191 Iowa 262 | Iowa | 1921
The record is very large. TRe parties seem to have combed several states for testimony. All the depositions, transcripts of evidence, and exhibits have been certified. The questions are largely of fact. There were many witnesses. The evidence is very conflicting. Every circumstance and detail has been threshed out. Manifestly, it is impracticable to state more than the general character of the evidence, and our conclusions.
The two main points relied upon- by appellant are as to the legality of the marriage, and the amount of alimony in case the marriage is held to have been legal, and plaintiff entitled to a divorce. The other questions are argued, and elaborately, too; but the larger guns are trained upon the two propositions just stated.
The trial court held that the Dakota divorce, which is attacked by appellant, was valid, and-that the marriage between the parties to this action was a valid marriage. In reference to this matter, the trial court found that the South Dakota court,’ as shown by the findings of fact and conclusions of law, expressly passed upon the question of the actual and bona-fide residence of the plaintiff therein in the state of South Dakota; that the judgment is in accord with such findings of fact and conclusions of law, and, upon the showing made, the court in this ease was of the opinion that such finding should not be disturbed; that the question of the bona-fide residence of a party is sometimes difficult to determine; but that, from the evidence in this case, were the court to treat it as an original proposition, it would have no hesitancy whatever in holding, and the court found, that said South Dakota court reached the correct conclusion, both as to the facts and the law, and that the judgment based thereon was and is fully warranted. The evidence in the
In addition to the above finding, the court was of the opinion that neither this plaintiff’s then husband nor the plaintiff herein is in a position to question that decree of divorce, because of the subsequent marriage of both her then husband and herself, since the Dakota decree was rendered; and further, that the decree could not be questioned by the defendant in this ease.
Appellee contends that neither the plaintiff herein nor By-rum can question the validity of the South Dakota decree, and that plaintiff is, therefore, divorced, under Code Section 3151, and her marriage to the defendant is valid. Many cases are cited on this proposition. Some of the Iowa cases are Mohler v. Estate of Shank, 93 Iowa 273, 280, 282; Hurley v. Hurley, 117 Iowa 621, 622; Ellis v. White, 61 Iowa 644, 646; Van Orsdal v. Van Orsdal, 67 Iowa 35; Shaw v. Shaw, 92 Iowa 722, 725; Leonard v. Leonard, 174 Iowa 734, 738. See, also, Farr v. Farr, supra. It is further contended by appellee that the defendant cannot attack the Byrum decree, for the purpose of annulling his matriage to plaintiff, on the ground that Byrum was not a bona-fide' resident of South Dakota for six months prior to the commencement of the Byrum divorce case, because 'this would be a collateral attack; and that a judgment valid as between the parties cannot be invalid as to third parties because of want of jurisdiction; and that, if one so acts as to estop himself from questioning a judgment, a third person may not take advantage
‘ ‘ He spoke to me in regard to why he was here. He said he was here, I suppose, to get a divorce from his wife. Q. State
On cross-examination, she says that she can’t remember everything that was said; that she does not remember just the conversation. It will be observed that her testimony is not very positive; and, when we consider that her testimony was given some 15 years after the conversation, it is not persuasive.
It is thought by appellant that there is some contradiction in the testimony of the Byrum family as to why Byrum returned to Indiana. Some of them claim that he returned because of letters to him. There is some conflict in the evidence as to just the time his father was sick. Some of the testimony tends to show that he was not sick at that time, and that he was away. It is also thought by appellant that there were contradictory reasons given by Byrum himself for going to Dakota; that he first went to Worthington, Minnesota; that he went by chance from Minnesota to Sioux Palls, where he happened to get a job in a barber shop: but his evidence does show that he went west to look for a location. It is claimed by appellant that the record shows that Byrum was a wandering, irresponsible individual. It appears that, in 1900, he was indicted in Nebraska for adultery. He claims that it was a case of blackmail by other barbers. His demurrer to the indictment was sustained, and on appeal the ruling was reversed. State v. Byrum, 60 Neb. 384 (83 N. W. 207).
