52 N.J. Eq. 92 | New York Court of Chancery | 1893
This is an undefended suit brought by a mother against her only child and daughter, an infant about nineteen years old. The mother is, and had been, a widow since 1876. The daughter was born in 1874. The claim is for compensation for support, maintenance and education furnished by complainant from the death of the -husband and father until date, and for an order for an allowance for future support, during minority, out of the fortune of the infant.
The daughter has recently come into a small fortune from two sources, namely, a part from her father’s estate, which is in her mother’s hands as his administratrix, and a part from an uncle, which is in the hands of a Mr. Clump, as her guardian. The fund coming from her father was vested in him, before his death, under the will of his father (grandfather of defendant), but was subject to a life estate in the widow of the testator, who died in December, 1889. Under that will the executor has paid to the complainant, as administratrix of her husband, about $5,000, and she will receive a further sum of about $6,500, making, in all, about $11,500. Of this sum the complainant is entitled, as one of the next of kin of her husband, to one-tliird, leaving less than $8,000 for her daughter, the defendant. The other fund, coming from the uncle, amounts to about $6,850, and was vested in the defendant by the probate of the will of
At the death of the husband, the widow and her infant child were substantially without means, and the mother was obliged to work to earn a living for both. This she did. By her industry, energy and general ability she was able to support herself and child in comfort, and to educate her daughter in a..manner becoming to her station. She accomplished this without outside pecuniary aid, or at all running in debt, at least up to the date ■of the grandmother’s death. Her demand against' the daughter for her support, education and maintenance amounts to over $12,000, or four-fifths o’f the child’s fortune. And yet the daughter, an intelligent young lady, frankly declared on the stand that she wished her mother to be paid in full.
It is hardly necessary to say that this court cannot act upon such consent, but must defend the daughter even against her own mother’s claim, examine the demand, and see if it is lawful and proper to be countenanced and enforced by this court.
And, first, assuming the demand to be legal, just and equitable in all its parts, and in all respects such as this court wouldfsanction, the question arises, shall this court waive, on the part of the infant, the benefit of the statute of limitations for so much ■of the demand as arose more than six years before bill filed ?
It must be observed that it was quite competent for the complainant to apply to this court years ago for the very same relief that she now asks for. She knew of her daughter’s vested interest in her father’s share in his father’s estate, and the amount of it could have been approximately ascertained by this
The statute of limitations is binding on this court as well as on the courts of law, and whenever a pecuniary demand will be barred at law it will be barred here, unless there is some circumstance in the case which renders it inequitable for the party entitled to its benefit to set it up. We have seen that this is a simple pecuniary demand, founded on a quantum meruit, and I am unable to find in the case any circumstance which renders it inequitable for this defendant to set up the bar of the statute against her mother. She is clearly entitled to the benefit of the plea, and it is the duty of this court, as her guardian, to plead it for her. When she attains twenty-one years of age she. can do what she pleases with her money, but this court cannot permit her, while a ward, to give it away, even to her own mother.
I feel constrained to disallow so much of complainant’s demand as arose six years before bill filed.
Second. As to so much of the claim as arose within six years before bill filed, namely, since February 11th, 1887. At that date the defendant was about thirteen years old, and, so far as appears, in a normal condition of health. She could, possibly, if pressed, have earned a scanty living for herself, and thus the mother might have been relieved from the statutory duty to support her in order to prevent her from becoming a public charge. Rev. p. 8I¡3 § 80. But the physical ability of the child to earn its bare food and clothing is not the test or gauge in this court of a parent’s duty to support and educate it.
