97 N.Y.S. 771 | N.Y. App. Div. | 1906
- ■ This is an appeal from a judgment of limited divorce based upon abandonment. First, it is insisted that there was failure of proof in that it did not appear that the going away was without the assent of the plaintiff. . Consent is-inconsistent with the idea of abandonment or desertion. (Uhlmann v. Uhlmann, 17 Abb. N. C. 236, 260; De Meli v. De Meli, 67 How. Pr. 20; Ford v. Ford, 143 Mass. 577.) The plaintiff testifies that the defendant left their common' home -on June 30, 1904, and that he has, never returned to her. On cross-examination she testifies: “ 1 do not want him to come back, xon- account ■ of the names, hé called me. 1 was satisfied that he left the house; I had peace after he had gone. I asked if he was going away and he said yes;'I asked him for'a Support and he gave me a very sulky answer, not fit to express. He did not' tell me that when I ,qüit going around with one Meehan that he Would be willing to live with me. It was about" the 3d of June that I left his. bed. ' After the 3d I Was not asked to come back. I would not go back. , After- "the 3d of June, if he stayed in the. house I would stay-there too. Q. You would not stay with him at' all ? A. Ho, I Would not, for the names he called me. -Q. You would not stay with him now ? A. Ho, I don’t want him.” Testimony as to-what the witness Would of'Would not do in ah evént is not evidence as to whether she did of did not. Consent to his abandonment.- (Ford v. Ford, supra; Monteath v. Monteath, 51 Ill. App. 126.) In Ford’s case the court, passing upon a similar question' say, per Holmes, J.: “ Conduct Which in itself is proper cannot be made improper by inquiring what he would have done in. an - event which did not. happen.” Of course her mental, state, would' naturally aid the conclusion that she did show consent by words or acts, but siich mental state is no substitute for acts or Words. (Ford v. Ford, supra.) When we'analyze the testimoney.of the plaintiff it appears- that she but asked the defendant if lie was going away, and when he said yes, she asked-him for support. T think that - this, is- not sufficient to indicate that the, plaintiff consented to.-desertion pr abandonment. Of course the court was not bound to credit the statement of the defendant that he left “by mutual agreement.” Moreover, - his explanation of the “ mutual agreement ” seems to be. that he expressed his intention to leave, and that his
Hiesohbeeg, P. J., Woodwabd, Rich and Milleb, JJ., concurred.
Judgment modified in accordance with the opinion of Jenks, J., and as modified affirmed, without costs of this appeal.