190 Iowa 493 | Iowa | 1920
Lead Opinion
— I. The original decree provides $20 a month for the support of the child Sidney. On the application before us, the court increased this to $30 a month, and appellant urges that it should be increased to $75.
We incline to the opinion that $30 a month is insufficient. Since the original allowance of $20 a month was made, and even since it was increased to $30, there has been a universal advance in the cost of the necessities of life, and we think, too, there has been such change in the financial condition of the parties as to warrant a change in this allowance.
We agree that, despite a presumption that one worth $30,000 at an earlier time is presumed to be still worth that much at a later time, there is no presumption that he has doubled the $30,000. At the time the original decree was entered, the showing was that the husband was practically insolvent. At the habeas corpus hearing, he admitted, in effect, that he was then worth $30,000. He is now in possession of a successful business, and, on the presumption of continuance, is still worth $30,000. We think the record justifies us in increasing this allowance to $50 a month. We do not overlook no witness has disputed the statement of the mother that $75 is necessary. But on such question as that, the testimony of no witness can be conclusive upon the courts.
We should be more hesitant to interfere with the judicial discretion lodged in the trial court as to such allowance, were it not so notorious how the cost of living has advanced; were it not true that there is no real contest at this point, because the father has expressed himself as being willing to be liberal in the maintenance of this child, and has voluntarily paid more than was decreed in' the original decree, and has bought clothing for the boy; and were it not true that our own order is subject to
There is, as is quite usual in cases where the feeling that runs through suits of this kind prevails, a decided tendency to exaggerate. And that should be taken into consideration in weighing the testimony on this head. There is much of it that relates to responses made by the stepmother when plaintiff called her on the phone, and had others do so. And closely connected with this is the testimony that the stepmother refused to let Dresmond talk over the phone when his mother called. The plaintiff testifies that, when she asked on the phone whether she couldn’t talk with Dresmond, the stepmother said,- “No, you cannot;” that she then said she would like to know how the boy was getting along, and the stepmother answered, “It is none of your damn business.” Plaintiff says' she phoned during the Passover week, and asked if she couldn’t please talk to Dresmond, and the stepmother said, “You know you can’t. I am liable to let you talk with him; ’ ’ and that plaintiff told her she wanted to know whether he went to school that day, and Mrs. Barish answered, “It is none of your damn business;” that she hollered as loud as she could. It is claimed plaintiff asked a Mrs. Chrischilles to phone the stepmother, inquiring how Dresmond was, and plaintiff says that the response was a swearing at the one who was calling, and she was told it was none of her damn business; also, that there was some more cursing; that the stepmother did a lot of swearing, and told the party to go to hell. She claims to have had a talk which a Miss Allen overheard on an extension phone, and in which plaintiff asked, “Will you be kind enough to let me talk with Dresmond,” and the answer was, “No, you can’t talk with him,” and then, on inquiry why she couldn’t talk with her child, the answer was, “It is none of your damn business.” A Mrs. Steere testifies she heard the stepmother tell plaintiff plaintiff couldn’t talk to Dresmond any more; that no one could talk yrith him any more, and when plaintiff asked, “Who do you
True it is, the boy says that he didn’t get to talk with his mother because his stepmother wouldn’t let him, and that he had heard her tell his mother, about ten or twelve times, that he couldn’t talk to her. But it plainly shows in the record that this was in large part prompted by the fact that the mother called on the phone with very annoying frequency. Plaintiff says she never refused to allow the father to see or visit with Sidney, though he has refused to allow her to visit with Dresmond ; and that, when she asked him on the phone whether she could get to see Dresmond, and that she had called him at school, he answered, “No, you can’t talk with him; you can’t get to see him, that’s all.” On the other hand, the boy Dresmond testified:
‘ ‘ Q. Did you want to talk with your mother ? A. Sometimes I do, and sometimes I don’t. She calls me up on the same days after she sees me at school.”
The boy was asked, “Did you hear your stepmother swear sometimes?” and said:
“Once she was at the phone, and my mother bothered, always calling up people, and talked to her just to make her mad; and once she got disgusted, and she swore; and that is the only time I ever heard her. swear. The rest of the time, I was in school, and I didn’t know about it.”
