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Alex v. Alex
161 N.W.2d 192
Iowa
1968
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*1 A. ALEX, Gary Appellant, W. Alex and Florence

Jack Alex,

Intervenors-Appellants, ALEX, Jean Appellee, Vaughn, Vaughn Inter

Fred and Mary

venors-Appellees.

No. 53105.

Supreme Iowa. Court of

Sept. 1968.

Rehearing Denied Nov.

Doran, Doran, Courier, Boone, Doran & appellant intervenors-appellants. Carroll, Green, appellee David E. intervenors-appellees. MASON, Justice. equitable custody

This action involves Alex born October Jett’s father, Gary Alex, natural paternal A. grandparents appeal from trial court’s de- modifying existing cree divorce decree custody by granting governing child’s custody mother, to his natural Bonnie Jean Laos, formerly Bonnie Alex. Jean July 27, Gary I. A. Alex filed against divorce action Alex. Jean Pursuant to rule Proce- Rules of Civil dure, separated plaintiff issues were was granted an uncontested divorce De- cember 16. The contested issue of Jett’s custody tried December 22 trial later. finding court entered neither its parent sufficiently was at the time equipped emotionally materially to be or custody entrusted with child. provided

The decree temporary split custody grandparents, between two sets of Alex, Rapids, and Florence of Coon Jack Mary and Fred Vaughn, maternal Tucson, grandparents, of Arizona. jurisdiction its wel- from the unless grandparents Paternal have moval thereby, custody January mater- fare would be better served until ordinarily May not be awarded nal that date until grandparents from contemplating to be returned to a nonresident when was from the state. remain removal until November 1. Alterna- the following hearing the III. In the modification tion to continue a six *3 a “clearly there has been found April prior reg- basis to months’ until Jett’s circumstances; split a change of At mat- istration that time the school. par- proper, arrangement longer is no the ter on for was to come review happily remarried. ties both appropriate for a determi- further evidence of question is what best interests now the boy might the attend in order that nation require.” the child permanent one fami- basis with school ly other, visitation Appellants or the with extensive Laos contend Bonnie Jean grandparents. applicant; the set of rights with other failed to sustain burden pre- proof produce appellees’ that does not 1967, 11, September paternal grand- ponderance necessary give of evidence to intervened the divorce action in the what power trial court to review is application fixing for hearing filed interest involved. best of child permanent in his best inter- Jett’s Laos, joined ests. 11 Bonnie October Appellants not contend there do Jean present husband, parents and Paul De- changed been no circumstances since Laos, application modify the to custo- filed 22, 1965, only change argue cember dy They that since date decree. asserted find as circumstances court could change there had the decree apparently decision basis its physical of Bon- mental condition parents; remarriage successful of both nie Laos in that had married a the court con- was reversible error for Jean and it would successful businessman be suffi- remarriage clude th.e mother’s was a of the minor that be best interests change permit cient it to consider with natural mother. alternative In the They question child’s welfare. they requested custody be the child’s remarriage parties maintain of the one Mr. and Vaughn. awarded to Mrs. change not a sufficient in circumstances modifying provisions to warrant custodial hearing upon November 15 of a divorce decree. applications December 1 the these permanent order granting court entered an involving IV. matters Laos, custody Bonnie visita- Jean custody provisions decree, of a divorce best tion week rights for a 10 summer vacation interest of the child is first and governing paternal grandparents plaintiff to the or cit consideration. Authorities need not be week at Christmas in alternate one 15, 344(f) ed for this. Rule of Civil Rules years Appellants appeal beginning 1968. custody provisions Procedure. Child from this order. divorce are final as circum Appellants entry II. propositions origi assert as re- stances at existing time of upon provisions lied (1) reversal: The mother nal decree. will be modi Such only proof applicant has not her burden of sustained as to fied where for modification necessary subsequent proves by preponderance circum- that of evidence subsequent changed stances the child’s in- that concerning welfare conditions have so permit volved requires, modification welfare at makes child’s or least (2) re- decree, expedient, The child’s best interests modification. Jensen quire Jensen, 1324, grandpar- 1323, he remain in the 25 N.W.2d 317; permanent custody Zolnosky, ents’ (3) 316, It Iowa Mason v. 251 755; against permit 752, policy state’s re- child’s Welch v. 1020, Welch, 1024, existing circumstances time. 644; Herron, plain 642, made Herron v. when reached school 563; 1053-1054, age may a final appear determination as 432-433, Pucci, the child’s interest Pucci v. would have Maikos, 357; Maikos be made. cita- 382, 147 N.W.2d A showing changed be- circumstances opinions. these tions requisite came when the court came permanent whether custo- consider " are circumstances’ ‘[EJxisting dy should be moth- awarded to natural dili reasonable which with those known or rather than er set of other par have been known to gence should contemplated in the first the time ties the court at and to enT decree. say, decree; try is to original contemplation which within those remarriage It is not mother’s the de court when litigants and the *4 chang- made the basis the court’s decree Simpkins, Simpkins v. entered.” cree was ing custody but rather the results of Jett’s 989, 723, 724. 991, remarriage upon the character and stability of Bonnie Laos. Jean course, every change of cir not Of following portion The of the court’s de- basis for modifica is sufficient cumstances supports cree this conclusion: Welch, Welch decree. tion a divorce 87, Simpkins, 258 Iowa supra; Simpkins v. record “The discloses that defendant was Pucci, 623; 90, 621, Pucci v. 137 N.W.2d quite in a a for- reared world and manner 357; at supra, at eign experience of most individual Maikos, supra. and Maikos v. of us. not make it wrong, This does justly.

