OPINION
STATEMENT OF THE CASE
Appellant-Petitioner, Bradley W. Duncan (Father), appeals the trial court's findings of fact and conclusions of law denying Father's Motion to Establish Parenting Time in favor of Appellee-Respondent, Rhonda S. Dunean (Mother).
We affirm.
ISSUE
Father raises two issues on appeal, which we consolidate and restate as the following issue: Whether the trial court abused its discretion by denying Father's Motion to Establish Parenting Time.
FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY 1
Father and Mother were married on October 23, 1993. Mother "had two chil *968 dren from a previous relationship:; H.D., born on November 26, 1987 and R.D., born on January 17, 1990. During the marriage, S.D. was born on December 4, 1997. Father adopted H.D. and R.D. on February 2, 2001. While Mother worked, Father supervised the children during the time they were not in daycare.
When HD. was five years old, Father began molesting her by having her touch his penis and by forcing her to perform oral sex on him. Incidents of molestation occurred regularly throughout H.D.'s childhood. When H.D. turned eleven, Father started to have sexual intercourse with her. In 1999, when she was thirteen, H.D. told a neighbor that Father had been molesting her sexually since she was five years old. However, before representatives of the Office of Family and Children arrived, Father located H.D. at the neighbor's home and insisted he take her home. Upon arriving home, Father informed H.D. that he had a loaded gun but did not indicate what he would do with it. Because she was afraid, she recanted when later interviewed by a case worker.
By the time H.D. was fifteen, the molestation increased in frequency. On August 11, 2003, HD. ran away from home and walked to a store where she called her maternal grandmother. Only after about two weeks did she inform her grandmother about the sexual abuse. After learning what her daughter had endured, Mother called the police and left Father, taking the two younger boys with her. Father has since not had any contact with the children.
In January of 2004, Father was arrested and charged with child molestation, as a Class A felony and child molestation, as a Class B felony. While incarcerated, Father suffered a severe stroke, and as a result, the State dismissed the charges against him without prejudice in June of 2004. Earlier that year, on March 24, 2004, the trial court entered a Dissolution Decree, dissolving the marriage between Father and Mother. The Decree awarded Mother sole custody of the three children, providing in pertinent part that "[ Mother] shall have sole custody of the minor children, and [Father] shall have no visitation with the minor children at this time." (Appellant's App. p. 9).
On February 18, 2005, Father filed his Motion to Establish Parenting Time with R.D. and S.D. On May 17, 2005, the trial court conducted a hearing on Father's motion. Thereafter, on June 10, 2005, the trial court issued its Order denying Father's motion and concluding in pertinent part:
As set forth in the Findings of Fact, [Father] molested H.D. over a period of 10 years. When she tried to report the abuse, he threatened her. [Father] exhibits no remorse for his actions. There is no evidence that he is willing to undergo sex offender treatment.
At the hearing, [Father] was adamant in demanding unsupervised visitation with the children. In his Motion to Establish Parenting Time, [Father] suggests that visitation be initiated through the counseling process.
Visitation, whether supervised or unsupervised, is not in the best interests of the children. [R.D.] is aware that [Father) has harmed his sister. He does not wish to visit with [Father]. [S.D.] has suffered from behavioral problems in the past. He is seeing a therapist to help with these problems. His behavior has improved. Clearly, visitation with [Father] would pose a danger to the physical health and safety of the chil *969 dren, and might significantly impair their emotional development.
(Appellant's App. p. 10).
Father now appeals. Additional facts will be provided as necessary.
DISCUSSION AND DECISION
Father contends that the trial court abused its discretion by denying his Motion to Establish Parenting Time. Specifically, Father's argument is two-fold, asserting that: (1) the trial court's Order should be reversed because it misapplied the statutory standard for modification of visitation, and (2) the Order failed to enter separate conclusions to deny visitation with R.D. and S.D.