The question of the extent of the duty of a parent to support and maintain an infant child can be raised in this court only when the child has a fortune of its own. This court has no jurisdiction to compel a parent to support an infant child. In re Ryder, 11 Paige 185; Hodgens v. Hodgens, 4 Cl. & F. 323. But when the infant child has an estate of its own and the question arises, directly or indirectly, how much, if anything, the parent shall be allowed out of such estate for the infant’s support, the court will consider and determine the parent’s duty
Upon general principles, I am unable to perceive any difference between the parents as to their duty of support of their child. Each is equally responsible for the existence of the child, and each by natural instinct feels the duty, as well as the desire,, to protect and nourish their common offspring.
The master of the rolls, in Fawkner v. Watts, 1 Atk. 406 (1741) (at p. 408), says: “I shall not dispute but every father and mother, by the law of nature, is under an obligation to maintain their own children, but yet this may be varied by circumstances, for suppose the father or mother should be in a low or mean condition in the world, the court will order, especially in the .case of a mother, that the child should be maintained out of a provision left to it by a collateral relation.”
In Swinnock v. Crisp, Freem. Ch. 78 (1681), also in S. C., Anonymous, 2 Vent. 353, the plaintiff sued a stepfather to recover a legacy which had been left to him by his own father, and which should have been paid to the plaintiff by his mother, who was the executrix of the will. The defendant and second husband set up as a defence that he had maintained and educated the child for several years and given him a good education, which cost him more than the interest on the fund; and that he had bound the child as an apprentice and paid ¿€70 for apprentice fee; but the court would not allow anything out of the principal toward such maintenance, but only the interest, by reason that the defendant had married the mother, who was bound to maintain her own children, and as to the ¿€70 which was paid out to apprentice the child, that was allowed out of the principal.
Billingsley v. Critchet, 1 Bro. Ch. C. 268 (1782), was a suit by the children of Billingsley against his widow, married to Critchet. By the will the widow had also a provision, and she had a further estate from her own family. The question was whether the mother was obliged to support these children, or it was to be done by an allowance out of the interest of the stocks given to them by their father. Counsel expressly admitted that the mother was under natural obligation to maintain
In Hughes v. Hughes, 1 Bro. Ch. C. 387 (cited by Chancellor Kent, 2 Com. 190, for a contrary doctrine), Lord Thurlow recognized no distinction between the father and mother with regard to their respective duty to support their offspring, and the inquiry there directed was as to the ability of both parents.
The subject was also considered by Chancellor Livingston in Wilkes v. Rogers, 6 Johns. 573. That was a dispute between a mother, who had married a second husband, and the children of the first husband, as to the expense of their support during their infancy and their mother’s widowhood. The first husband, Wilkes, who died intestate, had left a large estate, both reakand personal, and the widow, as his administratrix, had managed it with great ability and supported the children, and after her second marriage a bill was filed by the children for an accounting, as in Pyatt v. Pyatt, 1 Dick. Ch. Rep. 285. Chancellor Livingston reviews all the authorities and holds that the mother’s liability, when a widow, to support her infant children is the same as that of the father. The decree made by the chancellor was varied on appeal, but his doctrine was not seriously disturbed. Judge Yates (at p. 586), says: “ I cannot, however, assent to the distinction, in so full an extent as the counsel on the part of the appellants have attempted to establish it, that the obligation of maintenance and education of children is, at all times, only applicable to the father. On the contrary, if the mother possesses an ample fortune, in her own right, the natural situation in which she is placed, according to my view of the subject, renders it equally obligatory on her to provide for her offspring,” citing the authorities.
