184 Iowa 739 | Iowa | 1918
I. Many of the complaints are petty. They include, for instance, deprival of church privileges. There is no substantial evidence of such deprivation, and, on the other hand, it appears clearly that plaintift severed all church connections, and was practically anti-church. Her statement, “I do not know that I found fault because he wouldn’t allow me to attend church, — I just took it he was the head of the house,” is illuminative. And the further statement that she is not a church member, not opposed to church, but is opposed to a system of Christianity “the way it is administered nowadays. I don’t believe in the doctrine of Christianity at all. I used to believe in it, but he shook my belief, and he was the first man that put a doubt in my mind.” The condition of the proof on ex
We think that the charges of unchastity made by the defendant are unduly emphasized, and repeated without tangible warrant; and this is applicable to the claim that plaintiff was suffering with venereal disease, and’ to the claim that she asked her husband to have sexual relations with female guests, as a matter of hospitality. It has some bearing on the wrongful accusations that, on pressure, the defendant confesses to at least one adultery on his part. His statements as to her relations with a certain taxidermist are illustrative, it being finally developed that defendant never had a suspicion there was any undue intimacy. The cross-examination brings this about as to other charges, and it is all fully denied. He injected hints of unchastity on information from his own brothers, and he made neither of the brothers a witness.
He used injurious epithets as to herself and her family, though some of those were, perhaps, jocular. Others cannot be put in that class. They include “whore” and “bitch,” “damned fool,” “degenerate,” “damned louse,” aspirations
We do not overlook the tendency to color, in divorce cases. Pooley v. Pooley, 178 Iowa 19. And we do not agree to the argument that Evans v. Evans, 159 Iowa 338, holds that a finding by the trial-court, having the witnesses before it, will not be disturbed on appeal, if sustained by evidence. This is not the rule governing hearing ele novo. But, on the whole record, we find that a divorce was due .plaintiff. We do so without much help from case law, cited by the parties, such as Shook v. Shook, 114 Iowa 592; Pooley v. Pooley, 178 Iowa 19, Martin v. Martin, 150 Iowa 223, Shors v. Shors, 133 Iowa 22, and Turner v. Turner, 122 Iowa 113, relied on by the appellee; and the Shors case, supra, May v. May, 108 Iowa 1, Edgerton v. Edgerton, 79 Iowa 68, Prather v. Prather, 99 Iowa 393, Blair v. Blair, 106 Iowa 269, Vanduzer v. Vanduzer, 70 Iowa 614, and Carlisle v. Carlisle, 99 Iowa 247, which is the battery for the appellant. Essentially, each divorce case presents a fact question, and. other cases are, in the very nature of things, variant in some one or more vital particulars.
Land .................. $32,400
Certificate of Deposit .. 1,581
Cash subject to check .. 1,130
Two engines ........... 200
Automobile .................. 400
Promissory note .............. 505
Homestead in city............... 5,100
Personal property............... 1,500
$42,816
Take out the land, the engines, the automobile, the homestead, and the “personal property,” none of which are cash or instantly convertible into cash, and there remains $3,216. And if it be assumed that the land should be treated as a cash resource, we have resources amounting to $35,-616. The decree orders defendant to pay plaintiff $16,260.71 in cash. It lets her keep lands of her own, found to be worth $3,340, and assesses defendant $600 for plaintiffs attorney. The allowance is not the income from the $16,000. That would cease at her death, and possibly on her remarriage. The total sum is sequestrated, which, in a sense, grants the income from such sum in perpetuity. We are constrained to believe that this is more than is prayed — because more than “just and equitable.” Nothing in the evidence shows a relative or comparative condition that calls for an extraordinary allowance. The man weighs more than the woman, and she has rheumatic trouble. But he is not what he once was, either, either in health or earning capacity. Assume the wife needs all she got, and that is not decisive. The allowance must be regu
The relative or comparative fault of the parties is material. Zuver v. Zuver, 36 Iowa 190. True, we have found that no fault of the wife so justified the husband as to leave the decree for divorce without sufficient support. Notwithstanding that, her conduct has bearing upon what is equitably her due upon a divorce which there might have been no occasion fox*, had she done her full duty as a wife. When we reach the questiorx of whether an inequitable provision has been xnade for the divorced wife, her conduct becomes matexial, even though, despite her coxiduct, the decree granting her divox*ce will not be disturbed. Now while, as said, there was no warrant for defendaxxt’s charging the plaintiff with unchastity, there was, however, enough in her conduct with other xxxexx to sustain our.view that, xvhen it comes to alimony, she hardly measured up to the standard of a dutiful wife, and that she persisted in associatioxis, though objection was made, which she should never have entered into, or have abaxxdoned. The brakeman Terrelegar, a man of unsavory reputation, is one of the instances. While there is xxo evidence of actual uxxcixastity, there is much to show that the wife was inclined to be a propagandist for free love theories, and to remain in close association with fellow advocates, both male and female.
She made it a more or less constant object of cxdticism that he abandoned his position in Chicago, where she said he was drawing a salary of $4,800, being influenced by the thought that it wouldn’t hurt thenx if they had a little more money, and that she didn’t think they had enough to retire
She acted in resistance, both physically and by word of mouth. She admits, in effect, talking back and striking back, although she says it was all purely defensive. On the whole, the testimony does not quite show that it was purely defensive.
In Barr v. Barr, 157 Iowa 153, 157, it is indicated that, if the net value of the property was but $15,000, an allowance of $5,000 would be excessive. In Arment v. Arment, 154 Iowa 573, plaintiff was given the custody of two minor children; the husband was worth from $20,000 to $25,000. The plaintiff was given $500 temporary alimony and $7,500 permanent alimony. On appeal, the permanent alimony was reduced to $5,000. In principle, the case of Halley v. Halley, 130 Iowa 683, amounts to holding that the allowance at bar is excessive. So of Hartl v. Hartl, 155 Iowa 329.
In our opinion, an allowance of $12,000 is quite as liberal as the equities of the case will sanction. The decree will be accordingly modified. The allowance of the attorney fee will be affirmed. Appellant will pay all costs.
We have no occasion to consider whether a deposition taken for the defendant should have been suppressed, since the plaintiff is victorious, despite such deposition.