Opinion by
The parties were married on June 8, 1968. Three months later, on September 15, 1968, their son, Sean Augustine, was born. As a result of marital difficulties, the parties are now separated and in the process of a divorce action. The subject of the dispute presented to this Court is the custody of the now five-year old child.
Both parties provided contradictory versions of the factual setting of the dispute at the custody proceeding on August 24, 1973. The record reveals that the problems of the case can be traced to the very roots of the marriage. The father testified that he never loved his wife and married her solely because she was pregnant. He said that since the birth of their son his wife neglected the child to the point of exposing him to great peril. He said that she left Sean in his crib for hours *314 on end and ignored Ms screams, wMle reading “her books”. He described an incredibly callous and lethargic individual who refused to do housework and left dishes in the Mtchen sink for days and weeks at a time. When the parties separated in June of 1970, the child remained with the father, wMle the mother failed to inquire, talk to or visit her son except on one occasion for a “couple of hours” during a period extending to May, 1971. While the mother admitted tMs lapse in her contact with her son, she denied neglecting Mm or the housework as her husband described it; she insisted that she loved her son and only failed to see him during the year’s separation because she feared the cMld’s father. She testified that she worked as a clerk and French translator, and had no assistance from her husband with either the care of the cMld or in the housework. She testified that her husband’s resentment at being compelled to marry her showed in Ms daily scorn, apathy, and both mental and physical abuse toward her. She said that he often struck her with “flailing fists”.
After a period of two years during wMch the parties once again lived together, the Augustines separated on June 2, 1973. TMs time the mother took Sean and went to live with her parents in Falls Church, Virginia. Mrs. Augustine described her parents as loving individuals able to care for her son and provide a happy and healthy home. The maternal grandparents live in a recently-constructed and comfortable split-level home. The child has Ms own bedroom. The grandfather is a diplomatic aide of enormous practical experience and education. His position with the Department of State has taken Mm to foreign countries during many of his years of diplomatic service. On cross-examination, it was admitted, however, that the grandmother had suffered from “a drinking problem”, but that she had not *315 had a drink in “a few weeks”. On July 3, 1973, Mr. Augustine went to Falls Church and without prior notice took Sean back to Pittsburgh.
Both parties now work. Although the marriage seems to have brewed a pot of marital troubles, both parties are able to provide a healthy atmosphere, where the child may make friends, eat and sleep in a fine home, and have the expressed love of his parents. Since both parties are at work during the business day, the ability and influences of “caretaker” parents must be examined. When the father is working as a salesman, his sister, the child’s aunt, cares for the child in what appears to be a warm atmosphere. While the mother works, the child’s maternal grandparents care for him.
It must be remembered: “In
all
child custody cases, . . . the welfare and best interests of the child predominate.” Commo
nwealth ex rel. Rainford v. Cirillo,
We are involved here with the life of a five-year old child. A child of this age is generally considered to be one of “tender years.” We have often held that the interest and well-being of a child are normally best served in the care and custody of the natural mother.
Commonwealth ex rel. Logue v. Logue,
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Tbe lower court awarded custody to tbe father. Tbe opinion of tbe court mentions tbe countervailing policy considerations of favoring tbe mother because of tbe tender years doctrine and in favoring tbe Pennsylvania resident (tbe father) over tbe parent who wishes to remove tbe child outside tbe jurisdiction of tbe Court.
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See,
e.g., Shoemaker Appeal,
After reviewing tbe evidence with an obvious belief that tbe father’s testimony concerning bis wife’s neg *317 lect and indifference to her child was the true version of the situation, the lower court concluded: “It is the Court’s considered opinion that the mother lacks the requisite mental maturity to adequately care for Sean, and the proposed life with the grandparents will not he in the best interests of the child.”
The lower court proceedings indicate what we believe to be an undue emphasis on the past “harvest” of the “poisoned and damaged crop” of this marriage. We may not be oblivious to the apparent unceasing friction between the parties, who married because of “moral” duty rather than love. If the wife was somewhat neglectful of her household and motherly duties, who is to say whether the marital atmosphere did not contribute to or even cause the consequences? The inquiry below seems to have centered on the past conduct of the mother in resolving her present claim. This may not be done. As Judge Spaeth stated the dilemma in
Commonwealth ex rel. Grillo v. Shuster,
The record herein describes in great detail the past conduct of the parties and leaves little if any basis for weighing the present capabilities of the parties to provide the child with a stable atmosphere. The lower court’s reliance on the alleged “alcoholism” of the maternal grandmother is unsupported by anything more than allusion by the grandfather to a prior “drinking problem”. We are unable to conclude from this record whether the mother’s past conduct or the grandmother’s drinking problem in any way are presently affecting the child’s welfare or the degree of probability that they will receive as influential and detrimental factors.
Our scope of review in these cases is of the broadest type.
Commonwealth ex rel. Holschuh v. Holland-Moritz,
The case is remanded with a procedendo.
Notes
While the tender years presumption has lost some of its impact and vitality, see,
e.g., Commonwealth ex rel. Grillo v. Shuster,
While the policy to favor the Pennsylvania resident over the nonresident, all things being equal, has been expressed in recent decisions, all silently determined as recently as 1972, see
Commonwealth ex rel. Parikh v. Parikh,