In Dedham v. Natick, 16 Mass. 135, it was held that the mother, after the death of the father, remains the head of the
The equality of natural obligation resting upon both parents to support their children is illustrated and vindicated by the case of Finch v. Finch, 22 Conn. 411. This was an action by a divorced wife against her former husband to recover for the expense of maintaining their common children after the decree of divorce, by the terms of which the custody of the children was given to the wife. The cause was elaborately argued. At p. 415 the court says: “ The case discloses nothing from which we can infer or presume that the mother is not of equal pecuniary ability with the father to maintain their common offspring, nor whether the father has adequate ability to do it. There is a law of our universal humanity as extensive as our race, which impels parents, whether fathers or mothers, to protect and support their helpless children. It is a duty common to both, and the consequent obligation is common. Blackstone very properly says that1 the duty of parents to provide for the maintenance of their children is a principle of natural laxo. By begetting them, therefore, they have entered into a voluntary obligation to endeavor, as far as in them lies, that the life which they have bestowed shall be supported and preserved. And thus the children will have a perfect right of receiving maintenance from their parents.’ This duty and this obligation have been variously modified by the positive laws of civilized countries, but fully recognized by all. Connected with this obligation of maintenance there is a parental privilege. The parent is entitled to the custody and care of the child which he sustains and to such service as it can render, and he has a right to exercise his own discretion in determining the fitness and necessity of the allowances to be made and of the support to be furnished to his children, for which he is to be made chargeable.” And again (at p. 4-16): “ The legal liability of the parent necessarily depends upon his or her ability to furnish the maintenance. So long as the parents are both living and continue in a state of ■coverture or marriage, the civil or legal liability of the mother
Here is pointed out the foundation of the real and only difference in the liability of the father and mother. In the first place, the mother is, by nature, weaker and less able to provide for her child; and in the second place, the common-law disability of coverture, which vested her husband with all her personal property and the income of her realty, left her without pecuniary ability. Out of this condition has arisen the notion and rule of law, so far as it is a rule, that the father is liable and the mother is not, to support their infant children.
This rule is further illustrated by the case of Hodgens v. Hodgens, 4 Cl. & F. 323, an appeal from the Irish chancery, which was somewhat like Finch v. Finch, supra, in that it was a contest between father and mother as to which should support their infant children. In neither case, however, was involved the question of taking a portion of the infants’ fortune for their own support. In the Irish case the parents were not divorced,, but were living in a state of separation, caused by the wife’s
Chancellor Kent (2 Com. 191) says : “ The father is bound to' support his minor children, if he be of ability, * * * but this obligation, in such a case, does not extend to the mother, and the rule, as to the father, has become relaxed.” Here it is plain that he is dealing with the liability of the mother while the father is alive, for further on, as above quoted (at p. 192), he says: “"When the wife, by her marriage, parts with her ability to maintain her children, she ceases to be liable. * * * If, however, the wife has separate property, the court of chancery would undoubtedly, in a proper case, make an order charging that property with the necessary support of her children and parents.”
I have already shown that the court has no such power, and I quote this last passage to throw light on the previous one, which has often been cited as authority for what I deem an erroneous position, viz., that a widow with a fortune is under no obligation to support her infant children. I think the last clause, though erroneous, as written, contains the germ of the true rule, namely, that where a widow asks for an allowance out of her infant child’s fortune for its support, the court will take into consideration her own ability to furnish such support. Moreover, the authorities cited by Chancellor Kent seem to me not to support his text, unless construed to apply only to mothers with living husbands. They are Hughes v. Hughes, supra; Pulsford v. Hunter, 3 Bro. Ch. C. 416; Haley v. Bannister, 4 Madd. 275; Whipple v. Dow, 2 Mass. 415; Dawes v. Howard, 4 Mass. 97.
It is difficult to ascertain from the report what was actually decided in Pulsford v. Hunter, but it certainly does not support Chancellor Kent’s text unless construed as above.
