Derek W. v. David W.Derek W. v. David W.
Opinion
David W. appeals from the judgment terminating parental rights to his son, Derek. (
Derek, who is of “mixed race but dark skinnеd,” was bom in 1989, addicted to cocaine and amphetamine. He was removed from the custody of his biological parents, Adele B. and David W., and placed in foster care with Stephanie and John K., who are Caucasian. Derek has lived with the K.’s since he was nine days old. Derek is developmentally delayеd, suffers from a respiratory condition similar to asthma, and has behavioral and emotional problеms.
Derek’s biological mother relinquished her parental rights almost immediately. His father, David W., who claims that he is African-American and an American Indian, regularly visited Derek, but failed to complete the parеnting classes and drag treatment programs required for reunification. In
Between 1991 and 1997, David W. was permitted visitation with Derek each month. For the most part, David visited Derek, missing visits only when he was in jail or participating in a residential drug rehabilitation program.
The parties agree that David W. and Derek have an emotional bond and that Derek knows David W. is his father. They both find the visits enjoyable, but the K.’s report that Derek often returns home wheezing from his father’s cigarette smoke and that he misbehaves or withdraws for one or two days following each visit. David W. has never contributed financially to Derek’s support.
Although unwilling to adоpt in 1991, the K.’s requested that opportunity in March 1998. They informed the court that, if allowed to adopt, they would continue Derek’s visits with David W. David W. does not believe the K.’s will allow him access to Derek and that Derek needs an African-American role model in his life. Following a contested hearing, the trial court terminated David W.’s parental rights and freed Derek for adoption. This appeal followed.
“Adoption, where possible, is the permanent plan preferred by the Legislature.” (In re Autumn H. (1994)
Here, David W. contends the court erred in failing to find that the exception cоntained in
The parent has the burden to show that the statutory exception applies. (In re Tabatha G., supra,
The parent must do more thаn demonstrate “frequent and loving con-tacte,]” (In re Beatrice M. (1994)
David W. failed to meet his burden of prоof. Derek has lived with the K.’s since he was nine days old. They are the only adults who have provided him with food, shеlter, protection and guidance on a daily basis. While the relationship between David W. and Derek is pleasant and emotionally significant to Derek, it bears no resemblance to the sort of consistеnt, daily nurturing that marks a parental relationship. Under these circumstances, the trial court properly concluded that
The judgment (order terminating parental rights) is affirmed.
Gilbert, Acting P. J., and Coffee, J., concurred.
Appellant’s petition for review by the Supreme Court was denied October 6, 1999.
Notes
All statutory references are to the Welfare and Institutions Code. David W. has also filed a petition for writ of error coram vobis. (In re Derek W. (1999)