somewhat more difficult evaluate advantages are Changed circumstances relied She had whatever there child custo upon family Although modification of she great to obtain from wealth. be decree must a dy appears of a divorce never to schol- provisions have achieved as knowledge ar, advantages or did have full the best within she private when decree institutions contemplation of the court educational Europe. experi- or less” be “more and She entered must United States merely thought tran continuous, commonly also what aré permanent or enced a temporary, disadvantages where result- sitory, apparent be the more variable or rear- great family or wealth. Her ing of financial condition of one upon accomplished by a basis hire. At parties ing largely relied both be substantial. she demon- for it must the time of first submission modification at Simpkins, depressing amount emotional supra, 258 Iowa strated a Simpkins v. a 623; immaturity. Pucci, su This was manifested as at Pucci reality. not neces- at 357. lack It was pra, at want or then, now, how sary nor to determine custody hear- Although V. privi- problem a her resulted from much of then Bonnie was not ing the court found past and much from disastrous leged how a emotionally mate- sufficiently equipped plaintiff. marriage to rially to be entrusted im- split custody recognized ar- and considerable “The custody, temporary perma- provement at the time of defendant intended as rangement was never part in large interest can traced submission be for the best nent determination very present husband original remarriage. her Her child. The and welfare holds impressed He temporary favorably the Court. provided the best custody decree position municipal admin- responsible under make the court could arrangement istration, apparently child, well educated cated and the went Arizo- her he provider. very na, good marriage appears picked up boy and him brought Spanish-American secure. He is lin- telling back to Iowa without the mother eage expressed Gary doing demonstrated Later in the so. month family background. warm and stable De- filed the to. divorce action referred Octo- and, indeed, Rap- fendant the child himself ber returned to Coon partly Spanish-American ids, stayed days a rich lineage, grandparents’ in the hoped De- again indeed as it is his rural home. came heritage She back may prove heritage hearings, be. cember the first also waited until year, went back “Defendant able function parents. her Lat- Tucson and resided with wife, remarriage since as a mother and m er she business school enrolled appears to have re- homemaker. She at the attending she was time of which practice having the habit and nounced marriage Mr. Laos. help her own domestic as a substitute a considerable efforts. She demonstrated Paul Bonnie married June maturity. growth in Laos, Sonora, Jr., Mexico. Nogales, married Mr. had been before Laos “Unquestionably stabil- defendant has support for a son pays per month child $85 perfect, is she yet ized. is not nor She custody of by that in the marriage who is likely to be. now fit. It would She is his mother. arrogance this or Court terrible *5 to demand she be more.” Mr. city manager Tucson As of South He is an per month. Laos earns $1200 de the matter We review VI. discharged veteran honorably Korean War novo. Rule R.C.P. completed necessary a units for (cid:127)and has chil- Vaughn four Bonnie, oldest University of graduate degree from the London, a dren, private in schools attended Arizona. gradu- and boarding school Switzerland Their home consisting school, Mer- private boarding ated a from bedrooms, baths, three living two full Angeles. School, at rymount Los High room, room, room, dining rumpus wash at- school she high After from graduation room and kitchen is located four blocks University Arizona for tended the 2½ parochial from a and the dis- school same only giving completed units years but public tance from a being school. It is classifica- freshman a semester her second purchased Realty on contract from Laos Gary Alex. marriage tion before Paul, Company Jr., in which one-fifth mar- approximately were interest. is and Bonnie six blocks Gary Alex Jean Nevada, January university from Vegas, large and is near a ried in Las park approximately library, pool, with courtship swimming swings, after before, diamonds, married baseball and football field. He had two months. After marriages. boys Twin born previous the issue of this had no Bonnie as marriage. they residence marriage established block half -approximately a Rapids, Coon Alex, 50, engaged W. is in the sand Jack Gary’s parents. gravel and and sewer construction business Rapids. did Bonnie not Coon He and his wife, Flor- born When Jett ence, Gary’s respected are him and for citizens of Coon to care know how Rapids, lot “an awful considered ideal and him have care of mother took good reputation honesty Coon a integri- remained family and The the time.” ty. Although and Bonnie religious when same Rapids July until Gary they lo- faith Jett, After arrangements as had made to Tucson. returned Jett n physical attend condition, and mental danghter-in-law (2) Jett in their housekeeper while excellent regularly maintains her his church herself, and at- by prob- care home (3) drinking court found has no home. The lems, given (4) Alex has a had tention Mr. and Mrs. natural love and affection boy exceptional complete even for devoted charge took child to be feeding, clothing looking him grandparents. after a good mother, (5) was conscientious Alex he had was in the home While Jett good espe- about mental needs opportunity and he with his father to visit cially during period the transition when responsibility for although his she was to return to preparing by fully grand- welfare was assumed and (6) present she and her husband up they borne parents, responsibility religious same faith as the decree. time of the first attend regularly. church children, Gary, four Alex the oldest of Appellants’ contention asserted He marriage. third has one child his proposition cannot be sustained. hearing testify at the modification did not VII. That there has been a although present a witness. wife was circumstances December since Appellees Bonnie’s re- do not contend there problem can be no doubt. Our change of alone marriage sufficient whether then existing circumstances have permit to modi- the court circumstances changed requires so that the child’s welfare do main- fy custodial decree but existing expedient change or renders proved by preponderance they tain made the court. this mar- a result of of evidence net demonstrated Mr. Laos’ maturity.” Fred and chief of Laos Jr., Bank in findings. R. J. court a substitute riage * en Tucson school est She Appellees Brynda, Winn, [*] and a Alexander, practice appears to have renounced consulting family in [*] teacher welfare basis police Tucson, as a executive Mary for her own efforts. church, formerly an assistant They rely upon wife, a considerable “has for IS Tucson, having supporting civil Vaughn, considering given assert this South mother and Isabel vice close been able to function engineer, Rev. child. years in domestic president Louis Tucson, and neighbor Norma Henry depositions the best inter- testimony afforded the growth homemaker. Tucson, trial Sotomayor, help as a Kinnison, of Union pastor at Brady, a *6 She has Gerald court’s habit Jack tak- and Ja- the to —has modifying much a disasterous The preponderance was then 868, 872. from a Harwell, conditions child’s that a is no evidence to the sary then, found Bonnie There materially to first record the burden care and welfare of the child. Harwell v. privileged past was a her sufficiently equipped nor supports applicant had stabilized [Bonnie’s] marriage changed decree judicial evidence said now, contrary. 413, 418, this —natural and entrusted “it was not to to finding will be conducive determination in problem The court how determine and is now fit. plaintiff.” neither also to show mother here prove by emotionally much from subsequent and there resulted parent neces- in the how Summarized, witness- a divorce decree with testimony However, of these respect in cir- not be mod following changes to es establishes present parent. ified reward a to showing Bonnie’s cumstances as Jen Jensen sen, in good supra, 237 at 25 N.W.2d at She is maturity: (1) emotional Blundi, 317; Vaugh Blundi v. Mrs. Bonnie testified minute 239, 242; Thein v. came to their home in Tucson she started 1149, 1157, Squires, 97 N.W.2d “straightening out” and she observed 156, 162; Alingh, Alingh relationship daugh- and wonderful between The ter grandson during 138-139. five impor- greatest of the child as- welfare months was in Tucson. Bonnie Jett custody ar- temporary split responsibility during sumed tance. The was rangement period. Paul between Bonnie married Since proper. Laos her longer mother has been home probably three two or times week con- having demonstrated In addition to they go Vaughn to the twice a week. home maturity, Bonnie is growth siderable in Tucson Novem- When for the Jett materially equipped sufficiently now 1,May period, ber 1966 to stated, present child. As care for the stayed actually with Bonnie and Paul who They per month. earns husband $1200 cared for Mrs. and controlled him. which has have excellent home for Jett very Vaughn close relation- maintained space location. described as ship responsibility because of her under neighbor- many children in the There are practically first decree ev- and visited Jett Bonnie and play with. hood Jett day. ery always well kept, He was well ap- problems, Laos no financial Mr. have very happy. fed and marriage. happy pear to a stable have desire expressed present Her husband Bonnie Alexander testified she and Janet wit- Appellees’ in his home. Jett were each ev- and out of other’s house long acquaintances nesses, who were ery day July 1967. from October 1966 to rep- fine standing, Mr. Laos has testified Al- in Arizona he and the While Jett community in the Tucson utation played together. exander child Janet stepfather. good be a park Bonnie their children took week, zoo, play once or twice a sev- apparently believed trial court picnics and eral times on almost once natural physical facilities offered library. story week to hour grandparents were mother read Mrs. Alexander described how parties adequate, that the than more evening before and after his proper parties to fit and both good bath and how conscientious interest felt custody but his child’s about mental needs. with his by placing him would be served *7 mother. All appellees’ except the ex- witnesses ecutive officer the bank Bon- described This is not case where the natural housekeeper, nie as excellent fine taking mother an extended vacation performing cook and a devoted mother from responsibilities of motherhood as ordinarily expected of a those functions Squires, supra, Thein v. testimony mother. Their was not based 97 N.W.2d 156. upon isolated incidents. After in July Bonnie returned to 1965 the taken re- child was be When was to returned to Tucson Jett period turned to did not abandon him Iowa. She for Bonnie came to second 31, stayed 11 returned to Iowa October Omaha meet Each time he was him. trip for days, paternal grandparents made a second back be returned to the and remained hearings arrangement the December 16 under custodial Bonnie when, year cooperated fully un- in preparing until after the first of the him. Un- decree, doubtedly impressed parents were the trial der the custodial this attitude court. to have Jett’s Appellants’ not VIII. contention did Vaughn, who Florence

