25 N.J. Eq. 406 | New York Court of Chancery | 1874
• I must advise in this case, that the complainant’s bill be dismissed, with costs. He sues for a divorce from his wife on the ground of desertion. A separation has existed between
The parties were married in New York, in February, 1861. He was attending lectures as a student of medicine, and boarding in the family of a widow, who had adopted the defendant when an orphan of five or six years. The defendant was a member of the family at her marriage, and about sixteen years old. The complainant’s age does not appear from the testimony, but is manifestly much greater than his wife’s. The marriage was private and not disclosed to their friends till weeks afterwards, when he took her to his father’s, in Newark, in whose house she remained, with the exception of a few months, till the time of the separation in 1867. Her situation of dependence was not agreeable to her feelings, and, while no contentions or differences of importance appear to have arisen between her mother-in-law and herself, it is plain that their association did not conduce to the happiness of either. The mother testifies to the defendant’s temper that it was variable and capricious, but no serious misconduct is alleged, nor does the defendant allege any against the mother. There was a lack of sympathy between them, and a lack of complacency in the mother with her son’s marriage. The suggestion occurs in the case that the defendant was a servant at the time of her marriage, but if true it could hardly add anything to the merits of his case, and it does not appear to be true. So far as inferences can be drawn from the defendant’s testimony and demeanor as a witness, there is no disparity between the parties unfavorable to her, in respect to either intelligence or culture, nor anything to indicate an inequality of social positions. In 1862, the complainant joined the army as an assistant surgeon, and was in it at the close of the war. After his return he was infected with the venereal disorder, which he communicated to his wife and child, and which she testifies was one of the reasons of the separation. Much of the testimony on his side relates to this disorder, and is to prove that the existence of it in himself was not due to his criminal conduct. The presumptions and proofs are adverse
The charges of cruelty and adultery, contained in the answer, may, as before stated, be admitted not to be established by the proofs. Desertion or separation by the wife may be excused on grounds short of those-which would be sufficient, on her side, to obtain a divorce. In Cornish v. Cornish, 8