There is evidence from which it may fairly be said that appellant customarily called every day, and twice on Saturdays and Sundays; that she phoned the stepmother repeatedly, and had others do so, ostensibly to inquire about the child, but in fact for the purpose of more or less annoying the stepmother. There is testimony from the little boy that once she called up about ten times, and that at last his stepmother got disgusted, and that, from that time on, he never talked to her. When he was free from influence, and examined separately, he testified
What may have been improper conduct on part of the stepmother should be dealt with in the light of all the evidence.
There is complaint that the mother is not permitted to visit Dresmond freely, as it is claimed the custodial order made in the original proceeding permitted her to do. That, standing alone, will not warrant a change in custody, at least until complaint is made to the court that made the custodial order, and other means of correction, short of changing the custody, sought on such application. And Something is to be said on the facts. The boy testifies that he has been able to meet his mother in school; that he has not been to her rooms lately, because his father wouldn’t let him come over, but he adds that his father told Sidney that Dresmond could come over, if Sidney would come over to see Dresmond; that he went over, but Sidney never came, and that this was the only time he ever went there; and that, when he asked his mother why Sidney couldn’t come, she answered that she wanted him to do so, but that the little boy wouldn’t do it. It can fairly be found, too, that the right, of visitation was abused, and that this annoyance mitigates, while it may not excuse, what the stepmother said. And part of the feeling was engendered because of the fact that when, at one time while the father was away on his wedding trip, he left the
No one can wholly defend the attitude and conduct of the stepmother. She, in common with humanity as a whole, is not faultless. It may be conceded that she has, at times, sworn, when talking to the plaintiff on the telephone. But it cannot be said that this was wholly gratuitous, and that the ■ plaintiff did nothing to provoke what happened, reprehensible as it may have been thus to have met the annoyance.
The situation is quite well summed up by the statement of the trial court:
“I think the stepmother has indulged in some language that is probably not very ladylike, but I take it she has repented, and that probably she has been provoked to it by the repeated calling up on the phone by plaintiff.”
Confessedly, the welfare of this child is the controlling factor. He is at an age where a boy is ordinarily better governed by a father. He is an inmate of a well-kept-up home, and has the advantages that the wealth of his father gives in the way of comfort and upkeep and schooling. His mother cannot do this much for him. Whatever may be said against the stepmother, there is no charge that the father offended in any way, and that he was not acting properly toward the child.
To a substantial extent at least, such change of custody is addressed to the sound discretion of the court, and is not as freely interfered with as a law pronouncement is. On the whole, we do not find that this discretion was abused, and we affirm the order refusing to make the change in custody prayed. The facts in the cases relied on by appellant differentiate these cases from the case at bar.
“The court may order either party to pay the clerk a sum of money for the separate support and maintenance of the adverse party and the children, and to enable such party to prosecute or defend the action.”-
We hold that neither this nor any other statute gives this
The majority of this court also affirm the order of the trial court refusing to increase plaintiff’s alimony. Whatever the extent of the power of the court may be to make such increase, it is always slow to exercise such power, except in the presence of extraordinary circumstances, such as are not present here. Ostheimer v. Ostheimer, 125 Iowa 523. On this ground, the order of the trial court is sustained by the majority.
Except as indicated in Division I hereof, the decree entered below is, accordingly, affirmed. — Modified and affirmed.
Concurrence Opinion
(concurring specially). I think the time has come for deciding the question; and if it should not be done here, I cannot imagine a case wherein the question would have to be decided. Does our statute give power to modify an allowance of “gross” or “permanent” alimony? Before considering that question, eliminations should be made.