In Haley v. Bannister, a grandfather, by his will, made provision for his grandchildren, the children of a daughter who had a husband still living. The husband was poor, but the wife had a handsome separate estate. An allowance was given to the husband out of the children’s fortune, on the ground that the
Whipple v. Dow was an action by a widow against her daughter and her husband, after she attained her majority, for her support and maintenance while she wras an infant. The facts were that the father died leaving a dwelling-house which descended to the defendant and her two sisters, subject to plaintiff^ dower, which was never claimed by or assigned to her. Plaintiff continued to keep the house after the death of her husband and supplied it with necessaries for herself and daughters during their minority. . The latter worked abroad and received the proceeds of their labor to their own use, there being an understanding and agreement between the mother and daughters, made while they were infants, that the mother should occupy the house without rent and that the daughters should board and lodge with her without paying anything therefor. During all this time the defendant was under age and worked at a factory, receiving the whole of her earnings to her own use, being boarded by her mother, but furnishing her own clothing. Of her earnings she had saved $100, which her husband received from her at their marriage. After the marriage the husband repudiated the contract made by his infant wife with her mother, and sued the mother and compelled her to account for and pay the proportion of the rent of the house which belonged to his wife, after which the mother brought this action to recover for the board of her daughter. Upon this evidence the judge charged the jury that the obligation of the parent to support the child depended on the ability of the parent so to do, and that the earnings of the child while so supported belonged to the parent, and further charged that the plaintiff might recover; and this ruling was affirmed by the court in bane.
In Dawes v. Howard the question was between father and children, and Chief-Justice Parsons said: “When minor children have property of their own the father is, notwithstanding, bound to support them if of ability.”
In Ex parte Lord Petre, 7 Ves. 403, before Lord Eldon, the case arose on a petition presented by Lord Petre, an infant
Neither this case nor any of the others above cited were cited before Lord Langdale in Douglas v. Andrews, 12 Beav. 310, 19 L. J. Ch. (N. S.) 69, when he said, without consideration, that there was no authority for an inquiry into the ability of the mother in such case.
The question here under consideration is not affected by the rales governing courts in determining the question of advancement or no advancement under the statute of distribution, or of advancement or loan between parent and child. In such case they proceed upon the notion that a father is under a sort of moral obligation, which a court of equity recognizes, to provide— that is, make a provision — for his children, by which is meant
I have felt constrained to make this rather tiresome examination of the authorities by what was said, not by what was decided, in the case of Pyatt v. Pyatt, 1 Dick. Ch. Rep. 285. There a widow was left with a family of four infant children, and with no means except what was left by her husband, who died intestate. His estate consisted of a farm and a small personal estate, which netted in her hands as administratrix $2,614.68, and in which her own share was $871.56, and that of each of her four children $435.78. The mother expended all these moneys, and more which she borrowed from her father, in the support of herself and children as a family on the farm left by the father. One of her daughters, who had enjoyed the benefits of this home as well during her minority as for years afterwards, cited her mother to account for the moneys so received by her, and it was held that the mother was entitled to allowance for the support of the child. In the course of his opinion, the learned judge, who spoke for the court of errors and appeals, uses this language: “The actual use of the very moneys in her hands as guardian, to purchase the necessaries of life for the children, shows unmistakably that she was not intending to support them at her own expense. Indeed, she seems not to have had any other resources for their maintenance. As a general rule, a widow is not bound to support her minor children out of her own property, if they have means of their own (2 Kent Com. 190), and she is entitled to a complete indemnity out of their estate for the money expended by her on their maintenance within proper limits. Bruin v. Knott, 1 Phil. 571; Matter of Bostwick, 4 Johns. Ch. 104. It necessarily follows that, when she has cast upon her, as their guardian, the duty of maintaining them and has actually used their money for that purpose, she must be considered to have meant to charge their estate with their support, and all reasonable expenditures therefor should be allowed to her.”
So with Bruin v. Knott, 1 Phil. 571. No question was there raised as to the mother being entitled to reimbursement for the support of her son lately deceased. Both acquired handsome fortunes from the mother’s husband, the father of the son, and the son was besides entitled to other property, both real and personal, to a large amount. It was evidently not a case in which there could be any pretence that the mother ought to contribute anything toward the support of her son, and the only question discussed was whether, in fixing the allowance to be made to
I have already dealt with what was said by Chancellor Kent in his Commentaries (2 Kent. Com. 190).
