This case involves a custody dispute between the mother, father, and maternal grandparents of a minor child, Aaron McLendon Adams (Aaron). Aaron was born on 15 February 1998 as a result of a single instance of unprotected sexual intercourse in July 1997 between defendant, Erin Christina Tessener (Tessener), and intervenor, Edward Scott Laсkey (Lackey). In September 1997, Tessener informed Lackey that she was pregnant and that he was likely the father. Lackey took no action at that time.
Aaron was born prematurely and required extended hospitalization after birth. He had health problems and special medical needs in the first ten months of his life which rеquired costly medical visits, daily medication, and constant attachment to a heart monitor. Aaron continues to have developmental difficulties.
*59 After Aaron’s birth, Tessener moved in with her parents, plaintiffs Ann and Dexter Adams, Aaron’s grandparents. When Aaron was released from the hospital, he also lived with the Adams. Betweеn February and April 1998, Tessener decided to leave the Adams’ home. By “Consent Custody Agreement, Order and Confession of Judgment” filed 7 April 1998 (the Consent Judgment), Tessener and the Adams agreed that Tessener was not fit to have primary physical custody of Aaron. They further agreed that the Adams were fit and proper persons to have primary physical custody and that Aaron’s best interests would be served thereby. Accordingly, the trial court ordered that Aaron’s primary physical custody remain with the Adams.
In June 1998 Tessener informed Lackey that the Department of Social Services (DSS) would contact him about a potential child support obligation. Lackey made no inquiry concerning Aaron. DSS subsequently located Lackey and conducted DNA testing which conclusively determined that Lackey was Aaron’s father. Lackey then executed a voluntary support agreement and has provided child support for Aaron since that time.
In October and November 1998, Lackey visited Aаron at the Adams’ residence three times and removed him from the residence for one afternoon visit. On 30 October 1998 Tessener filed a motion in the cause seeking modification of the Consent Judgment. On 23 November 1998 Lackey filed a motion to intervene seeking custody of Aaron.
The matter was heard at the 2 February 1999 contested domestic session of District Court, Burke County. The trial court concluded that Tessener was not fit to have custody of Aaron. Tessener has not appealed that determination. The trial court further concluded that “[t]he actions and conduct of the Intervenor [Lackey] have been inconsistent with his protectеd interest in the minor child. Specifically, the conduct of Intervenor . . . proves that he is unfit to have the primary and legal care, custody and control of the minor child. Therefore, pursuant to
Price v. Howard,
Lackey appealed to the Court of Appeals. The Court of Appeals held that the trial court’s findings of fact were insufficient to support
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the conclusion that Lackey was unfit to have custody of Aaron.
Adams v. Tessener,
This Court has recognized that the protection of the family unit is guaranteed by the Ninth and Fourteenth Amendments to the United States Constitution.
Petersen v. Rogers,
We further elaborated on this principle in
Price v. Howard,
The trial court concluded that both the plaintiff and the dеfendant were fit and proper to have custody of the child.
Id.
at 71,
In a custody proceeding between two natural parents (including biоlogical or adoptive parents), or between two parties who are not natural parents, the trial court must determine custody based on the “best interest of the child” test.
Id.
at 72,
This Court reaffirmed that a natural parent has a constitutionally protected “liberty interest in the companionship, custody, care and control of his or her child.”
Id.
at 74,
The Court noted
“that the Due Process Clause would be offended ‘[i]f a [s]tate were to attempt to force the breakup of a natural family, over the objections of the parents and their children, without some showing of unfitness and for the sole reason thаt to do so was thought to be in the children’s best interest.’ Smith v. Organization of Foster Families,431 U.S. 816 , 862-63,53 L. Ed. 2d 14 , [46-47 (1977)] (Stewart, J., concurring in judgment).”
Id.
at 78,
A natural parent’s constitutionally protected paramount interest in the companionship, custody, care, and control of his or her child is a counterpart of the parental responsibilities the parent has assumed and is based on a presumption that he or she *62 will act in the best interest of the child. Therefore, the parent may no longer enjoy a paramount status if his or her conduct is inconsistent with this presumption or if he or she fails to shoulder the respоnsibilities that are attendant to rearing a child. If a natural parent’s conduct has not been inconsistent with his or her constitutionally protected status, application of the “best interest of the child” standard in a custody dispute with a nonparent would offend the Due Process Clause. However, conduct inconsistent with the parent’s protected status . . . would result in application of the “best interest of the child” test without offending the Due Process Clause. Unfitness, neglect, and abandonment clearly constitute conduct inconsistent with the protected status parents may enjoy.
Id.
at 79,
Finding the situation in
Price
involved “a period of voluntary non-parent custody rather than unfitness or neglect,”
id.
at 82,
Petersen
and
Price,
when read together, protect a natural parent’s paramount constitutional right to custody and control of his or her children. The Due Process Clause ensures that the government cannot unconstitutionally infringe upon a parent’s paramount right to custody solely to obtain a bеtter result for the child.
