Edward WW. v. Diana XX.Edward WW. v. Diana XX.
Spain, J. Appeal from an order of the Family Court of Albany County (Maney, J.), entered October 15, 2009, which, in a proceeding pursuant to
Petitioner had a sexual relationship with respondent (hereinafter the mother) during the time the subject child (born in September 1998) was likely conceived. Petitioner was incarcerated in early 1998, and asserts that he did not learn of the mother’s pregnancy until “later in the year, that is, in 1998.” The mother was never married to petitioner nor did she ever live with him. Petitioner, who is now again incarcerated, commenced this proceeding in June 2009—when the child was 10 years of age—seeking a DNA test to establish that he is the child’s father. The mother moved to dismiss the petition on the ground of equitable estoppel, and Family Court granted the motion and dismissed the petition without a hearing. Petitioner now appeals.
In support of her motion, the mother asserts that at the time the child was born, she was living with her boyfriend, with whom she and the child currently reside, and her boyfriend has acted as the child’s father throughout the child’s life, providing her with food, clothing and necessities. In addition, the child refers to the boyfriend as her father, the boyfriend has supported the child in school and in her everyday activities, and the mother believes the boyfriend to be the father of the child as well as the father of their two younger sons, ages nine and six. Notably, the child bears the boyfriend’s surname.1
In response, petitioner asserts that he commenced this proceeding in June 2009 after being informed that the boyfriend had allegedly recently submitted to a DNA test which excluded his paternity of the child. However, petitioner concedes that he knew the mother was pregnant and that she gave birth, but now attempts to justify his 10-year delay in pursuing paternity by claiming that the mother never disclosed her pregnancy to him and later led him to believe that the child was the boyfriend’s child. Significantly, petitioner, who has been in and out of jail since his intimate relationship with the mother ended in 1998, has offered nothing to refute the mother’s prima facie showing that the child has always known the boyfriend—who has, undisputably, provided food, clothing and shelter for the child for most of her life—to be her father. “[B]ecause a child’s best interest is of paramount concern in proceedings to establish paternity and recognizing ‘that the inevitable effect of destroying the child’s image of her family would be catastrophic and [fraught] with lasting trauma,’ the ‘courts are more inclined to impose equitable estoppel to protect the status of a child in an already recognized and operative parent-child relationship’ ” (Matter of Kristen D. v Stephen D., 280 AD2d at 719 [citations omitted]).
Although petitioner asserts that he quickly moved to establish paternity upon learning, purportedly, of the boyfriend’s negative DNA test results, he does not answer why he failed to promptly assert his rights when he became aware 10 years earlier of the possibility that the child was his child. Moreover,
Peters, J.P., Lahtinen, Kavanagh and Garry, JJ., concur.
Ordered that the order is affirmed, without costs.