The fact assignment under hearing, remaining their is well testify in the modification chil- answered what we said in Heu four Vanden a mother experienced as more baby Heuvel, vel v. Vanden of a newborn taking dren 216, 223: 1403-1404,121 surprising. than Bonnie is pater- because cannot be condemned question “The as to whether the mother required to bear the nal given be child in should this up to his care principal responsibility for view the fact that she intends remove stated, after custody decree. As naturally gives him from this state us some Gary Coon Bonnie to marriage took approved concern. have several We times re- It was his Rapids to make their home. policy that it against statement assistance financial sponsibility to furnish permit of the law to the removal of a child child, something he ev- care of own jurisdiction from our unless its welfare their di- after not do idently did before thereby. [Citing would be better served basis fact tends to weaken vorce. This however, mayWe point out, cases] argument that appellants’ usually applicable this rule is to the situa- except from the Alex home be removed considered, tion where divided cogent reasons. for most party where one resides outside the state and, by permitting the child be taken course, fact the child has Of state, may under from the a situation arise where paternal grandparents’ home necessary ap- litigation much to ob- not aid stay from this court does order tain its return. No situation is here pellants here. contemplated.” ac- the divorce commencement of Since have her Bonnie has tion striven pro IX. The modification decree There interval where long child. was no vision granting grandparents or party was with before third Gary Alex, order, alternatively and in attempted gain custody as in some of weeks summer visitation of the child our cases. period should be reduced to a of one month problem while drinking If Bonnie had a prescribed. under the same conditions as Gary, definitely her witnesses married to modifying For a decree such visitation the fact it been corrected. established rights is remanded. Thus modi cause in- Her medical in Tucson were records the cause is. fied spected by appellants’ attorney and there Affirmed. contrary. no evidence to except All concur SNELL and Justices LeGRAND, JJ., who concur the result The trial court had the benefit of GARFIELD, J., RAWLINGS, C. having testify both Bonnie and Mr. Laos J., who person dissent. when determining what was Although child’s best interest. we findings not bound of the trial court GARFIELD, (dissenting). Chief Justice *8 give weight. we them Hal Halstead v. stead, I must dissent. approach case and in In its to this reach- us it is ing the now before clear decision agree We with the trial court that court, the best in- trial doubtless with the appellees by prepon the have established tentions, giving pri- error the of fell into derance of the that inter evidence the best thought mary to consideration to what the expedient est of child the modi makes litigants the to rights opposing be the of the fication order. custody child, in- having princi- child’s rather his the the than to best voted to borne pal responsibility up the majority, equally terests. And with for him the time of intentions, espe- good prior has the fallen into the same decree. The Court is most cially impressed profoundly error. and with the paternal grandfather and that the de- finds differently, Stated somewhat the both wife voted care attention and his trial majority court and the have centered the given exceptional, have child be parties the attention on which of de- even devoted grandparents.” child, serves the the what child— on dealing with life we custody whose (of Terms of the first decree —deserves. clearly should un- 1965) December be incidental, Although it days six the de- derstood. followed that if proper deemed to observe the case granting boy’s cree father a the divorce standpoint considered from which the “guilty the the had been of ground mother prevailed trial court and the with the has plain- cruel and inhuman treatment toward here, majority grave the does a decision life.” endanger tiff such as to injustice paternal with grandparents the custody the first court decree the whom the his home five of made sufficiently parent neither found years lived the he will nearly six have equipped emotionally materially be or procedendo when court. issues custody the entrusted the care of child; be grandparents sets both of boy’s principal attempt The moth- persons could suitable to whom such care er, their coun- parents (the Vaughns), willingness be expressed entrusted for her sel and who testified witnesses pater- responsibilities. (The assume these depositions taken to show assumed grandparents long nal since stability, acquired she had emo- sufficient respon- commendably discharged tionally materially, to be entrusted during years and nearly sibilities three boy’s questions the with the care. No one life. The two months of stability, fit- emotional and material or the strangers to Vaughns were then virtual ness, have paternal grandparents him.) The decree went on to recite propositions stand These de- grandparents set of neither appellees have Thus admitted. best prived chance for association with conceded, proved more than must be child, great notwithstanding the reluctance found, Alexes. as to the trial “by split of courts to of a child Further, repeated likely re- under our decisions reason of turmoil emotional past years sult” and “some reluctance in some during fitness parent provide a child who has denied for the removal cases beyond jurisdiction child court decree does not establish Court.” require interests findings custody de- original The in the express (as our decisions cree continue: “The best interests of thought) expedient (as render Code sec- however, split would seem dictate child, provides) tion 598.14 an award custody until such time as he commences parent. to such his formal the com- education. Prior to education, this: appeal now on contains mencement of a de- formal appears “It will order termination have to be made in prior fully complied with all orders permanent he can attend school on a provisions other, carefully to the family adhered basis with or the split custo- hopefully rights for them connection with with extensive visitation dy.” may mother with the other (This grandparents(em- not be set said *9 unusually phasis de- parents.) “They added) or her are