Upon review of a trial court's determination of a visitation issue, we will grant latitude and deference to our trial courts, reversing only when the trial court manifestly abuses its discretion. Kirk v. Kirk,
Indiana has long recognized that the rights of parents to visit their children is a precious privilege that should be enjoyed by noneustodial parents. Id. at 400-01. As a result a noncustodial parent is generally entitled to reasonable visitation rights. Ind.Code § 81-17-4-1. A court may modify an order granting or denying visitation rights whenever this modification would serve the best interests of the child. .C. § 31-17-4-2. However, a parent's visitation rights shall not be restricted unless the court finds that "the visitation might endanger the child's physical health or significantly impair the child's emotional development." Id. Even though the statute uses the term "might," we have previously interpreted the language to mean that a court may not restrict visitation unless that visitation would endanger the child's physical health or emotional development. See Stewart v. Stewart,
Initially, we need to address Father's overarching argument that the trial court abused its discretion by denying Father's visitation with R.D. and S.D. based on unproven molestation charges stemming from before the divorcee. Generally, even though testimony of Father's conduct prior to the original divorcee decree is inadmissible, here, the error is not reversible. See K.B. v. S.B.,
Turning to the merits of Father's argument, we are confronted with a case that illustrates the tension between protecting children from heinous sexual abuse and protecting parents from the interruption and loss of parental rights, which almost inevitably accompanies a charge of sexual abuse. See, eg., Farrell v. Littell,
In denying parenting time with R.D. and S.D., the trial court concluded that, based on the evidence before it, visitation with Father would not be in the children's best interest as it would pose a danger to the physical health and safety of the children and might significantly impair their emotional development. Our review of the record establishes that Father and R.D. "bumped heads a lot" to the point where RD. ran away. (Transcript p. 178). When Mother arranged for counseling sessions for R.D., Father only allowed him to go to one therapy session before pressuring him to stop. Moreover, H.D. testified that she told R.D. about the molestation. The trial court, conducting an in camera interview with R.D., stated that the child does not want to visit with Father.
S.D., now eight years old, has behavioral problems. The evidence reflects that he had a difficult time in kindergarten, but has improved since seeing a therapist and taking medication for ADHD. Mother testified that S.D. no longer talks about his father. Even though S.D. is aware that Father hurt "sissy," he does not know any specifics. (Tr. P. 175).
In support of his argument that we should distinguish between parenting time with H.D. and parenting time with the children that he has never touched inappropriately, Father primarily relies on McCauley v. McCauley,
A more instructive case is K.B. v. S.B.,
Finally, in the recent case of Farrell v. Littell,
Nevertheless, we are aware that the case law does not provide us with a definite conclusion in this case, i.e., where a father alleged to have molested one child seeks to establish parenting time with the other children. When courts, as here, are confronted with a new situation and problems regarding visitation, they must ensure that the action taken corresponds to the danger presented. See Stewart,
With regard to R.D. and S.D., the trial court concluded that their physical health and emotional development would be endangered by granting Father visitation rights. In this light, the trial court, based on the specific finding of Father's brutal abuse of H.D., his threat with a loaded gun, combined with his lack of remorse and refusal to attend counseling, reached the reasonable conclusion that the other children would be placed in a volatile situation if visitation were allowed. Even *972 though Mother admitted at trial that Father had been a good parent to R.D. and S.D., further evidence showed that, at this time, neither of the boys desire to reestablish contact with their Father. Furthermore, as we stated before, R.D. has rocky history with Father and S.D., having outgrown kindergarten and benefiting from therapy, is currently thriving. Mind-fual of Father's prior discontinuance of R.D.'s counseling sessions, we are hesitant to expose S.D. to a similar fate.
The wellbeing of the child is always our foremost concern. See IC. § 31-17-42. With this in mind, we err on the side of caution and conclude that at this time visitation between Father and his sons would endanger their physical health or significantly impair their emotional development. As shown, the evidence before us does not positively require the conclusion contended by Father. Kirk,
CONCLUSION
Based on the foregoing, we find that the trial court did not abuse its discretion by denying Father's Motion to Establish Parenting Time.:
Affirmed.
Notes
. We draw Appellant's attention to Ind. Appellate Rule 43(H) & (J) which provides guidance as to the form of an appellate brief, especially the cover colors and appropriate binding. Furthermore, we did not find the appealed trial court's Order included with *968 Appellant's brief pursuant to App.R. 46(A)(10).
