73 Mo. App. 579 | Mo. Ct. App. | 1898
The petition charged numerous indignities,-mostly of- a trivial nature, want of support and abandonment, and prayed for a decree of divorce and for the care and custody of two infant children born of the marriage.
The answer was a general denial. There was an utter failure of proof of abandonment. The evidence on the contrary tended to prove that it was through the wife’s objections to . v the husband's accepting employment in Springfield, the city of their residence, and her unkind treatment of him, that he was compelled to leave their home and seek employment elsewhere, in order to earn the means of subsistance. His departure was not with the intention of abandoning his wife; she was the prime cause of his leaving, and his departure was entirely to her liking, and he remained away because she forbade him to return. The home was hers; held in her own right; to this home she would not consent to his return, not even to see his children. His remaining away under this condition is not evidence of abandonment. His absence was an enforced one, of which the plaintiff was the efficient cause, and she can not enforce, or even consent to the absence of her husband, call it abandonment, and procure a divorce on that account. Davis v. Davis, 60 Mo. App. 545. The evidence also fails to prove any of the indignities
While it is the duty of the husband to support the wife, it is equally the duty of the wife, when she has not means of her own, to live in the style and manner which the means of the husband affords. And when she has means of her own and chooses from such means to live in style beyond the means of. her husband, she is not thereby clothed with the right to cast him off and deny him all marital rights and to deny him the privilege of visiting his children, as was done by .the plaintiff in this case, and we are unable to agree with the learned judge who tried this case
Not the semblance of a cause for divorce is substantiated by the testimony in this case. It is the duty of the plaintiff to remove every obstacle that stands between her and a reconciliation to her husband, and to receive him back in her affections and to restore him to the bosom of his family, from which he has been wrongfully excluded. We are unable to .find any serious misconduct on the part of Campbell. Poverty is not a sin, and has not been made a statutory cause for divorce, yet all that has been proven against Campbell is that he is poor, and the chief indignities alleged are failure to furnish a style and manner of living beyond his means. Though humiliated by poverty and forced to leave his family, the evidence shows that Campbell has been true to his manhood, true to his wife, and that adversity has not cooled his love for his wife or dampened his affections for his children. He should not be divorced or separated from them, and we reverse the judgment, and direct the lower court to dismiss the bill.