Such is the substance of the testimony on this point, though there are other circumstances, details, and more or less contradiction. Without further discussion of the evidence, we think the evidence abundantly shows that Byrum was a bona-fide resident of Sioux Palls, South Dakota, at the time of the divorce; that the divorce was legal; and that plaintiff was competent to enter into a valid marriage with the defendant at the time they were married. Under the evidence, Byrum was in Sioux Palls about nine months before the divorce, and about a month afterwards. It would be possible, of course, that a person going to Dakota for that length of time before the divorce could do so for the purpose only of obtaining a divorce, but it does not necessarily follow that such was the case. The cir
2. The next question is whether plaintiff is entitled to a divorce from the defendant. To go into the details of the mass of evidence would unduly prolong the opinion. The trial court found and stated:
‘ ‘ The evidence of the defendant upon the witness stand and the numerous letters introduced in evidence written by and to him, standing alone, are, in my opinion, sufficient to warrant the granting of a decree of divorce to plaintiff. Taking such evidence in connection with all the other evidence introduced upon the trial, I readily reach the conclusion that a decree of divorce ought to be, and the same is, hereby entered for plaintiff, as prayed. ’ ’
The claims of the plaintiff are all contested by the defendant, and either denied or explained. Without going into the evidence, we are convinced that defendant has been proven, by the greater weight of the evidence, guilty of adultery with one or more of the women referred to in the-evidence, and that he has been proven guilty of cruel and inhuman treatment, such as to ^entitle plaintiff to a divorce on both grounds. Some of the circumstances bearing upon these points will be referred to in the next paragraph of the opinion, in passing upon the amount of alimony. We shall refer to them with reference more especially to the character of both plaintiff and defendant, as bearing upon the question of alimony. To avoid repetition, we shall not go into the circumstances more in detail at this point.
Appellee argues that, under the modern rules, the sum payable is in lieu of her right of dower, maintenance, or prior duty to support; that the court may, in its discretion, consider the nature of the husband’s offense, and award something in addition as compensation for injuries; that, if defendant has the ability to pay, the plaintiff is to have such an allowance as will maintain her in the style and condition that her husband’s fortune would have reasonably justified her maintenance, but for his infidelity; that she is not to be put upon a stinted allowance because the husband has been unfaithful to his marriage vows, but that this is rather a reason, if his estate be ample, that she should receive a generous and liberal support; that, in some cases, though not all, equity may be accomplished by treating the wife as if the marriage had been dissolved by death, and allowing her the rights of a widow; that equity requires that the husband should not profit by his own wrong. 2 Nelson on Divorce & Separation, Sections 903, 905, 908, Spain v. Spain, 177 Iowa 249, 252, and Carr v. Carr, 185 Iowa 1205, are cited to sustain these different propositions, some on one point and some on
Her chastity was impugned, but this charge was not established, though she was inclined to free-love theories, and she persisted in improper associations with men, over her husband’s objection. There was nothing in the record calling for an extraordinary allowance. Other cases are cited in that opinion as holding that the allowance must be regulated by resources, rather than by necessity; that the relative or comparative fault of the parties is material. Appellee contends that the evidence is such in this case that the wronged wife is entitled to an extraordinary allowance, because the evidence shows that defendant considers the privilege of committing adultery as one of the inalienable rights of a husband, and because of his numerous adulteries and his depraved character. Her counsel concedes, however, that, under ordinary circumstances, the amount allowed by the trial court would be adequate and equitable, but for such special circumstances. Appellee cites Hiecke v. Hiecke, 163 Wis. 171 (157 N. W. 747, 750), as holding that generally a liberal allowance to the wife is one third, but that this may be increased to one half or more, for special circumstances. Appellee cites further Daly v. Daly, 154 Iowa 486, 491, Muir v. Muir, 133 Ky. 125 (92 S. W. 314, 4 L. R. A. [N. S.] 909), Kelly v. Kelly, 183 Ky. 172 (209 S. W. 335), Nathan v. Nathan, 102 Neb. 59 (165 N. W. 955), Edholm v. Edholm, 99 Neb. 331 (156 N. W. 500), Fitzpatrick v. Fitzpatrick, 127 Minn. 96 (148 N. W. 1074), and other cases,