See Troxel,
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Turning to the present case, we first note that in custody cases, the trial court sees the parties in person and listens to all the witnesses.
Pulliam v. Smith,
We are also cognizant of the fact that when a trial cоurt “refuse[s] to award custody to either the mother or father and instead award[s] the custody of the child to grandparents or others . . . [the] ‘parent’s love must yield to another’ ” to serve the child’s best interests.
Wilson,
In the present case, the trial court sрecifically determined that Lackey’s “actions and conduct . . . have been inconsistent with his protected interest in the minor child.” The trial court made the following findings of fact:
5. Erin Christina Tessener—hereinafter referred to as Defendant—met Edward Scott Lackey—hereinafter referred to as Intervenor—at [a bar] in Catаwba County during July 1997.
*64 6. The Defendant and the Intervenor—who were both intoxicated—had unprotected sexual intercourse the night they met.
7. Neither party knew the other’s last name when they parted the following morning.
8. Defendant became pregnant as a result of the meeting.
10. Defendant located Intervenor in September 1997 and informed him of her pregnancy and the likelihood that he had fathеred the child.
11. Intervenor chose to do nothing about the pregnancy and impending birth.
12. Intervenor never voluntarily contacted Defendant after that meeting—before or after the birth of the child—to inquire about the health and progress of the mother or child or to inquire further about whether he had fathered the child.
22. In June of 1998, Dеfendant located Intervenor and informed him he would be contacted by the Department of Social Services regarding a potential child support obligation.
23. Intervenor, once again, did not pursue any inquiry about the mother or child.
47. Scott Lackey/Intervenor has worked for thirteen years at Holland Alignment and Service, a business belonging to his uncle. He also volunteers with the Mountain View Volunteer Fire Department.
48. Intervenor is married, but has been separated for two years. There is no formal separation agreement.
49. Intervenor owns his own residence.
50. Intervenor has a girlfriend, Sherry Letterman, who stays overnight with him approximately five nights a week. Ms. Letterman has two minor children who also stay overnight frequently with Mr. Lackey.
*65 51. Intervenor has a brother, Bobby Lackey, who stays with him on occasion for several days at a time. Bobby Lackey has prior criminal convictions for taking indecent' liberties with a minor child, simple assault, damage to property, assault on a female (two counts), DWI, аppearing drunk and disruptive in a public place, assault on a law-enforcement officer, and delaying and obstructing an[] officer. Numerous other charges have been dismissed.
52. Intervenor has prior criminal convictions for driving an automobile with no insurance or registration, driving while his license was revoked, appearing drunk and disruptive in a public place, two counts of careless and reckless driving (which were plea negotiations after he had been charged with two counts of driving while impaired) and delaying and obstructing a law enforcement officer.
53. Intervenor repeatedly denies responsibility for his ■ actions with respeсt to his criminal charges and convictions.
54. Intervenor admits he has violated the terms of the court orders in the above convictions.
55. Intervenor denies the serious nature of his brother’s convictions.
56. Intervenor admits to drinking alcoholic beverages and frequenting bars. He states he does not have a substance abuse problem.
57. Intervenor, when visiting his son Aaron, has shown affection and appropriate behavior to his son.
58. Intervenor states he wants to take care of his son, and is capable of doing so.
59. Intervenor’s schedule is irregular because of his full time job and the work as a volunteer fireman.
60. At the time of the hearing, Intervenor hаd only seen [his son] seven times since birth.
Lackey does not dispute that the evidence supports these findings and has not otherwise assigned error to any of the trial court’s findings of fact. We must therefore determine whether the trial court’s findings support its legal conclusion that Lackey’s conduct has been inconsistent with his protеcted interest in the minor child.
*66 The trial court found that Tessener informed Lackey of her pregnancy and the likelihood that he had fathered the child in September 1997. Nonetheless, according to the trial court, Lackey elected to do “nothing” about the pregnancy and impending birth. The trial court determined that Laсkey never voluntarily contacted Tessener after that meeting—before or after the birth of the child— to inquire about the health and progress of the child or to inquire further about whether he had fathered the child. The trial court also found that, in June 1998, Tessener located Lackey and informed him that DSS would contact him regаrding a potential child support obligation. According to the trial court, Lackey again did not pursue any inquiry about the child.
The trial court’s findings of fact are sufficient, when viewed cumulatively, to support its conclusion that Lackey’s conduct was inconsistent with his protected interest in the child. Moreover, the evidence of record constitutes clear and convincing proof that Lackey’s conduct was inconsistent with his right to custody of the child. Accordingly, the trial court did not err in applying the “best interest of the child” standard and in determining that Aaron’s interests were best served by maintaining his primary physical custody with the Adams.
Accordingly, we reverse the decision of the Court of Appeals.
REVERSED.