201 pa- proceeds the proper provides The court to hold the The decree mother improved boy considerably, have the grandparents ternal traceable part 2, 1966, grand- remarriage; the to her January large maternal her until husband very favorably May 30, (5 impressed court; 1966 2 to the the January fit; mother for the has stabilized and is now cus- paternal the months), grandparents months, tody alternat- 5 and thereafter for should be rather than next awarded her prior April grandparents. until the periods the ing six-months school, “when registration “a Although provides same decree review and come on for the matter will split custody arrangement longer is no appro- might further evidence proper,” custody just split it awards as indicated in as priate determination for clearly custody does the but as '(emphasis added) Findings hereof.” the time the Alexes are to have child is temporary plus decree is clear reduced from six months to 10 weeks seems until only delays every determination addition week other Christmas. in that it ready for school April before is custody many I. We have held times the two sets (April, 1967) to which of as not period one 10 weeks cus- have his future grandparents permanent having custody di- amounts to perma- tody “he attend school so can custody. vided A few such decisions other.” family or the nent with one basis Bennett, 415, 418, 203 Bennett v. 200 Iowa their counsel parents, The mother ; York, (two months) N.W. York v. appear all have so and the trial court 138-140, 28, 132, (the 32-33 22, of December 1965. the decree construed Ohio, taking the over mother’s child appellees the burden to placed upon This is, half as far from Iowa as Tucson of the preponderance plead prove summer); three weeks Thein v. each changed had so evidence circumstances 1159-1160, Squires, 1149, N. 250 Iowa or at least required the welfare of the (two moth- W.2d months with expedient permanent cus- placing made his er each v. summer). See also Smith tody See Scheffers his mother. Smith, 257 Iowa 568-569, Scheffers, 47 N.W. (summer school). vacation from 2d it pleaded precedents point The changed circumstances are These other out except that there unusual change person- has been a unwise under most ality, present here, behavior, physical to divide circumstances, and mental and custody Although condition of of a small child. Bonnie Laos that she has businessman, appeal original married a was taken from the successful is now decree, proper unwise boys it is it was mother of twin and it would be observe per- interest have at the time it was entered to divide best liv- manent between the sets two ing a decree apart. over 1300 miles Such In appeal the decree here on the trial have if could not rendered “first it court held between obvious given to governing consideration” had been the two sets grandparents custody boy. the best interests be awarded to the Alexes. con- “Experience sidering allowing mother’s claim to has shown that part to live the time in “Clearly found there been a child split part and a the time in anoth- mstody of circumstances. A household longer par- er is not not to the best interest arrangement proper, is no child, (evidently hap- ties welfare instances parents) both Ben- discipline.” pily question wholly is novo what destructive married. require.” cases, supra; interests nett and York Huston Huston, (emphasis added) *10 202 892, 898-899; Smith, supra, Smith v. 257 made without such provision for divided 588, 677, 133 and ci 679 custody. N.W.2d Thein Squires, supra, v. 250 Iowa 584 — McCrery, McCrery