On the other hand, appellant contends, in substance, that there is no equity in raising so largely the scale of living to which plaintiff had been accustomed at the time of and prior to the commencement of her suit; that she had no part in earning defendant’s larger estate, or any of his estate; that the amount awarded is grossly excessive, and that it is confiscatory; that the only possible claim that plaintiff can assert is to such an'allowance as is measured by the existing duty of support. Among the cases cited to sustain such position are Sweatt v. Sweatt, (Iowa) 176 N. W. 785 (not officially reported); Meyer v. Meyer, 187 Iowa 617; Carson v. Carson, (Iowa) 171 N. W. 584 (not officially reported); Arment v. Arment, 154 Iowa 573; Martin v. Martin, 150 Iowa 223; Parsons v. Parsons, 152 Iowa 68; Martin v. Martin, 65 Iowa 255, 256; Zuver v. Zuver, 36 Iowa 190; Hartl v. Hartl, 155 Iowa 329; Barr v. Barr, 157 Iowa 153; Daly v. Daly, supra; Weidert v. Weidert, 106 Wash. 410 (180 Pac. 135); Bialy v. Bialy, 167 Mich. 559; Von Trott v. Von Trott, 118 Wis. 29 (94 N. W. 798); and other cases. We shall not review the cases, but go now to some of the- circumstances and claims pro and con of the parties. The record is so voluminous and the circumstances so numerous that it would be out of the question, in referring to the different circumstances, to detail all the evidence bearing on that point, or the contradictions and explanations. There is much evidence in the record to show that defendant is such a man, and his conduct such, as we have already indicated. Many of the circumstances are clearly established against him. Others are not so clearly established. Naturally, all are either denied or there is an attempted explanation, and some are so explained as to weaken the plaintiff’s evidence in reference thereto. As we have said in some of our cases, there is a tendency to color, in divorce cases.
Referring to some of the circumstances bearing upon her character and conduct, and that of the defendant, it appears that defendant’s mother and other witnesses seem to agree that, in 1911, there was no trouble between plaintiff and defendant, and plaintiff so says; but she says that, in 1912, defendant resumed his prior habits and relations with other women. Defendant’s mother, at that time, was' friendly to the plaintiff, but later was more favorable to her son. During a part of plaintiff’s married life with defendant, she kept a large 24-room rooming house, took care of it, and did the house work and the washing, or a part of it. Eight or ten witnesses, who lived-at or near the house of the parties, and who had an opportunity of knowing her character and habits, testify that she was a hardworking, good-natured, industrious woman, and an excellent housekeeper. Some of them say that, at the time she was married to defendant, she was a nice-dispositioned woman. Some of them qualify this somewhat, on cross-examination, by saying that she had a temper. Defendant’s witnesses, some of whom, it seems to us, are not entirely credible, testify as to her temper, and that, at times, she used bad language, was fault-finding, and participated in some of the drinking bouts. We are inclined to think that, because of defendant’s conduct and treatment of her, there was at least some provocation for her
The lawyer who was then acting for defendant in the alienation case, or some other litigation, and who naturally was well acquainted with defendant and with his habits and disposition, told plaintiff, so she testifies, that he would not ask a dog to live with defendant; that this was when she read letters that she had received in regard to some of defendant’s troubles in Dakota. This is not denied; but appellant says that that lawyer’s attitude is shown by some of the lawyer’s letters, which will be referred to in a moment. On February 6, 1916, plaintiff wired the attorney referred to, from California, that, on that morning, defendant struck her with his fist, slapped her, kicked her, and threw her on the bed.
“Things have become unendurable; why should I be called upon to endure? I feel my life is in danger. You will mider-stand, I wish him well — -a woman in the deal.”
A few days thereafter, the attornéy wired or wrote her from Mason City:
“Stand by Al in this emergency. Help him all you can. It is vital for his and your interests. * * * Treat everything as' a lie until proved.”