In Pyatt v. Pyatt the mother had no fortune of her own beyond the trifle received from her husband’s estate, and whatever of business and earning capacity she had was expended in beeping a home for her children, so that there was not the least ground for throwing upon her any part of the burden of supporting her children beyond what she actually did; and so manifest was this that the chancellor, in the court below — -17 Stew. Eq. 491 (at p. 494) — says : “ The testimony strongly indicates that, after the appellant became of full age, there was a tacit understanding between her and her mother, evidenced by her acquiescence in the mother’s disposition of her moneys, that the moneys were to be used for the living expenses of the family, and that, to the extent of them, she was to compensate her mother for her maintenance.” The principal question litigated
For these reasons I must decline to consider Pyatt v. Pyatt as binding authority for the position that a widowed mother is entitled, without regard to her own ability, to full compensation and indemnity from her child’s estate for support and maintenance rendered to it during infancy. Such a rule seems to me not to be warranted by the ancient authorities, influenced, as they were, by the general disability of the wife resulting from coverture ; much less does it seem in step with the modern status of woman under the law and her general emancipation from the artificial restraints of her previous condition and her ability to enter upon many pursuits, once closed to her. On the contrary, I think that, in determining how much the widowed mother is to be allowed, we must'take into consideration, as in all cases, all the circumstances — the mother’s capacity and ability and the child’s fortune. For instance, it would be monstrous, I think, to hold that if a widowed mother was entitled in her own right to a fortune of $20,000, or had a fixed income of $2,000 a year, and had an only daughter, an infant, entitled to a fortune of $5,000, and should educate and support her daughter during infancy in a style commensurate with her own fortune, she should be entitled to call upon that child when she came of age for all the expense of her support and education, though it might far exceed the child’s fortune. And I think the result would be much the same if the mother had a well-established earning ability to the same extent.
I proceed, then, to inquire what will be a proper allowance for the mother in this case. And, first, from February, 1887, until April, 1890. The mother demands, during that period, as follows, approximately:
Board..... .$1,400
Washing. 190
Clothing. . 460
*109 Music.................................................................... $190
Dentistry................................................................. 212
Traveling expenses.................................................... 120
$2,572
or $800 a year. But she kept no account up to January 1st, 1890. The actual cost is a matter of recollection and estimate, except as to music and dentistry.
Now, as before remarked, it is quite clear that the court can now only make such order as it would have made then. The child had no income but had a prospective fortune of nearly $8,000. There could have been no expectation of a legacy from her uncle.
Chaplin v. Chaplin, 3 P. Wms. 365, was a suit by children against their mother, a widow, for an account of the personal estate and rents and profits of the real estate which she had received as their guardian. By the will of their father, the son and daughter had a small income, but after his death, by a contingency that had happened, they became entitled to an ample fortune from another source. ' The mother claimed an allowance for the support and maintenance of the daughter, the son having died, based upon the amount of her fortune as increased by the contingency; but the lord-chancellor held that the allowance to be made to the mother for maintenance must have regard to what the daughter was entitled to at the death of their father, and until the contingency happened the allowance should not exceed the income of their original portions.
All the eases show that the court is, in all circumstances, loath to break into the principal of the estate. But in this case, if application had been made in 1887, the court, as I think, would have undoubtedly done it, but it would have inquired into the capacity of the mother. She had, substantially, no separate estate of her own except her prospective share in her husband’s, but she had an earning capacity of from $1,600 to $1,800 a year, which she had exercised freely and voluntarily for her child, and with such success that she was able, up to that time, to support her without at all running in debt. Neverthless, I
I will allow from April, 1890, to the filing of the bill, $800 a year. She stopped going to' school in 1892, and the mother was relieved of that charge. From the date of the filing of the bill I thiuk she should live on the interest.
I will advise an order referring it to a master to state the account of the complainant as administratrix of her husband’s estate, in which she shall be credited as above.