tations. See also 1149, 1159, 156, 97 163. See also N.W.2d 354, 358, 876, 258 Iowa 878. 354, 138 N.W.2d McCrery v. McCrery, supra, 258 Iowa 358, 876, boy Placing 138 N.W.2d 878. important why custo- One reason divided with the Alexes the time is so much of dy is deemed unwise and not for child’s fa- further indication the trial was by best interests is card the shown this McCrery vorably impressed with them. four, Jett, mother sent when he this from case. Still further indication is paternal grandparents with his the decree: “At the time of submission Rapids: Mummy Coon is in Darling, “Jett appeal parties strongly urged put I X one of Uncle Paul’s offices. hoped paternal ruling. earnestly It is looking building. on his remember you Do they grandparents appeal. do, do If big buildings out of the windows at the to have thought does not Court want to be playing all machines and with against any findings made unwarranted you parades. come home seeing When them to bolster this decision.” mummy you will let Paul play with Uncle rec- majority appears to have II. The many toys take you buy and he will just force of what has ognized puppy pony I zvill have your dog motion, pointed reducing out on its own (Emphasis you. kisses, Mummy.” Lots of period are to have Alexes added.) York from 10 weeks one month. Under The Paul to the reference Uncle 132, 138-140, York, supra, 246 Iowa it At best second husband. mother’s 28, 32-33, divided this amounts to N.W.2d toys purchase doubtful In obvious event it is inter- pony the best him furthers to the majority’s decision more favorable year boy. Sending the of a four ests old mother, appeal, who did not than hardly so. So card to him could have done appealed decree the Alexes from. shown, pony acquisition went far as than it the card. majority’s contrary further mention of to the The action is in Tucson the repeatedly Nor was mother’s home that a recognized rule us home, actuallyi For legally may either party appeal who does not not have living he was her to tell him it was while favorable here than was ob more decision natural- grandparents with his Iowa Beat in the trial Robbins v. tained court. upon 80, 93, 12, ly have a effect the child. disturbing ty, 19, 246 Iowa 67 N.W.2d citations; Alberhasky, 250 Alberhasky v. Further, it reconcile the is difficult 986, 922; 999, Kell N.W.2d that the interests of the child finding 974, 103 v. Kallenberger, erhals 251 Iowa required taking him from his 691, 692; v. Vinton Schlotfelt moth- placing in his him 1102, 1115, Supply Co., Farmers grand- provision er’s Foods, 695, 702; Randolph him 10 weeks each should have McLaughlin, Inc. v. year plus an additional week in alternate Vaughn, maternal years. Appellee Fred Every was, this, equity, case cited like the child grandfather, would awarded exception reviewable here de novo. months to the Alexes for three summer Estate, the above rule re Larson’s weeks. He year just each rather than words, three testified. “In other so points clearly application out here. has no Iowa, in Arizona.” nine months months the child approach If it were true the welfare of III. Because of the taken to change the mother point this case seems well to out some of dictates it is should be the fundamental govern clear it. rules that *11 584, supra, 589, 677, Proce- IS, Civil 257 Iowa 133 344(f) Rules of N.W.2d Rule Maikos, 382, 147 Iowa 682; v. 260 well estab- Maikos dure, provides it deemed so is citations; v. Brown 879, be not cited 881 and lished that authorities need N.W.2d custody Iowa, 426, the child cases 428. proposition, Brown, “In 155 N.W.2d the *** governing consideration first and rule, stating opin- After the Brown child.” interest of the must be the best is change ion concludes “There such of However, repeated present decisions Iowa circumstances In the case here.” Per- upon this rule. no one has claimed there suggested elaborated somewhat or 225, 219, haps Alingh Alingh, any change v. been such of circumstances. 134, 138, most suc- so 144 does N.W.2d applicable important Another rule is in rule, the the cinctly. referring After to appellees’ argument. view of brief proceeds: “All considera- opinion other custody the right ‘Where has not been “ yield the best interests of tions must adjudicated presumed, it be ab- will in the superior Their is children. welfare contrary, sence of evidence that a Squires, 250 anyone. Thein v. claim child’s com- welfare will best be served 156, 1157, cases 1149, N.W.2d Iowa 97 custody parent. it to the a This mitting 432, 435.” cited therein. 15 A.L.R.2d presumption merely is to aid resorted to 526, 531, Halstead, 259 Halstead v. Iowa the court what is for the determining 864, quotes 861, approves and presump- best of the child.’ This interests opinion for- is Aligh. The Halstead prevail there tion does not where has been authority propositions by more tified prior custody decree. In such cases the any applicable here than decision found. de- presumption prior is in favor of Squires, supra, cree. Thein v. (250 1052, 1053— Herron, 258 Iowa Herron v. 1149, 1157, 1158).” 97 N.W.2d 156 loc. cit. 562, 563, rule 1054, states 219, 226, Alingh Alingh, supra, v. 259 “The welfare adds: quoted above 134, N.W.2d either superior to the claim of is hearing at the review Thus now under parents parent and the wishes consideration, presumption the child’s wel- (ci- little if entitled by placing fare him would be best served tations) .” grandparents or other set of Burrell, 256 Iowa Burrell v. permanently so could attend school v. Neve approves this from custody decree home town as 120, 126, N.W. Neve, say custody provided. This not to could is is best interest (children’s) “Their 341: changed if it be mother rights’ either father paramount to of circum- change shown there was mother.” boy’s interests stances such require expedient award to or make Hal- from the justices Two dissented stated, holds it her. before the decree As opinion, separate opinion, one stead between the two sets of obvious All con- Squires. v. and two from Thein to be would have longA opinions cited. all other curred in awarded Alexes. be might like effect precedents list added. true, alleges mother IV. It is as the filed, application and her times child have held