A few days thereafter, the same attorney wrote plaintiff a letter, from which we quote:
“I can easily understand, from all you say, that your feelings are very sorely tried, and your position far from- a comfortable one, on account of the things which have developed out there recently. * * * I am simply telling you the candid truth: that, in my opinion, there is but one course for you to pursue in the present emergency, and that is for you to conquer- your feelings. * * * You, I know, are wise enough to see that this suit against Al is precisely the sort of game they would stage against him out there, in order to drive him into a settlement, and thus let George out of a very sorry position. In bringing this case against Al at this time, they have only helped to dish their soup’; for it will drive Al further from a settlement. What Mr. Mor-ling and myself are aiming at is to get Al his full share, and to get it free from George’s guardianship or control. We’ll do this, if Al does half his share, and I feel he will ncfw, and is*278 doing so. * * * Your interests and Al’s are identical. * * * Do not, for one moment, think of taking sides against Al, * * * then, no matter how this last case comes out, your loyalty will be your best and biggest asset, believe me.”
We understand this letter to refer to an alienation suit brought against defendant in California, and to the suit pending in Iowa to set aside the trust agreement as to the property. A witness for defendant, who had formerly been on good terms with both plaintiff and defendant, testifies that she has known plaintiff 8 or 9 years, and that:
“Plaintiff has a violent temper. Have seen her angry a number of times. Have heard her call names which did not sound very nice, — called Al a son of a bitch. She sometimes used the language I have referred to, with an oath, such as ‘damn.’ ”
This witness admits writing a letter to plaintiff in 1916, in which she says, in part:
“You surely are having trouble. * # * How could you put up with so much from that man? You surely think the whole world of him, or you could not — but guess you are taking the right way. I got your letter Thursday, and that evening, the same piece came out in the Globe-Gazette. Guess there were 20 people called me, after that event, to talk about it, and most of them said, ‘His wife will leave him now, won’t she?’ and I told them I did not think so, but most women would. Some thought it a put-up job; but I don’t think so, for I have heard about Mrs. Adkins before, and saw letters, too. * '* * You have done enough worrying to drive most women insane. ’ ’
The Adkins woman referred to in this letter is one of the parties with whom defendant was, as we think, proven guilty of adultery, and whose husband secured a judgment against defendant for alienation, in California. This case was, however, reversed on appeal, for error in instructions and admission of evidence. Plaintiff’s evidence tends to show that, when she remonstrated with defendant for his adulterous course with other women, he became violent, and struck her; that he wrote one woman that plaintiff “ought to be hung,” and that another should “knock her head off and have her arrested for trespass;” that he called her a lying brute; that defendant told two women
“Father acts like a crazy man, and makes me mad enough to kick his behind.”
On this trial he was asked as to his evidence on another trial about his father.
“Q. What did you intend to convey by the next sentence here: ‘An old devil like him ought to be cut?’ A. Well, I couldn’t tell you. Q. You meant he ought to be castrated, didn’t you? A. Well, I presume it was something of that sort.”
In 1912, a woman wrote defendant, saying:
“Be careful of your letters, and don’t let the old hen get them; the old hen is laying for you. ’ ’
Defendant wrote the same woman:
“Address box 1857, no name at all, Los Angeles. She got your last letter, and that started things. ’ ’
In a letter to his mother'in 1913, defendant wrote of his wife:
“She ought to be hung, as there is nothing too low for she to say or do. ’ ’
Plaintiff testifies that defendant communicated a venereal disease to her; that he took her to a doctor; that she did not sleep with him for three months; that he told her he was through with the disease, and she supposed he was. She says she did not intend to leave him, if he would reform and do different; that she tried to keep track of defendant sipce 1915, on advice of his lawyers. There is other evidence on this subject than that of plaintiff. Defendant denies that he communicated the disease to her. There is a conflict in the evidence as to whether he did so. We shall not stop to go into the evidence further on that point. The evidence shows that defendant registered at hotels
