Lead Opinion
This suit is a contest between the father of two boys, — one approximately eleven years of age and the other ten, — and their foster grandmother, over their care and custody. The case has been before us on two former occasions (in June, 1948, and again in 1949, Smith v. Smith,
The question now presented is whether, since the court’s last order in 1949 continuing the care and custody of these children in appellant, appellee has shown such changed conditions as would warrant a modification of that decree, and an award of the custody to appellee, the burden being on him. We hold that appellee has failed to meet the burden imposed and that the trial court erred in modifying its former decree. Reference is made to our former opinions above for statements of essential facts. After a careful review of the testimony, we find no substantial change in conditions affecting the welfare of these children, since custody was awarded appellant. It is conceded that appellant and her husband, Dan Beavers, are good people, and are suitable, financially able, and anxious to continue to have the care and custody of these boys. In fact, it seems that both are bestowing upon these children all the love, care and affection that would be expected of natural parents.
About the only change shown by appellee is the fact that he now owns a home in Louisiana, is financially able to care for the boys, and has a child by his second wife, and she now joins him in his plea to have their custody. The fact remains, however, as pointed out in our former opinions, that appellee gave these children to their grandmother willingly, practically abandoning them, and they have remained with appellant and her husband (grandparents) all of their lives except for about sixty days. For almost ten years, appellee contributed nothing to their support and appeared indifferent to their well being. Not until June, 1952, did he make any contribution towards their support and then only in obedience to an outstanding court order, and apparently in preparation for the present litigation.
Both children testified that they wanted to remain with their “grandmother and granddaddy.” During all this time, with appellee’s assent, ties of love and affection have grown strong between these children and their grandmother which appellee is obligated to respect.
In a long line of cases, we have consistently adhered to the well established rule: “ ‘In determining the custody of a minor child, the welfare of the child is the supreme and controlling consideration. In the comparatively recent case of Kirby v. Kirby,
“We also said in Graves v. French,
“ ‘The law recognizes the preferential rights of parents to their children over relatives and strangers, and, where not detrimental to the welfare of the children, they are paramount, and will be respected, unless special circumstances demand that such right be ignored. * * # fpjje c0111qs win not always, however, award the custody of infants to the father, but, in the exercise of a sound discretion, will look into the peculiar circumstances of the case and act as the welfare of the child appears to require, considering primarily three things: (1) Respect for parental affection, (2) Interest of humanity generally, (3) The infant’s own best interest.’ * * * ” Henry v. Janes,
In Mantooth v. Hopkins,
The decree is reversed with directions to restore the care and custody of these children to appellant with the privilege to appellee to visit them at all reasonable times and for proceedings consistent with this opinion, including support money, costs in both courts to be paid by appellee.
Dissenting Opinion
(dissenting). I cannot agree with the last paragraph of the majority opinion which gives appellee, the father of the two children, only “the privilege . . . to visit them at all reasonable times . . . ” It is true that the father allowed the children to be placed with their foster grandmother but it also appears that at the time he did so he was not in position to keep them himself. It is not disputed that the father now has a home and that his character is such that he would not exercise any bad influence on the children. To my mind it is very unjust for this court to deny him the privilege of having the children with him in his home for a reasonable period of time when they are not in school. This right to a parent has been recognized many times by this court. See Burnett v. Clark,