We personality, change in her be there has will not provisions a divorce condi- behavior, physical and mental and will enforcement unless their modified injustice as tion in that she has married successful positive wrong or attended the mother businessman and become Welch changed conditions. result pre- found, boys. trial twin Welch, Smith, explained, citations; viously improvement 644, and Smith large part changed mother could be traced to her stances not so that the wel- However, remarriage. believed fare these of the child ‘demands’ (as several of a change say) facts our ‘expedient’ do constitute decisions or renders (as circumstances that welfare re- 598.14 states) Code section I.C.A. quires expedient awarding or makes desired Defendant her. position doubtless in material give better *12 Freddie a home now than when the divorce matters, well as the numbered These as granted. cir- changed While “changes in set out at the circumstances” it cumstance does not entitle defendant majority’s end Division VI “as of relief best unless the interests showing present emotional matu- Bonnie’s thereby would be served.” (citations) rity,” boy, fitness to have the bear all, only remotely, but on whether if are persuaded “We it is for requires placing reason thereof his welfare interests to award to de Jpreddie’s him in As n n *” his mother. before with fendant. mother does not es- stated, fitness of the “It is not shown that the plain- home of require boy’s tablish that the best interests tiff and his mother is less desirable for award. is im- desired custodial This child than it was when the divorce was plicit in Halstead v. Hal holdings our granted. appears In fully fact it it is as stead, 526, 534, supra, 144 N.W. 259 Iowa * * *” desirable itas was then. 861, 865; Bannister, 2d 258 Painter v. 154; 1390, 152, 1393, 140 Iowa N.W.2d . grandmother “The father and taken have (“We are not with a confronted situation good care of child. There reason no contesting parties where one of the is not they to think will not do so the future. proper many a fit person.”) others Freddie grown has strong, healthy and generally under facts. similar contented. He has Sunday attended school regularly. Strong bonds of affection have remarriage We held times several grown between the grandmother father, of one or both divorced is insuffi- and child during years the four de- since change custody provi- cient to call for a fendant plaintiff left and the child. To apparent recogni- sions In decree. take the present child from his home and precedents majority tion these as- place him with defendant would ex- be an remarriage, serts the results of the periment which should not be made under remarriage alone, permit ** *” the showing here. change This seems play any event, a mere on words. “We approved this statement which ‘ remarriage number of our decisions hold applicable here: “When a child is le- accompanied by results claimed gally placed in a home where it receives do change here not dictate a of child custo- good treatment training, moral dy. precedent And has been cited that should never home, be removed from that ’ supports appealed the decision under except for the cogent most (ci- reasons.” comparable tations)” facts. Under Scheffers generally facts Scheffers v. Scheffers similar has been followed 563, Scheffers, 569-570, McCrery v. 242 N. times. 47 McCrery, supra, v. 160-161, 157, change W.2d reverses 138 N.W.2d quotes excerpts These are mother. first sentence from the above opinion: excerpt. from the '**