Referring briefly to some of the circumstances tending to show cruel treatment, it is claimed by plaintiff, and the evidence in her behalf tends to show, that on February 6, 1916, defendant had been drinking, came home late at night, assaulted her, and at that time fractured two of her ribs; that, because of her promises made -to his .attorneys and his father and mother to stay with him, she sent the wire from Los Angeles to defendant’s attorney, which has been before referred to; that, in October, 1916, defendant assaulted and struck plaintiff, and left her bleeding on the porch, and drove away in his automobile. Another witness for plaintiff .testifies that, in 1915, defendant came to her house, to get her to go over and see Mrs. Brett, and defendant said he had struck her; said she kept agitating things until he couldn’t stand it any longer, and he struck her. The same witness testifies that she saw plaintiff in 1916, when her face was swollen, and her lip and eye black, and plaintiff said that defendant had struck her. Plaintiff testifies regarding this transaction. In August, 1917, plaintiff says, defendant threw her off the porch, four feet high; threw a milk bottle at her, saying that he would brain her. At this time, plaintiff had defendant arrested, and left him, deeming it unsafe to longer attempt to live with him. There is more or less denial and explanation as to these circumstances. Defendant testifies:
“I came home and she wanted to know where I had been. I told her, ‘Up town.’ She accused me of being out riding with a woman. When I said I wasn’t, she called me a liar, and said someone phoned her about it.- She cursed and swore, and got into a rage, and grabbed the butcher knife. I just turned her around and slammed her up against the casing of the door, face first, and it bruised her face and mouth some.’-’
Defendant also testifies:
‘ ‘ Q. Now you say, ‘ She ought to have beat her up. ’ That is, Mrs. Nelson ought to have beaten your wife up. What did you mean by that? A. Well, I think, if she wasn’t doing those*281 things, most any reasonable person would have kicked her out. Q. But if she had objected to any immorality on her part, and if she objected to any immorality on your part, selling beer, or drinking, or running around with any immoral people,' you would kick her'out or beat her up, wouldn’t you? A. I would kick her out just the same as I would you, if you came over there when I was running the house.”
Some of defendant’s witnesses testify that he was square and all right, so far as they knew.
There is, of course, much more in the' testimony, pro and con, but what has been said is substantially a pen picture of the two parties. Considering all these circumstances and the entire situation, the writer sees no reason why the plaintiff should not have at least one third of his property awarded to her as alimony. I would affirm on defendant’s appeal, and modify the finding of the trial court, to the extent indicated, on plaintiff’s appeal. But, as said, the majority are of the opinion that the award should stand.
4. As to the second appeal from the denial of the application for a new trial, it seems to us that the matter is too insignificant to upset all the evidence introduced on the original trial. The application for a new trial is based almost entirely upon a photograph which was introduced in evidence on the original trial as one of the circumstances tending to show defendant’s adultery with one of the women against whom adultery' is charged. It was claimed that the woman by defendant’s side in the photograph was such woman; whereas, it turns out that such was not the fact. It also appears that, in the original photograph, defendant was taken with four women, one of whom was by his side, and the other three back of them, and higher up on the rocks. In the photograph used on the original trial, the three women at the rear did not appear. Appellant contends that plaintiff’s conduct in that regard was a fraud upon the court, and that, this being so, her evidence on the original trial is weakened, and her credibility and good faith impaired. We have before indicated that the evidence was sufficient to warrant a divorce, as to at least some of the grounds, without the testimony of plaintiff as a witness. It appears that the photograph used on the original trial was indistinct, so that the features
“It is so vague and indistinct that I am not at all'surprised that Mr. Brett and Mrs. Brett were misled by the picture, starting out with the assumption that it was Mrs. Dalton. If they had started on the assumption that it was somebody else, I think the chances are that both would have agreed. That picture, to me, is very, very indistinct. As suggested by one of the witnesses, some of the reproductions are much more distinct; but, taking the picture as it is, I would not be at all sure that I could identify it, even if I knew who the original was, because of the shadows and indistinctness.”
The court found that there was no fraud or bad faith shown on the part of appellee. At the original trial, the defendant claimed that the picture was taken at a beach picnic, and that it was a joke, and there was nothing serious about it. The lady sitting by defendant was not a stranger, but an acquaintance of his. There is no difference between the photograph on the original trial and the one presented on the petition for new trial, so far as it relates to the defendant, and the lady sitting by him.
Without prolonging the opinion, we-reach the conclusion that the decree in favor of plaintiff, granting her a divorce and alimony, ought to be, and it is, affirmed; and it is affirmed on plaintiff’s appeal. We also conclude that the court did not err in overruling appellant’s motion for new trial, which appeal is also affirmed. — Affirmed on all appeals.