We are not concerned with the numerous decisions holding there can be no alteration or modification unless the power to alter or modify is reserved in the original decree, and that there may be alterations or modification if such reservation be made. For the decree at bar makes no reservations. We obtain no help from the long list of cases where a modification of permanent alimony was respectively denied or granted, and the action was taken upon statutes that plainly gave the power, or as plainly denied it. And we enter upon considering the major question in the case upon a well-made concession that the application to have the permanent alimony in this case enlarged must be denied, unless we can say that our statute authorized a change up or down as to “permanent alimony” allowed. See McFarlane v. McFarlane, 43 Ore. 477 (73 Pac. 203); Rigney v. Rigney, 62 N. J. Eq. 8 (49 Atl. 460); Henderson v. Henderson, 64 Me. 419, 421; Cariens v. Cariens, 50 W. Va. 113 (40 S. E. 335); Sammis v. Medbury, 14 R. I. 214, 216; Stratton v. Stratton, 73
It is conceded we have never settled whether our statute authorizes a change as to permanent alimony. In Spain v. SpaAn, 177 Iowa 249, at 258, we declare this point has never been decided, and expressly decline to decide it. Full investigation has satisfied us that, while it might have been decided repeatedly, it was not done.
II. Dealing with it, then, as matter of first impression in this court, we have to decide whether our statute gives any power to change a decree allowance of “permanent alimony,” merely because a change in circumstances would be met by such modification. The statute does not contain the word “alimony.” It gives power, when a divorce is decreed, to make “such order in relation to the children, property, parties, and the maintenance of the parties as shall be right.” And “subsequent changes may be made by it in these respects, when circumstances render them expedient.” Code Section 3180. In these words must be found authority to do what appellant asks. If not found there, such power does not exist.
We start in with the conceded fact that “maintenance of the parties” is very often arranged by an order for stated payments to be made periodically in future, and that, as to such provision, the right is' reserved to make such modification as future change may necessitate. Therefore, it does mot necessarily follow that giving power to make subsequent changes “in these respects,” i. e., “maintenance of the parties,” authorizes change in gross or permanent alimony. The grant may, so far as expression in terms goes, be authority for no more than to change orders that periodical payments for support be made. The terms do not compel a construction that there is power as well to modify a decree allowance of permanent alimony. Should that be the interpretation, though the statute does not in terms compel it? Assume that such should be the construction if “support and maintenance” of the one spouse is the equivalent of “alimony” or of “gross alimony” or of “permanent alimony,” and we have the question whether these and the statute phrase are equivalents. My research establishes that allowance for the future support of the divorced wife is not, in fact, ali
Adjustments in the nature of division or allotment, or in the nature of money equivalent for division or allotment or partition, ordered when decree of divorce is entered, are not “orders in relation to the maintenance of the parties;” and author
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On reason, an order for maintenance and an allowance of permanent alimony should not be treated alike as to permanency. The decree of divorce places the parties as if they had never been married. It terminates both privilege and duty, and the woman has no more claim upon the former husband than upon any other member of the community. Plaster v. Plaster, 47 Ill. 290, at 294. The duty is so utterly abrogated that her subsequent adultery will not warrant a return of any part of the permanent alimony. Cariens v. Cariens, 50 W. Va. 113 (40 S. E. 335). As utterly abrogated is privilege. Neither retains any right in after-acquired property of the other. Mitchell v. Mitchell, 20 Kan. 665, at 667; Storey v. Storey, 125 Ill. 608 (18 N. E. 329). And it is plain that, if the permanent allotment may be changed, it could well happen that an interest in after-acquired property will result. It is on reasoning such as this it has been said that the judgment for permanent alimony is as absolute and permanent as is the decree of divorce. Mitchell v. Mitchell, 20 Kan. 665, at 667. It is declared by Smith v. Smith, 45 Ala. 264, that an award of permanent alimony is a provision then and there finally made, to meet the changed status; is a final provision made while the bonds still subsist, furnishing capital wherewith the former wife may commence life anew, after her expulsion from the household of her husband and the withdrawal of his liability for her maintenance and support; and it is the consensus of opinion that this object can best be accomplished by making such an allowance absolute
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And it is not amiss to devote a word to public policy. If, on allotment of a gross or permanent so-called alimony, the right remains to enlarge it on proof of changed conditions, it will be the enlargement of capital, instead of income. And, if permitted
Indeed, if a decree awarding a lump allowance is as much subject to change as is an order that maintenance shall be furnished by periodical payment, it is difficult to understand why the lump allowance should ever'be sought or granted. As said in Narregang v. Narregang, 31 S. D. 459 (139 N. W. 341) :
‘ ‘ If it were not expected that there would be a final termination of the rights and obligations of the parties, so far as the ■support of the wife is concerned, we doubt if any court would ever grant a gross allowance.”