“The weakness defendant’s case York York, supra, 136— that changed is not there are no circum- 31, briefly N.W.2d reviews sev- eral prior stances since the circum- opinions divorce and continues lan- guage applicable A pointed here: out dren. “We number witnesses testified here, person, deposition Bennett Bennett N. rather than (200 26) exemplary to her (240 W. and Dow v. Dow reformation and conduct. although complaint was There was 853) the mother also as to in better time of shown the circumstances than at the children who were divided be- decree, original father that fact alone was not tween two families with whom the placed circum them. there is no change sufficient conditions and As stated, properly stances claim here under the statute as warrant not been provision the character fit- modification of the cared nor as to custodial * * *” ness the Alexes. We reversed the decree. Thein, award of to the mother think, fails, record we “Here the show nature saying “To so would be in the do or conditions circumstances experiment not be made which *13 directly the children. related to the care of upon showing the There is no rea- here. of page held in the Dow case 151 We [at will not as to the children be son think Iowa, the ‘trial that by in the future 853] well cared for defendants n in an right changing was not order they past.” in the been a gave upon father show- custody, the opinion applies the Thein This from es- had remarried and ing the mother here: ability had financial tablished a home and us support the The case before child.’ its “In its outlines case finds broad also strikingly similar for here many that have counterpart good in a and circum- change where, real of conditions years in due come before us recent the de- remarriage stances is the of shown unwillingness of one or inability or a change con- fendant-mother. The desirable home or make a both from ill, with- funds, child, being dition without provide a it is good young care for of place children, a a an placed person. out third After ex- with a for married, housewife, with zuith home suit- period parent’s situation is tended children, change probably provide to rear able she can changed so facilities conditions, custody but relates the child and its circumstances and home for good of to the exception, than the children.” rather is demanded. Almost without defendant among the mem- added) disagreement (emphasis little court, held the we have bers trial York v. York reverses the also demanding parent the situation ap- repeatedly it too court and has for custody the child’s is insufficient basis Cramer, proved. g, e. Rahn v. See arrange- disturbing existing custodial 116, 120-121, 926- Iowa living ment. few of our cases have 927. arrangements sought changed existed period we have such an extended appel- present stronger case is Many (Citing decisions.) here. 10 Iowa appellants’ rever- than was claim to lants might other decisions be cited.” Squires, supra, Thein v. sal Although 1158-1160, Although justices 97 N.W.2d 156. dissented from the two opinion, at seven later children there Thein least mother of two including remarried, guilty approval, opinions she was alcoholic cited with Wendel, the di- 1126— contact when occasional immoral Wendel 434-435, written refrained from granted. vorce She Thein, and con and oth- the writer liquor dissent use of and immoral conduct during part in the curred in all deci who took properly erwise demeaned herself supra, Alingh trial sion. See Alingh, too years before the two and third 219, 144 custody the chil- N.W.2d application asking excerpts Rapids airport v. Hal These from Halstead Coon Omaha and stead, supra, 259 deliver him the to be flown mother 861, 864, 867, are also respectively, Vaughn Mr. and Bonnie Tucson. and Mrs. pertinent fully here: aware the terms of the placing grandson “Also, person if the lawful care having in the care of the Vaughns. sought the time child at its properly provided changed to be The decree now review under found that supervised social, educational its moral and at the time of the first submission of the time, period a substantial needs for custody question the mother demonstrated become attached to envi- child has depressing amount emotional immatu- people ronment who have made rity reality. manifested as a lack of She possible com- happiness, security and herself testified at the hearing second early years, justi- fort a court is not of its time prior herself at the transferring fied in to another hearing, just placed before reasons, (ci- except cogent most her care for flight to Tucson. * *” * tations) appears dispute without that when the “Too in his life this times short ready were getting Alexes for his first subjected lad emo- has been to the severe stay five-months he cried con- experience tional being shunted stantly go. didn’t want to 'This also *14 another for reason attrib- home to no happened appellees’ attorney when came respondents. utable to him or these Grant boy the November 1966 for his sec- petitioner only of custody to serve stay ond five-months in Tucson. It also is expose him to the of another to hazards dispute shown without when Mr. and possibly physical more and severe Alex Mrs. went to return to the to Tucson upheaval mental than encountered he has boy stay to Iowa at the his first end of past, (citations)” in the jumped in Mrs. arms and wouldn’t Alex’s go. suggestion boy let At the Mr. Alex’s V. Some of evidence should matters then kissed Mrs. but refused to Vaughn While the commends mentioned. decree his mother goodbye. kiss paternal grandparents adhering the to provisions the re- original of the decree Further, parents Bonnie lived her split significantly custody, it the is garding during the period first five-months Jett praise appellees. to silent as such was in Tucson they delegated her to periods the When two five-months each of the care boy of the which the trial court end, boy the was Tucson came to they found to willing assume. Both bring