Appeal from an order of the Family Court, Steuben County (Marianne Furfure, J.), entered August 22, 2003 in a proceeding pursuant to Family Ct Act article 6. The order, among other things, awarded joint custody of the child to the father and paternal grandmother and visitation to the mother.
It is hereby ordered that the order so appealed from be and the same hereby is unanimously affirmed without costs.
Amanda B., the petitioner in proceeding No. 1 and the respondent in proceeding No. 2 (mother), and Anthony B., the respondent in proceeding No. 1 and a petitioner in proceeding No. 2 (father), are the parents of Angela, who was four years old at the time of trial. Angela was born when mother and father were both young, and mother and father relied on the assistance of their parents in raising Angela. The family resided with each set of Angela’s grandparents for a while before eventually residing in its own residence. However, following the death of a younger sibling from asphyxiation while sleeping, Angela was placed with her maternal grandmother and mother and father separated. After approximately two years and pursuant to a consensual custody arrangement, custody of Angela was placed with mother and father had visitation. Approximately six months later, mother filed a petition to restrict father’s visitation with Angela, and thereafter father and his mother, Margaret R. (paternal grandmother), and his stepfather, John R., who are the petitioners in proceeding No. 2, sought custody of Angela. After the trial, Family Court granted joint custody of Angela to father and paternal grandmother with visitation to mother, and mother now appeals.
We agree with mother that the court erred in not determining whether extraordinary circumstances existed before awarding joint custody to paternal grandmother. It is well settled that a nonparent must establish extraordinary circumstances when seeking custody of a child (see Matter of Bennett v Jeffreys,
A nonparent must establish “surrender, abandonment, persisting neglect, unfitness or other like extraordinary circumstances” before a parent can be deprived of custody of her child (Bennett,
We agree with the court that it was in Angela’s best interests for father and paternal grandmother to have joint custody. Mother’s repeated allegations of sexual abuse that were unfounded support the change in custody (see Matter of Guidice
