[¶ 1] Trayce Nagel appealed from a disorderly conduct restraining order directing that she have no contact with Keith Cusey for a two-year period. Because we conclude the trial court abused its discretion in finding reasonable grounds existed for the disorderly conduct restraining order, we reverse.
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[¶ 2] Cusey dated Nagel from August 2003 until March 2004, when Cusey began dating another woman. On April 22, 2004, Cusey petitioned for a disorderly conduct restraining order. In the sworn affidavit accompanying the petition, Cusey said:
March ■ 2, 2004 I started dating Kyle Stoppler, and on March 5, 2004 Trayce Nagel showed up at my place of employment yelling and screaming at me and saying how she hoped the sex was good and she was going to go into Kyle’s house and talk to her and tell her things about me. Trayce also went out to my house while I was not there. She has done this many times. Trayce has also called Kyle’s house leaving messages on her answering machine[], and she continues to call my place of employment leaving messages for me to call her. April 3, 2004 Trayce drove past Kyle’s house 8 to 10 times that day very slow, staring at the house when I was not their [sic], Trayce also caltó my best friend Kevin Barr on a constant basis telling him lies about me and Kyle, and tells him she loves me and wants me back. Thursday, April 8, 2004, Kyle and I went over to Braddock to shoot pool, as this is pool night. We walked in the door only to find Trayce their [sic] with Laura Lee. She sat their [sic] and stared at us the whole night.' Some of the dates she called him are March 5, 2004, April 6, 2004, and April 9, 2004. On April 9, 2004, Trayce called Kevin and told him that Kyle wanted to beat her up at pool night. This is not true. Kyle does not even know Trayce, and had no intentions of beating Trayce up. This is her sick, twisted way of thinking. She is still upset, because I broke up with her. I tried breaking up with Trayce at [] least-4 times, and she would not take the hint. Trayce is also friends with Laura Lee from Hazelton. She comes to Ha-zelton on a weekly basis to try and find out information on me and Kyle. I believe Trayce to be a vengeful[ ] person, and believe she is. capable of doingworse things, and I would like this to be stopped.
The trial court granted an ex parte temporary disorderly conduct restraining order pending a hearing on Cusey’s petition.
[¶ 3] In response to the petition, Nagel moved to dismiss and submitted two affidavits in which she denied some of Cusey’s allegations and claimed Cusey had filed the petition in retaliation for her filing a small claims court action against him on March 12, 2004, seeking to recover money she claimed he owed her. Nagel acknowledged going to the farm where Cusey worked, but said although “I was upset with tears, there was no yelling and screaming.” Nagel claimed that after leaving the farm, she once called Cusey at work and had a brief discussion with him, but denied calling after that and leaving messages. Nagel claimed Cusey called her on the morning of the small claims court hearing and offered to drop the petition for a disorderly conduct restraining order if she dropped the small claims court action. Nagel also claimed Cusey asked her to not attend the small claims court hearing. Nagel refused. Cusey did not appear, and Nagel was awarded $673.38 in her small claims court action against Cu-sey.
[¶ 4] During the brief hearing on the petition, the trial court sustained Nagel’s objection to Cusey’s testimony about incidents not contained in his affidavit and struck hearsay statements from the affidavit. Nagel testified that she went to the farm where Cusey worked to ask him about his new girlfriend and to tell him she wanted him to pay her the money he owed her. Nagel testified this conversation did not occur in the presence of others. Nagel also testified about Cusey’s phone conversation with her on the morning of the small claims court hearing. Nagel’s attorney then cross-examined Cusey regarding his allegations. At the conclusion of the hearing, the trial court granted the petition:
Based on the evidence presented, I believe that it’s been established that the respondent has committed disorderly conduct, specifically yelling and screaming at the petitioner at his place of employment, and continuing to call his place of employment and leave messages. I believe that [this] conduet[ ][is] adversely affecting the privacy of the petitioner; therefore, the Court will issue a disorderly conduct restraining order that will be in effect until June 30th, 2006.
Nagel appealed.
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[¶ 5] Nagel argues the trial court erred in granting the disorderly conduct restraining order.
[¶ 6] A trial court may grant a disorderly conduct restraining order if the court finds “there are reasonable grounds to believe that the respondent has engaged in disorderly conduct.” N.D.C.C. § 12.1-31.2-01(5)(d).
See also Skadberg v. Skadberg,
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[¶ 8] Nagel contends the trial court abused its discretion as a matter of law in granting the disorderly conduct restraining order because it is undisputed that Cusey contacted Nagel by telephone after obtaining the ex parte temporary restraining order. Nagel argues the court should have denied the petition in the exercise of its supervisory powers “to protect the integrity of the judicial process,” because Cusey’s conduct amounts to an “abuse of process.”
[¶ 9] The temporary restraining order specified that Nagel not contact Cusey. It did not forbid Cusey from contacting Na-gel. Nagel’s attempt to have us view a temporary disorderly conduct restraining order as imposing reciprocal prohibitions against the petitioner raises serious due process concerns. Because of “the significant restraint placed upon the respondent’s liberty and the stigma resulting from a disorderly conduct restraining order,” a person who would be subject to the order’s restrictions has certain procedural due process protections.
Gullickson v. Kline,
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[¶ 10] The dispositive issue in this case is whether the trial court abused its discretion in finding reasonable grounds to issue the disorderly. conduct restraining order against Nagel.
[¶ 11] Because of the stigma and grave consequences to the respondent associated with a disorderly conduct restraining order, we have repeatedly stressed that a person who petitions for an order must allege specific facts or threats.
See, e.g., Baker,
[¶ 12] To the extent the trial court may have relied on other allegations contained in Cusey’s affidavit, we believe those allegations are equally insufficient to support the petition for the disorderly conduct restraining order. Cusey’s allegation that Nagel “went out to my house while I was not there ... many times” is ambiguous at best. Cusey’s allegation that Nagel “stared” at Cusey and his girlfriend at a bar “the whole night” is nothing more than an incident in which the “parties were, by happenstance, in the same location when [Nagel] conducted [herself] in a manner objectionable to [Cusey].”
Wishnatsky,
[¶ 13] “It is not enough under the statute that the petitioner for a restraining order wants the other person out of the petitioner’s life.”
Williams,
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[¶ 14] As is often the case with petitioners for disorderly conduct restraining orders, Cusey was not represented by an attorney in the trial court and made no appearance before this Court on appeal. The entire transcript of the trial court hearing is only 16 pages long. At the beginning of the hearing, and before Cu-sey was sworn by the court recorder to testify, the court asked Cusey whether everything in his affidavit was true and whether there was “anything you want to add to that at this time?” When Cusey began to talk about incidents that were not contained in the affidavit, Nagel’s attorney objected to Cusey “bringing in new information” and requested that the court “strike all those statements that was [sic] just stated on the record and go strictly by this affidavit and only the portions that are not hearsay.” The court granted the motion and allowed Nagel and her mother to testify. After their testimony was received, Cusey was sworn by the court recorder, and the court asked him to “not make any new allegations, but if you have any response to anything that the respondent said, I’ll give you that opportunity at this time.” Cusey testified, Nagel’s attorney cross-examined Cusey, and the trial court granted the order.
[¶ 15] At Nagel’s request, the trial court permitted Cusey to present his case only by use of his affidavit. We have held that a trial court conducts a “full
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[¶ 16] In view of our disposition of this case, it is unnecessary to address the other issues raised. We reverse the two-year disorderly conduct restraining order against Nagel.