Alexes went there to him back to parents so part testified. During of the Rapids, a trip Coon round some 2700 time the Vaughns were in Angeles. Los Vaughn miles. one occasion Mr. was On was not only This a violation of the terms home, Mr. his home knew Alex was in decree asking was done without get boy, to but did trouble not take or obtaining consent either the court or greet to even him or see him. attorney. their original custody Although decree time bring When came boy to equipped found the mother was not then Tucson for stay his second five-months emotionally to be entrusted with the Vaughns again delegated the task to their provided parents her daughter attorney again their who de- responsibility commenc- livered airport. at the Omaha Jett entered, ing days after the throughout decree was stay And (and last) this second they attorney- left it their permitted the Vaughns —-doubtless Jett stranger boy him mother, take from live full time with his whom —to developed Bon- rights, Incidentally, also from had denied custodial testimony This home. nie’s her second husband in the latter’s second husband permission building office in the marked with asking done without was also attorney and postcard boy an “X” their on she sent the the court or even of explained I, supra. the Alexes. in Division informing without above mentioned insofar matters testimony Mr. clearly appears the It they may question bear on vital than hon- regard was less Vaughn this sending whether to Tucson live Laos boy lived He est. said permanently clearly in- will serve his best percent of the time home credibility They terests. also bear on Laos, Mr. admit the truth which refused to appellees weight and the as witnesses testimony. It credit, divulged his his deserves, testimony fairly on also appellees to evidently purpose considered infra. what is knowledge the because of conceal truth had not been observed. terms the decree agree appellants’ I conten- VI. cannot summarily rejected in Division tion so ap- noted, too, that under the quoted VIII is well answered what is permanent- live boy would pealed from this Heuvel, Vanden Heuvel v. Vanden from three sets ly children in a home with 1391, 1403-1404,121 Laos’ son during the time Mr. only authority appellees’ cited in there. Such prior marriage was asserts, and brief this issue. The brief undesirable and frequently situation indicates, excerpt from Vanden Heuvel the children. the welfare of conducive to policy law against the rule it is ju- permit of a child from the removal Alex Upon the trial Grandmother would be risdiction unless welfare its not write by claiming did criticized ordinarily custody thereby, served in Arizona. stay during nonresident, is should not be awarded to “The first time Bonnie testified: usually applied where divided *15 me once. didn’t write in Arizona Florence considered, party where lives outside letter very upset.” shown I was When state, by permitting the child to be May 11, her to the Alexes by written may arise to obtain litigation taken there and cards developed the letters To the brief and Van- its return. this Jett, Alex were addressed to Mrs. quotation add “No situa- den Heuvel Bonnie, half, than to and a rather three contemplated.” tion is here Vaughn at the home were received but quoted The last statement was true in It is appellees then lived. the three where the cited case obviously is not true mother, who cared the child’s obvious Quite contrary, here. that is the situa- and cards boy, read the letters tion here. The decree clearly provides ignored. Jett, they if addressed divided parent between a in Tuc- “Dear Fami- 11th read: May letter son and Further, in Iowa. lovely cards your all ly: you appellees Thank have not observed the terms my Mom, you for thank High and letters. first decree and there is no definite * * (em- *. they man. assurance ginger bread would observe the terms Jett.” Finally, exami- redirect phasis added) one. parents Vanden Heuvel both wrote “Florence nation Bonnie testified lived in Michigan, the child was born there, time the first in Tucson procured he was when divorce there by was Jett but she Ime. personally to never wrote who awarded wife It would either.” child. Florence At the urging never wrote of the husband the criticism wife Bonnie’s had taken the parents seem the basis for child to his kept thin. temporarily Alex was rather during the Grandmother wife’s she illness, gave assurance could the child from Iowa us “some con- have the child when recovered from Many cern” in Vanden Heuvel. other adequately precedents illness and able care support ques- which the rule for him. After from her tion recovering Herron, supra, illness include Herron v. request for return of the child was de- corpus nied and her Brown, Iowa, action in habeas supra, fol- Brown v.

lowed. 428. 27B See Divorce § C.J.S. Iowa, Here the hoped lived enough di- It is has been said to dem- procured vorce was here appellees husband onstrate failed to establish wife, husband, preponderance as well as the of the evidence this little denied pointed the child. As requires expedient welfare or makes III, out in supra, Division the wife was taking grandparents’ him from his home not entitled presumption applicable to the Iowa and placing him with mother and — in Vanden Heuvel —that the child was bet- her second husband in Tucson. ter off in the the mother. I would the mother reverse, giving unnecessary cite right to have the child not more than one recognize decisions which the rule at stated month each summer and not a week over beginning of this division. cita- See every other Christmastime. tions in the opinion, Vanden Heuvel supra, page Iowa, page 223 of

N.W.2d. The mother’s intention to remove RAWLINGS, J., joins in this dissent.

Case Details

Case Name: Alex v. Alex
Court Name: Supreme Court of Iowa
Date Published: Sep 17, 1968
Citation: 161 N.W.2d 192
Docket Number: 53105
Court Abbreviation: Iowa
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