondel J. v Mark D., 7 NY3d 320, 326 [2006]; Matter of Peter BB. v Robin CC., 256 AD2d 889, 889-890 [1998]). Indeed,
Moreover, while petitioner asserts that he immediately sought to establish paternity upon learning that the then two-year-old child might be his, he indicates that he has not decided whether he will seek to assume a parental role in the child‘s life; he simply wishes to learn whether he is the child‘s biological father. As stated by the Court of Appeals, “[t]o conclude that petitioner acted promptly once he became aware of the child is to fundamentally misconstrue whose timetable is relevant. Promptness is measured in terms of the baby‘s life not by the onset of the father‘s awareness” (Matter of Robert O. v Russell K., 80 NY2d 254, 264 [1992]). Under the circumstances here and given the need to “‘prevent unwanted intrusion by the child‘s former biological relatives to promote the stability of the new adoptive family,‘” Family Court properly dismissed the petition (Matter of Peter Z. v Nilda C., 46 AD3d 696, 697 [2007] [citation omitted]; see Matter of Vernon J. v Sandra M., 36 AD3d 912, 913 [2007]; Matter of John Robert P. v Vito C., 23 AD3d 659, 661-662 [2005]; Matter of Peter BB. v Robin CC., 256 AD2d at 890; see also Matter of Infant Female B., 51 AD3d 419, 422-423 [2008]; cf. Matter of Gutierrez v Gutierrez-Delgado, 33 AD3d 1133, 1134-1135 [2006]).
Peters, Spain, Malone Jr. and Stein, JJ., concur. Ordered that the order is affirmed, without costs.