Baker v. Baker

81 N.J. Eq. 135 | New York Court of Chancery | 1913

Howell, V. C.

The parties to this controversy are husband and wife; they are now living separate from each other; they have two children, one about six years of age, which was born out of wedlock, and is therefore illegitimate, and the other about three years of age, whose legitimacy is not questioned. The father now petitions the court first for the custody of the children, and second, in case the custody shall be denied, for reasonable access to them. The case was heard on petition and answer thereto and a replication. The answer alleges as one reason why the father ought not to have custody’of or access to the children to be that he is not a fit person to exercise those privileges. Before going into the question of fact the parties submitted a question of law, viz., whether the father had a legal right to reasonable access to .his bastard child who is now in the custody of the mother, in the hope that a decision of the question of law might obviate any further inquiry into the facts. On the argument counsel for the father declined to press the claim for the custody of the children. This leaves only the question of reasonable access.

In the case of legitimate children there is no question about the right of access. Where the parents are living separately either has a right to see any child which is in the custody of the other, and if the parties cannot agree the court will make such order in the premises as seems best under all the circumstances; but the books are singularly void of precedents relating to access to illegitimate children, and while this question appears never to have arisen, I see no reason in the nature of things why this court should in a proper case be debarred of a right to give access to illegitimate children as well as to legitimate ones. It is said that chancery is the parens patrios and as such administers its jurisdiction for the benefit of infants. Why this jurisdiction- should be confined to legitimates is not apparent. Rossell v. Rossell, 64 N. J. Eq. (19 Dick.) 21. While the relations between the parents of illegitimates and the rights of inheritance and custody and the duty of maintenance are different from the same rights and duties as appertaining to legitimate children, the state has the same interest in the one as in the other, and it may well be that the right of this court to interfere would be a stronger right in case of illegitimate children of parties living sejoarate -than in- the case of legitimate' children known and acknowledged to be such, who might be expected possibly to have greater care than might be exercised -in the case of the illegitimate. The question is not one of custody; it is widely separated therefrom. It may be that in this case the mother would have a superior right to the custody of her illegitimate child, although even that is doubted. Hesselman v. Haas, 71 N. J. Eq. (1 Buch.) 689; Schoul. Dom. Rel. § 278, and cases cited hereinafter.

It was stated on the argument that the father in this case was making a monthly contribution to the maintenance of the children. Why has he not a right to see the children and determine for himself whether the stipend is being properly administered ? Why has he not an interest to satisfy himself by inspection that the illegitimate child is being properly clothed and nourished and that it has a proper home to live in, that care is being taken of its training, its education and its moral bringing up ?

The statutes of this state relative to the custody, care' and maintenance of children are supposed to relate solely to children born in lawful wedlock. Why the principles thus legislated upon do not apply with equal force to illegitimates I am not able to perceive.

The question is one of new impression and must be decided upon principle .and not upon authority, yet the cases relating to the custody of illegitimates may throw some light upon the obligations which ought to be imposed upon the parties to a controversy like the present one. In the case of Queen v. Nash, 10 Q. B. D. 454; 52 L. J. Q. B. 442, Sir George Jessell said that the question of custody of an illegitimate did not depend upon the mere legal rights upon habeas corpus, but upon equitable doctrines, and that regard was always had to the mother, the putative father and the relations on the mother’s side, that in such case there was that sort of blood relationship which, although not legal, gives the natural relations a right to the custody of the child. In the same case Lord Lindley said the question was not whether the mother is the legal guardian of the child, but whether as between her and strangers the court ought not to have regard to the natural relationship of the mother; and Lord-Justice Bowen said: “It is said that the mother has no legal right, but that is not the question; the question is whether in considering what is for the benefit of the child the court will have regard to the natural relations. As a general rule the mother is the proper person to have the custody of a child.. In this case when we consider what is for the benefit of the child the scale is turned by the respectability of the persons with whom she is to be placed.” The doctrine of this case was affirmed in the house, of lords in the case of Barnardo v. McHugh (1891), A. C. 388; 61 L. J. Q. B. 721. Halsbury, L. C., said: “I doubt very much whether any absolute rule can be laid clown, but in Queen v. Nash, supra,, this very question came for decision before the court of appeal, and Sir George Jessell appears to have pointed out the distinction between strict legal rights as to guardianship and the jurisdiction which a court of equity does and always did exercise in regard to such orders as are now in question. Sir George Jessell pointed out that the court is now governed by equitable rules, and that in equity regard was always had to the mother, the putative father and the relations on the mother’s side. Natural relationship was thus looked to with a view to the benefit of the child. There is in such a case, he says, a sort of blood relationship which, though not legal, gives the natural relations a right to the custody of the child. His lordship, I think, did not mean an absolute right, but such a right as he had already. described to be cpnsidered by a court of equity in making such orders.” The opinions of Lord Herschell and Lord Hannen were to the same effect.

This is the latest expression of the court of last resort in England, and it is entitled to our best consideration. If no general rule can be laid down respecting the custody of an illegitimate child, but if on the other hand the child’s own best interests are always to be consulted, wiry should not the same equitable doctrine be applied to the question of access?

To find out what is the best thing for the infant must be the object of the present inquiry. Animosities between the parents cannot control, because it may well be that they would be detrimental to the best interests of the infant. I think it is much better for the child to have the father visit it at stated times, not only to learn of its continued welfare, but to infuse into it at an early age the natural love and affection that it should have for a parent who is interested in its well being. In his later years he will be able more lightly to bear the ignominy of his origin if he has the consciousness that he is acknowledged to be on the same affectionate footing as the other child, notwithstanding the disparity between their legal situations.

The question, therefore, resolves itself into this: What is the best- thing for the child ? The reasons which I have herein set out on that subject seem to me to be controlling. The question of access like the question of custody is one that must he considered from the viewpoint of the child’s best, interests, and it is my opinion, therefore, in this case, that unless the mother can prove that the visits of the father to the child will be detrimental to the child’s best interests, or if the personal objection to the father shall be waived, an order should he made giving the father reasonable access to both children.