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There is a long line of decisions, including Spa/in v. Spain, 177 Iowa 249, to the effect that, whatever be the statute, there ■can be no modification giving the applicant an allowance of permanent alimony where, in the original decree, no alimony was allowed. See McFarlane v. McFarlane, 43 Ore. 477 (73 Pac. 203); Cody v. Cody, 47 Utah 456 (154 Pac. 952, 954); Spain v. Spain, 177 Iowa 249; Cullen v. Cullen, 23 Jones & S. (N. Y.) 346; Bassett v. Bassett, 99 Wis. 344 (74 N. W. 780); Henderson v. Henderson, 64 Me. 419, 420. Is there a difference between the standing of a judgment which refuses to make any allowance for alimony and one which allows but a small part of what is
III. Our own statute provides that, when a divorce is decreed, the court may make such order in relation to the children, property, parties, and the maintenance of the parties as shall be right. And subsequent changes may be made by it in “ these respects,” when circumstances render them expedient. The Narregang ease was decided under an identical statute.
In Guess v. Smith, 100 Miss. 457 (56 So. 166), there was a decree of absolute divorce; temporary and permanent alimony were commuted to a gross sum of $250, and decreed to be paid at once; and execution was awarded, should there be failure of payment. The statute provision on which a modification of permanent alimony was declined was this:
“When a divorce shall be decreed from the bonds of matrimony, the court may, in its discretion, having regard to the circumstances of the parties and the nature of the case, as may seem equitable and just, make all orders touching the care, custody, and maintenance of the children of the marriage, and also touching the maintenance and alimony of the wife, or any allowance to be made to her, and may, if need be, require sureties for the payment of the sum so allowed; and the court may after-wards, on petition, change the decree, and make from time to time such neiv decrees as the ease may require.” Section 1673, Mississippi Code of 1906.
The court declares that the statutes of New York and of Illinois are substantially the same as the Mississippi statute, and that what it holds has been held in those jurisdictions. In Kerr v. Kerr, 59 How. Pr. (N. Y.) 255, $1,800 was allowed for the “wife and maintenance of her three children.” Modification
Section 5351, Cobbey’s Annotated Statutes of Nebraska is:
“After a decree for alimony or other allowance for the wife and children, or either of them, and also after a decree for the appointment of trustees to receive and hold any property for the use of the wife or children, as before provided, the court may, from time to time, on the petition of either of the parties, revise and alter such decree respecting the amount of such alimony or allowance, or the payment thereof, and also respecting the appropriation and payment of the principal and income of the property so held in trust, and may make any decree respecting any of the said matters which such court might have made in the original suit.”
It was held in Beard v. Beard, 57 Neb. 754 (78 N. W. 255) (the syllabus being by the court):
“Where, in a divorce proceeding, a decree is entered dissolving a marriage, and awarding the wife a judgment against the husband for $......in full of all her claims upon him or his property by reason of their former marriage relations, it seems that the courts have no jurisdiction to vacate or modify such a judgment, after the term at which rendered, solely because of a change in the circumstances, financial or otherwise, of either of the parties thereto. Such a judgment is a judicial determination of the share of the husband’s property to which the wife is entitled as permanent alimony, and is final and conclusive, unless modified or vacated in a direct proceeding. ’ ’
It is expressly added that said statute provision does not
It would seem that these are sustainable only on the reasoning’ that the money judgment is a commutation of what would be required for future support if the marriage relation had not been severed, and that such gross allowance is not alimony, in the technical sense, but is a sequestration, by way of provisions to take care of the new status with reference to support that would have been given had the status not been altered: in other words, that, even on statutes more plenary than our own, the courts are not empowered to amend as to gross allowances termed alimony or permanent alimony.