Regarding the special damages for medical expenses, it is elementary that the husband is responsible, generally, under the law, for such items of medical expenses as are shown in the instant case. This rule is not applicable wherе such expenses are charged to the wife at her request, and she promises to pay such expenses herself instead of her husband paying them. The evidence revealed that the plaintiff made an agreement with the hospitаl and with the doctors that she would pay the expenses and that such expenses should be charged to her. The expenses were charged to the plaintiff personally. The bills were sent to her by the hospital and the doctors. See
Herring
v.
Holden,
88
Ga. App.
212 (
Further, regarding the general grounds, it is contended by the defendant that the plaintiff was guilty, under the evidence, of contributory negligence in that she had an opportunity to leave the car after she realized that the defendant and Jamеs R. Proctor were so intoxicated as to make it unsafe for the plaintiff and her children to continue to ride in the car. It is true that under our law if a guest in a car is so heedless of her own safety that she fails to exercise ordinary cаre, such would prevent a recovery for injuries. Under the facts of the present case it is easily seen that there were striking differences existing between the circumstances of this case and the facts in the numerous cases citеd on behalf of the defendant. One of the cases cited by the defendant is
Brown v. Binns,
87
Ga. App.
485 (
Special ground 1 assigns error on the еxcerpt from the charge of the court as follows: “In determining where the preponderance of the evidence lies the jury may consider all the facts and circumstances of the case, the witness’ manner of testifying, their meаns and opportunities for knowing the facts to which they testify, the probability or improbability of their testimony, and also their personal credibility in so far as the same may legitimately appear from the trial. The jury may also consider the number of witnesses, though the preponderance is not necessarily with the greater number.” Code § 38-107 sets out the rules for determination as to where the preponderance of evidence lies. This court held in
Georgia Power Co.
v.
Burger,
63
Ga. App.
784 (1) (
Special ground 2 assigns error on the following excerpt: “And, if in this case, gentlemen, you find the injury оccurred because of the gross negligence of the defendant or his servant, one he has placed in control of the car, should he have placed anyone in control of the car; was slightly negligent in the exercise оf slight negligence, brought about the injury to the plaintiff in this case, I charge you that she would be entitled to recover whatever the jury finds that has been proven damages.” We consider this a mere slip of the tongue of the trial court. A reading оf the
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whole charge shows that there was no error actually harmful to the defendant when we consider the whole charge. The charge of the court of which a portion is set out in this special ground began with the following paragrаph: “Gentlemen, if you find the plaintiff was a guest in the car of the defendant I charge you that the defendant would be liable only for gross negligence. Gross negligence, in general, slight diligence is that degree of care which every man of common sense, however inattentive he may be, exercises under the same or similar circumstances. . . The absence of such care is termed gross negligence, the defendant would be liable only for acts of gross negligence.” It will thus bе seen that the court had stated twice, in the paragraph quoted immediately hereinabove, that the defendant was liable only for gross negligence. At the conclusion of the charge the court said: “It has been called to my аttention there may be some misunderstanding on the idea of gross negligence or slight diligence. One is the opposite from the other. If a person has been grossly negligent he hasn’t used slight diligence. I think that is clear to the jury.” Under the whole charge of the court the jury could not have been misled and they could not have reasonably interpreted the charge to mean anything other than that the defendant would be liable only for gross negligence. In
Siegel
v.
State,
206
Ga.
252 (2) (
Special ground 3 alleges that the court erred in giving the jury the following instructions pertaining to the diligence required of the plaintiff: “Now, gentlemen, the plaintiff has to exercise ordinary care to prevent injury to herself. In other words if the plaintiff was in the exercise of gross negligence, but by the exercise of ordinary care and diligence the plaintiff could have prevented injury to herself, she could not recover.” The defendant contends that the above excerpt is reversible error because the court used the wоrd “plaintiff” in a portion of this excerpt when he should have used the word “defendant.” It is apparent that the court did use the word “plaintiff” in one place in the excerpt when he should have used the word “defendant.” This is definitely a “slip of thе tongue.” Such does not require
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a reversal. This court has passed on the identical question in
Walton
v.
Smith,
43
Ga. App.
308 (
Special ground 4 assigns error on the following excerpt from the charge of the court: “It is a violation of the law of Georgia for anyone to operate a motor vehicle upon a public highway or street while under the influence of alcoholic beverages. Should the jury find under the evidence that the dеfendant or driver of the car operated the car while under the influence of intoxicating beverages it would still be a matter for the jury to determine whether or not such operation was the proximate cause of the accident that resulted in injury to the plaintiff in the case, if any injury did result from the accident.” It is not contended that this is not a correct principle of law, but it is contended that the court should have gone further in connection with this part of the chаrge, and instructed the jury that driving a car under the influence of intoxicating liquors is gross negligence and that such operation is the proximate cause of the injuries. We are satisfied that hereinabove in this opinion we have explained that, when we view the charge as a whole, the court clearly and fully instructed the jury that the plaintiff could not recover unless the defendant was guilty of gross negligence which resulted in or was the proximate cause of the injuries to the plaintiff. This assignment of error is without merit.
*770 The court did not err in denying the amended motion for a new trial for any of the reasons assigned.
Judgment affirmed.
